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⭒⋆♞ Hey, it's miserymeats ⋆⭒

I go by Mis or Kat, I don't mind. I'm 24 y/o and use any pronouns with a preference for they/them.

Nico Hischier wife. Jesper Wallstedt protector. Jack Finley lover. Goalie supporter! Learning hockey as I go, occasionally writing. Most often can be found either watching hockey or riding horses.

mdni. 18+. nsfw. I am an adult writing for other adults.

You can join my taglist! I write randomly and awkwardly, so keep up with whatever you desire!

⭒⋆♞ tag system ⋆⭒

misery yaps: randomly yapping

misery rides: me sharing my horses (I have 2)

misery watches: watching something, most likely a hockey game

misery fic: I write, apparently

misery imagine: I came up with this writing, apparently

misery recs: fics I HIGHLY recommend!

misery photography: pictures I’ve taken

misery answers: answering my inbox which is open btw <3

my requests and inbox are open/closed! I can't guarantee I'll get it done in a timely manner but I will be happy to dream along with you!

You can find my masterlist here! Thanks for reading! If you have any questions, feel free to send them! I'd be happy to answer!

#misery blog

raikkonens

frightfullytreeish

reblog to slowblink at your mutuals

I recently finished watching off campus and I’m now in need of any fics with reader and all 4 guys. Anyone know of any?

#misery yaps #off campus

pyromanicdaydreamer

anyway happy pride to Seth Jarvis and his friends. nothing gayer than scoring a game winner in overtime while your besties in homemade wag jackets are in the building

tendietandem

notlayingroses

in my opinion, the question isn't "Is RPF ethical?" but rather "Are you engaging with RPF ethically?" and even more importantly, "Are you being stupid about it?"

I personally hate any kind morality thought policing. I'm not Catholic or religious and I do not feel guilty over my thoughts. You are not an inherently evil person because you saw two athletes in an interview and went "Hmmm...... what if...." The Feds are not going to come banging down your door because you wrote about one band member dicking down the other and sent it to your friend.

Wondering about other people's lives is very human. Being nosy about their personal lives is very normal. People have been writing fiction about other people's lives since the dawn of time. Some people even manage to write New York Times Bestselling Books that are "historical fiction" or "alternate reality." It does not make you inherently bad to be curious about the details of someone's personal life. That's being human. Being nosy is kind of fun.

The problem, however, comes with the ways in which people engage with it, and involve the real people in this. Harassing an musician's real girlfriend because it doesn't fit into the RPF ship. Showing up at real sporting events holding signs about how certain teammates should kiss. Trying to get actors to sign art of them fucking their coworker. Flooding social media with comments using the celebrity's full name and speculation. There's a line, there's a fourth wall, and there's fandom etiquette.

I hate the question of "Is RPF ethical" because it feels like morality thought policing. Post your fics on locked accounts, censor someone's name when you tweet about it, blow up your groupchat with hundreds of "DID YOU SEE THE WAY THEY LOOKED AT EACH OTHER??" texts. It's not inherently evil to wonder what other people are doing when they're out of the spotlight. Kill the cop in your mind.

But just have some basic decency and do not involve the real people. Don't cross the line without caring how it affects them. This is basic fandom 101 and lately we have been flying too close to the damn sun! Everyone get more normal about RPF so major news outlets and magazines stop posting articles about "Is RPF ethical?" and blowing up our spot!

hocceius

my friend steve dangle

idkbutnothereanymore-deactivate

✨reblog if you're accepting anonymous asks about anything✨

roysflowers

no more daddy. in 2026 all men whimper on floor pathetic

sidfrogsby

forgot to post this from yesterday he’s almost at werewolf stage huzzah!!!!

goth-queen

I canNOT stop thinking about the avs goalies. Idek who is who but that clip of that one interview thing where the one grabs the others helmet cage????? HELLOOOOOO???

#misery yaps #avs goalies #i'm not really an avs fan but I AM a goalie fan #the amount of impure thoughts #someone help me

chippergoose

I keep wanting to add to my wip Wally and Gus fic because I've had it in the works for the longest time. I am just so tired all the time, though. Why does my body hate me and the idea of writing the most self-indulgent fic ever?

#misery yaps