raconteur

[thatbitchery]

SIMPLE LITTLE EVERY DAY WAYS TO TAKE BACK YOUR POWER

Dont respond. Just don't respond. You can just give no response. Even when it's the good or right thing to do. You can just nahh. It's not your duty to do what's good or right your duty is to survive

Leave. Just get up and leave. Mid sentence mid date mid party mid get up and leave. You don't even need a reason honestly you can just leave. You can leave because the sun is a star you can leave because it's too cold you can leave because you realized you're made of flesh and blood just leave literally any time any where just leave because it's midday or something idk just leave

Reject guilt. You did what you did it is what it is. Reject shame reject embarrassment just heh and move on. It is what it is. Whatever comes of it comes of it. It went how it went and the world kept spinning. Yada yada all that. What next.

Validate your reality. Validate your reality. I told you what validation means. Exactly as it is.

Ask the question. Ask the damn question. Ask it. Chin held high eyes trained spine straight. Ask the question sis. And follow it up with another. As many as you wish. Invent questions to ask if you have none.

Just block her. And him. Just block them rn. How many chances will you give them to show you how disrespect is done? At some point - one of these days- you'll have to realize trading respect for attention is dirty trade, and then I want you to just. BLOCK them. On the spot.

Laugh. You know that "laugh in my face" saying? Try it. 10/10 would reccomend.

Boxing. Jiu Jitsu (THIS> ESPECIALLY THIS) martial arts. Shooting range. Archery.

Tell the truth. Tell the truth. Okay? Those consequences you're so scared of, they're weakening you. Tell the truth and step back, whatever happens happens.

Say exactly what you think. Out loud. EXACTLY as you think it.

[thisfeelswrong]

I've never been good with reaching out to people but I finally had my group and I thought that I had found my people

But then time after time as soon as there were other people there it was like I didn't exist anymore and I'm so fucking tired

Is it really so selfish of me to want to feel important for once

Like damn I do everything I can for these people and when I haven't reached out in over a week nobody cares

Nothing changes and they move on without me and then when I finally suck it up and go back because I'm a whore for any sort of attention no matter how fleeting they will act like it's just a silly little thing that I did

I can't stand being alone I can't be alone with myself anymore

But they make me feel so goddamn pathetic

[dainty-o-o-angel]

Why can't I ever be anyone's first choice?

What's so wrong about me?

Is it the way I look?

The way I speak?

Or is everything about me the problem?

All I have ever wanted was to be loved the way I love people.

To be chosen the way I choose people

To be prioritised the way I prioritise people

But I guess..I'm too unlovable and boring of a person to be chosen...

I have always hoped the best for people, saw the best in them and loved them the best that I could

But I'm always met with disappointment and feeling left out..

I guess..I am the problem after all

I'm nothing special.

[becherdireinen]

people will dislike you just because your strengths are their weaknesses.

[angelnumber27]

For most people, life doesn’t truly begin until they’re 26-30 or older. The way we romanticize and obsess over youth is super harmful. Your life is not over at 21, I promise you. It’s just beginning

[theambitiouswoman]

Don't tell people your boundaries. Show them.

If you tell someone they can't talk to you a certain way or do certain things, those are not boundaries. Boundaries are things we show. If you tell someone "if you do that again I am not going to speak to you" and you stay and continue to speak to them, that's not a boundary. Just words. Words that they now know means absolutely nothing and they can take advantage of.

You show people how to treat you.

You reinforce your boundaries with your actions. Unless you show someone with your actions that what they are doing is not okay, and you do not continue to allow it, they will keep doing it.

[heywriters]

Take your meds. Take a pain pill. Drink something that soothes you, get a bandage for that irritating cut, put on something warm, take that shower now, put lotion on your dry hands, clean your sheets, sweep the floor, air out the room, move the furniture, go for a stroll, get some sunlight, look for the good in your surroundings.

whatever small thing you can manage that will quickly improve your mood, go do it. you deserve relief.

[victusinveritas]

[feelingsoftheday]

My biggest turn off is inconsistency, acting like u care one day and then switch up the next. That's how u lose me.

[schrittt-inslicht]

bye bye

[juneacademia]

When Emily Brontë wrote, “He’s more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”

[mlkshd]

i want

[monsterswithinme]

what do you mean i only have today and tomorrow before i have to go back to school?! WHAT DO YOU MEAN??!

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

just read “to be loved is to be worth the inconvenience” it blew my mind away

[weltenwellen]

“Where exactly do you put your hands on somebody who hurts everywhere?”

— Charles D’Ambrosio, The Dead Fish Museum: Stories

[weltenwellen]

Chelsea Dingman, Through a Small Ghost

[mlkshd]

i felt this so deeply im gonna cry what the hell

[becherdireinen]

i wish there was an airplane mode for my brain.

[sa-dnesss]

nobody talks about the fact that you can have all this crazy shit in your head, and want to open up and talk about your feelings but no matter what, you just can't make out the right words and properly put your thoughts and emotions into words

[tenderwatches]

sometimes you need dialogue tags and don't want to use the same four

[mlkshd]

reblogging for you wonderful writers out there

[skippyisntfunny]

[mlkshd]

i wanna give it a try tbh