There is a difference between pleasurable pain and actually pain. If she says it hurts during sex, and itâs not something she normally says, change positions. If youâre finger fucking her and she says it hurts, stop what youâre doing and ask why and where it hurts. Sometimes itâs just a matter of angle. Donât make her feel bad because she needs to use lube because you take an hour to cum and she canât get off from penetration. The vagina is strong but the flesh of it is sensitive. Trim your nails. Donât assume every one likes to be finger banged like youâre button mashing your Xbox controller. Donât go in dry. Make sure sheâs ready! Give her an orgasm before you fuck her!
And Jesus Christ donât just fuck her for an hour or more straight. If you last longer than 15-30 minutes of just sex (no foreplay, just straight penetration) change it up! Switch to 69, eat her pussy and stroke your cock, masturbate mutually. Spend some time kissing and touching her. GET HER AROUSED AND SQUIRMING ALL OVER AGAIN.
The majority of women canât have orgasms from penetration. I donât know about other women, but it drives me insane when a guy lasts a really long time, because after awhile, it stops being fun. I stop getting wet. It starts to hurt, but me and many women are afraid to say something about it! CHANGE IT UP. Just because it feels good to you, doesnât mean it feels good to her too. Rub her clit with your thumb, put a vibrator on her clit. If she can orgasm from anal stimulation, finger her ass while you fuck her.
Stop worrying about JUST YOUR PLEASURE. Nobody likes to be fucked until theyâre raw. It hurts. And it makes future play time not fun for a few hours/days.
If sheâs wincing and trying to pull away, it hurts. FOCUS ON YOUR GIRL. Her body might be saying something different than her mouth, especially if sheâs afraid of disappointing you, SO PAY ATTENTION.
RESPECT HER FUCKING LIMITS.
If sheâs not ready to try anal, sheâs not.
If she NEVER wants to try anal, itâs not happening, donât push it.
If she doesnât want to be gagged, donât gag her and donât push it.
If she says she doesnât like when you do something, for x, y, or z, DO NOT FUCKING DO IT.
Respect each other, care about each other, please each other and love each other like mad!
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