I see a bunch of posts and comments on insta (I will never not hate insta gleeks) talking about how Sebla*ne should’ve been canon and Kurtbastian never would have worked, so here’s a bunch of reasons why Sebla*ne never would have worked and kurtbastian would’ve:
Sebastian just wanted sex with Blaine, not a relationship.
Blaine is really sensitive and Sebastian seems like the type of guy to not hold back insults, Blaine wouldn’t be able to handle it
Kurt and Sebastian had great back-and-forths on the show and would easily be able to match each other in arguments and would be able to shake anything off
Enemies to lovers >>>>> any way that Sebastian and Blaine could get together
Blaine being insecure in S5,,, Sebastian definitely wouldn’t deal with that
Blaine getting jealous and dramatic about Kurt talking to a guy, imagine how he would be about Sebastian with other guys
Kurt takes things slow in relationships,,, Blaine proposes 2 seconds after getting back together
Sebastian and Kurt would be equals in relationships
^^ also if Blaine got insecure about Kurt showing his sexuality (?) in tested, god imagine how he would be about Sebastian
People say that Kurt isn’t attractive enough for Sebastian,,, but the toddler clown is ???
Idrk there’s probably more but it’s late so I’ll add on later feel free to add yourself
: 11. They’re both “lead singers”. Sebastian knows how to share the spotlight, but Blaine insists on being the center of attention, and they’d break up the first time Sebastian called him on it or Blaine tried to whine his way into getting more focus.
12. This point has basically already been made, but I don’t believe Sebastian would put up with Blaine’s shit for one second unless he knew he was getting something out of it (like getting everybody else’s favourite Warbler to come back to Dalton, for instance.) He’s smart; you can tell by the way he talks that he knows people, and he’d see through Blaine’s “obliviously hopeless romantic” act in a heartbeat. Yes, Sebastian also does some pretty dodgy things when we first meet him in S3, but I think he knows exactly why what he’s doing is wrong - he just doesn’t care, because at that time he lacks the perspective that the people he screws with are just as human as him. (We probably all have our own theories on that.) Blaine, on the other hand, never really apologises for anything he does wrong, or at least not in a way that doesn’t shift some of the responsibility onto Kurt. We never see a shred of responsibility or culpability from him, it’s always Kurt who has to patch things up as if he’s in the wrong, whether there’s an element of truth to it or not. Kurt isn’t spineless, but he is incredibly forgiving. Sebastian wouldn’t tolerate him the same way.
13. The way Sebastian looks at Kurt? Hello???
Originally posted by churroscolfer
14. YES! They way that they stared at each other. Because Kurt looked at Sebastian kind of the same way. Even though it’s not the same way.
15. It has been said already but they really challenged each other. And they both are a sucker for challenges. They don’t back down from that and both want to win a challenge and go far and deep to achieve it
okay but can we talk about this handshake for a sec, please? I didn’t study psychology, but I do know a thing or two about handshakes. When Kurtbastian shook hands when they first met Kurt’s hand is on top of that of Sebastian’s. Kurt’s showing more dominance right now, that’s if your hand is on top. Sebastian’s at the bottom (pun kind of intented), but I think that’s also saying something. I don’t know if Kurt actually intented to turn his hand so his hand is on top or if Sebastian did it or it just kind of happened. But when I saw it after seeing it for the 2345th time it just occured to me and thought you should all know it, too
See!!! Like it’s clear from Sebastian’s blatantness with how he talks and acts that he’s comfortable in his sexuality and isn’t afraid to do it that hes dominant. But it’s subtleness like this until s5 that we see that Kurt can be dominant too!! Which is why Kurt and Sebastian are better matched as they would be equals in the relationship, whereas if either of them would be with Blaine the relationship would be difficult as Blaine is needy, and Sebastian and Kurt need someone who can support themselves and can be independent
YES! That’s exactly it! They are so much more equals than Klaine ever was. I mean I personally think Blaine needs to show that he’s the more dominant one of the two. He maybe wants to prove something, maybe to his parents, maybe to himself, maybe both. But that isn’t right to me; you’re supposed to be equal in a relationship. My mom’s bf once told me “society makes you believe your soulmate/lover should be your other half, better half, everything, but in reality your lover should just be something extra to your life. You have a life of your own and your lover is a part of that.” and honestly that made me realise a whole lot about my perspective of love, as well. I feel like Blaine believes in a total different/unhealthy version of love. Of course, this can be created by a lot; upbringing/your parents/your surroundings. But it isn’t healthy. Plus Blaine is really touchy and needy, which pushes Kurt’s limits a lot, imo. Which is toxic. And I’m not trying to say or excuse Blaine’s behavoir, but maybe he’s unaware. But that doesn’t make it right. He does these things so subtle that you/Kurt don’t/doesn’t know it at first, but it slowly creeps in and before you know it, you’re too far in. And that’s manipulation/toxic/gaslighting/you name it all.
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