someone, somewhere, is feeling exactly like you do

we're just 3 girls trying to make a difference.. trust us, we'll always do our best to help you xx

[miss--advices]

I just feel like an idiot sometimes. I know I'm not stupid but I always come across that way to some people. & I'm so self conscious about it. I always worry about if people think I'm really stupid. I feel like everyone at work thinks I am too. I mess up a lot and they're simple tasks and i just feel so stupid. Can you give me any advice to help not worry or try not to think this way and not care what anyone thinks?

Just be POSITIVE :) People don't think you're stupid. It's just your self conscious telling you that. We tend to tell ourselves lots of negative things when in reality NONE of it is true. Just don't compare yourself to others, that can cause you to think lots of negative thoughts. And really the only way to not think that way and to not care what people think is just to stay positive and have the mentality that you just don't care what anyone thinks because you are who you are and you aren't going to please everyone no matter how hard you try. Just be content with yourself, love :)

[miss--advices]

it's been a while guys, does anyone want to talk or need advice? ♡

[miss--advices]

I have a friend who is always so sad and alone and i think it would mean a lot for her to get a few nice messages. Would it be too much trouble for me to ask that you maybe have your followers send her a few uplifting messages? her tumblr is illbeyourbreath thank you <3

SEND LOVE GUYS<3

[miss--advices]

my best friend started cutting and wasnt eating so myself and another close friend went to the counseller. she some how found out that we went and now she hates both of us. she has gotten much much worse and i try to help her but she tells me that everything is fine and that it doesnt matter. what do i do?

hi sweetie!

congratulations on being a wonderful friend. you and your other friend did the best and right thing. your best friend needs help, and you need to get her that help: try to tell people around her, for example her parents. she needs as much support as she can get if she wants to recover. don’t give up, honey, one day your best friend will thank you with all her heart. good luck xxx

-Julie-Pier 

[miss--advices]

I feel like I need a guy's opinion on this but just yesterday was my last day of school and after my last exam I went right up to my crush and flat out told him "I like you, good luck on your last exam" and he smiled and said thank you and as I turned and started walking away, I could have sworn I heard him say clearly, "I like you too". One of my guy friends who has been there for me forever said that if a girl did that to him, he'd be shocked. & he said it's possible my crush said those words.

That was really brave of you darling! I think it is possible he said those words if you heard it. If you want to know for sure, maybe ask him if that's what he said? Good luck!

-Hillary

[miss--advices]

there's this special person & we used to have nice conversations through messages. One day I got really mad for no reason and told her something really mean. ever since then she hasn't answered me, even though I have sent her 35 messages.I have apologized many times. WHAT SHOULD I DO? :( please help

I think you should apologize sincerely in person. It means more when it's face to face.

-Hillary

[miss--advices]

Part 4: I don't know which guy to choose and I would really like some advice. Please don't tell me that I shouldn't have to choose between them because I really must choose. So please just help me decide who to keep as a friend.

hi love! honestly, it really depends on a lot of things. i can't really choose for you, since i don't know details about those two guys. but i think that a good friend should be nice to you and accept you as you are, with the friends you have, even if they don't like them. it's your choice, but think about this: what qualities are you looking for in a friend? who has most of those qualities between the two? good luck xxx

-Julie-Pier

[miss--advices]

message me if you need advice or just wanna talk xx

-Julie-Pier

[miss--advices]

Hello! I really love your advices, I'm just starting out mine but in a different way, would you be a doll and just take a peek at mine?

thank you! it's really cute, keep up the good work babe:)

-Julie-Pier

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SEND ME A QUESTION AND GET PROMOTED TO X, XXX ♡

please guys i’m home alone and really bored:((

[miss--advices]

anyone online? xx

i'm here baby! what's going on? xx

-Julie-Pier

[miss--advices]

hey :) i'm a new advice blog and i was wondering if you could tell your followers about it? i would appreciate that so much. thank you!

GUYS^^

[miss--advices]

so im pretty confident that this guy likes me, i like him back! but i feel like he doesn't know that.. i think if i told him he might ask me out, but im afraid to tell him just incase he doesnt like me back. I just dont have the confidence to confront him and im extremely shy. idk what to do...

I think you should just tell him! You'll never know if you don't try! Good luck, dear, I know you can do it :)

-Hillary

[miss--advices]

hi :) i have a bestfriend and i'm kinda getting mixed signals from him... i know he doesn't love me because i've already asked him, and he's in a relationship. sometimes he completely ignores me, but other times he's really close to me and we're almost kissing.. it's kinda confusing actually :/ what do you think?

hi love:)

i think maybe you should have a little conversation with him. if he really is in a relationship, then maybe he shouldn't get so close to you that you're almost kissing, you know? but at the same time, if you like him and he gets to like you, then you too should go for it. don't worry, everyone's complicated sometimes, it will be alright. good luck<3

-Julie-Pier

[miss--advices]

(1/2)is just a number, that there are more important things than that. but i just can't help it. i don't mind being short, but sometimes i wish he was a little taller. he had asked me if i don't mind dating a guy short like me, i don't want to make him feel bad, but yeah sometimes i do. i love him so much, no one has ever made me feel the way he makes me feel. but sometimes it his height makes me wonder :/

Just try to remember that love is from the inside. Not on appearance. He's a couple inches taller, it's not too big of a deal. Just remember that you love him!

-Hillary

[miss--advices]

(12) /hi, i am in a relationship, and my boyfriend is the sweetest, and i love him to death. i'm 19 & he is 18. i'm 5'2 and he is 5'4. first i kind of didn't want to date him because of his height, but i gave it a try anyways. i love him so much and "height" didn't matter anymore. i thought that he was going to grow up a little taller, but he went to the doctor, and said he has a problem in his back that kept him from growing up. i felt kind of bad, and i keep repeating to myself that "height"

[miss--advices]

Hi! How do i make him love me again? he broke up with me and now he's pushing me away and he says i'm annoying but i can't stop, i always pursue him what do i do?

you can't force someone to be in love with you, darling. first, there is a reason why he broke up with you, and if you don't know that reason, you should maybe ask him about it so you'll know exactly what went wrong. second, i totally understand that you're in love with him, and it's okay, don't worry. try to talk to him seriously, see if you both can work things out, and if you can't, then i'm sorry honey but you'll have to move on. i know how hard this is, but you're going to be okay, trust me. stay strong and good luck xxx

-Julie-Pier