Reggie 🍓🌈

He/it • chrono22 + ageless adult • https://guns.lol/mistlenna • don't have a dni I block freely, follow your own dni • pro-para

[m00nst0n]

I do NOT support qwel in ANY way of form

(Tw incest)

I really like they’re dynamic it’s interesting in a way

[transfem-issues]

I wish people stopped despising men who are feminine/"in womens spaces". Like god forbid somebody explores? Even if they don't end up being trans or this or that, who cares? Why can't that man buy panties or a bra? Why can't that man live vicariously in yuri? Who cares if that person who Looks Like A Man to you is in the lesbian bar not bothering anyone?

Genuinely too many of you have yet to let go of the patriarchy's brainwashing about the Evil Masculine trying to invade your pure feminine female spaces, and it harms people. I don't care if someone ends up cis, or even doesn't end up GNC & just is a masculine man later on. It literally harms nobody to let people in the same space as you without clutching your pearls.

And you shouldn't take this to heart because the person may be queer, you should take this to heart because fuck you why are you upholding oppressive social systems?

[cadtap]

Deltarune I saw in a dream last night

[merrnnnnnnnnn]

dawg I think they’d rather just go on a date with berdly

[transfem-issues]

An issue the trans community has is still viewing nonbinary or multigendered people as still viewed as "basically a transman/trans woman".

The person's identity is viewed through the lense of whatever their AGAB is.

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Example: Somebody who was AFAB & is bigender is more likely to be viewed as a transmasc who just happens to have some femininity added in. They are still expected to consider themselves a man, transition in a way that's 'typically masculine', & abandon their own womanhood.

The moment this person expresses their womanhood in any way their identity is immediately called into question. Because the trans community cannot imagine people who are not in the FTM/MTF binary. Your experiences *must* fit the most typical model of what people experience.

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Nonbinary people who are agender/similar have a similar experience.. their AGAB is always called into question to see what category they "really" fall into. You can't just be nonbinary & not connected to transfeminity (trans woman lite) or transmasculinity (trans man lite), we need to figure out where you 'actually' belong..

That's why you see so many more people going "are you transfem or transmasc?". Even though it carves out a larg portion of the community, people only see two categories and must force you into their binary.

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This isn't even touching on how the lack of grey area immediately screws over any intersex person either..

People have decided thay AGAB=where you're transitioning. What your identity "really" is, and it is nothinh less than transphobic.

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The people in the community who enforce things like this need to start deconstructing sex & gender more than just "sometimes you're born in a girl body but you're actually a guy" & vice versa. You cannot claim to support your fellow trans people without putting in the work to support them all. This needs to end.

[this-is-multigenderphobia]

[pt: An issue the trans community has is still viewing nonbinary or multigendered people as still viewed as "basically a transman/trans woman".]

[pt: The people in the community who enforce things like this need to start deconstructing sex & gender more than just "sometimes you're born in a girl body but you're actually a guy" & vice versa. You cannot claim to support your fellow trans people without putting in the work to support them all. This needs to end. ]

Op you are so real for this, thank you so much for putting this into words. As a multigender person and as the one who runs this blog I see so many submissions that talk about this specifically, about how non binary and multigender people get constantly reinforced to be either transfem or transmasc based on their assignment, and it's such a dysphoria inducing experience to be imposed an identity when you've already been through that your whole life. It's dreadful to see the supposed safe space for everyone who's not binary cis to replicate the same mechanics of transphobia.

Not only is that person's identity viewed through the lense of their agab, but the *legitimacy of their experiences and feelings and experiences* is also filtered through the assumption of agab and the bias of whoever is looking.

It also ignores how there are more identities like transneutral, transoutherine, transxenine, transandrogynous, etc, and how binary trans people can be those identities too! Something so complex as the gender of a multigendered or non binary person for example is simplified by others as 'essentially [this]' instead of seen in its entirity. I mention this in regards to multitrans identities like transfemmasc or transmascneu or transfemxen and others. Anyway thank you for this post, it made me feel heard

[okie-dokidoki]

YOU CAN'T EVEN SAY NO LIKE YOU USED TO.

[rabbitkinglune777]

ouppy dog fursona🐕

[tunya-34]

*Haha...it's...colder than I thought.

[beaniebuggz]

“the words i’ve been waiting to hear.”

[agrexo]

radqueer pride hearts

time taken: about 2 hours? all are 30 x 30 pixels reblog if using credit if reposting. i am very open to requests about making more of these!! thank you!

from left to right: radq, transid, para map, zoo, necro incest, objecto, consang, aam

[herr-doktorrr]

how it genuinely feels to see other queers talk shit about radqueers 🫩

[dhddmods]

Stop watering down and censoring words!

[PT: Stop watering down and censoring words! /End PT]

"Plus-sized" "Big-boned." "Fluffy." Fat. Fat is not a bad word. Skinny is not a bad word, buff is not a bad word, so why should fat be? Fatness is a natural body type. Stop making fat into a bad word. (Also, plus-sized pisses me off because plus WHAT? It implies a specific body type is "normal" and that being fat is "plus that.")

"Differability" "Differently abled" Disability. Disabled. Disabled isn't a bad word, disability isn't something to be ashamed of, and watering down terminology isn't fucking helping anyone.

"Neurospicy" Neurodivergent. Can we stop quirkifying neurodivergence? Neurodivergent people can be quirky, but please stop saying "all my neurospicy folks" and "neurospicies" and whatever. If you like these words for yourself, thats one thing, but stop using it unironically on other people!

"Sewerslide" Suicide. Stop censoring the topic of suicide, for the love of God. People suffering from suicidal ideation and people who have committed suicide deserve so much better than this baby talk.

"Unalived" Died. Murdered. Suicide. Whatever you mean.

"Grape" "Graped" Rape. Sexual assault. For fucks sake, VICTIMS DESERVE BETTER THAN HAVING A FOOD ITEM USED FOR THEIR TRAUMA.

"Seggs" "Smeggs" "Smex" "Sezz" Sex. It is sex.

"PDF" "PDFile" I would say pedophile, but ya'll keep using that word incorrectly, so I'mma say what you usually actually mean - child predator. (Please learn the difference between pedophilia and child predation and educate yourselves about paraphilias [link.] Stop demonizing mental disorders, there is no such thing as a "crime disorder.")

And don't get me started on the replacing letters with numbers. 1 as I, 3 as E, @ as A, etc. Not only is it inaccessible to screen readers and dyslexics, but it also is giving into censorship culture.

Speak up against it! Complain about it! Stop just conforming to the bullshit rules that companies enforce! Stop playing idly along with purity culture, paramisia, rape apologism, victim isolation and loneliness, ableism, suicidism, and fatphobia! Stop, just stop!

Censorship and needless rewording makes people feel ashamed or afraid to speak out! It prevents awareness and education! It reinforces stigma!

[PT: Censorship and needless rewording makes people feel ashamed or afraid to speak out! It prevents awareness and education! It reinforces stigma! /End PT]

[professional-water-drinker]

some antis really going to assume every proshipper/darkshipper is a groomer/abuser because they were groomed/abused by one. Like, im sorry this happened to you, and you obviously didn't deserve this, but that was because they were a predator not because they're proship/ a darkshipper/ lolishocon. I've also heard about people being groomed/abused by antishippers but of course antis dont want to talk about that and if they do it's always "but it's not because they're anti!!"

My sibbling in christ, i sometime enjoy incest and i have yet to find any of my family members attractive. what kind of fiction you enjoy does not reflect your morals. if that was the case, people who like playing GTA support murder and other terrible crimes irl, and we all know that's not true. So why wouldn't it be the same for other dark topics ?

[verymanyrats]

[beefbirb]

Why don't we do.... something crazy?

[vyrid]

the difference between how proshippers are treated on tumblr vs tiktok is insane. on tumblr, everyone unanimously agrees to ship and let ship, and dont like dont read and its all fine. but on tiktok, people will be making ‘exposing’ posts of users with 🍖🌈 already in their name as if it were some sort of secret.

[rottingummys]

sum drawings I made :)