[lanwangjihouse]

tag of the week:

#every time i see wet hair lan wangji i have to go to the alps and convalesce  ❋ 

[moonblovegood]

that look on lan zhan though...

[stellarflex]

LAN WANGJI'S SMILE AND PAPERMAN WEI WUXIAN'S BLUSH???

[moonblovegood]

wow depersonalization is AWFUL!!!!! I'm not familiar at all with it, so when it happens it still gets me completely by surprise and it hits me like WOW what the fuck is going on with me. i feel so lost and want desperately to tell someone about it like if i speak about it it'll anchor me back and i won't simply float away. this is so scary, i can't believe this is real, like a real thing that my mind is capable of. im terrified

[moonblovegood]

what the fuck is wrong with everyone

[moonblovegood]

shout out to ME who's never come out to MY family and do not intend to any time soon. it's so lonely staying silent. I want to celebrate pride as much as everyone else but the idea of being accidentally outed is too terrifying. it's not in MY current plans and I need a few plans to keep things going somewhere better. MY whole mental health is built over a fragile structure. I know it'd be much more than I'M willing to handle right now, and that's up to ME to decide how much I wish to handle right now. pride is still for ME too. I'M still entitled to feeling proud about MY own realization, about learning who I AM and what I truly AM made of. pride is for ME too. I have secret plans to celebrate pride on MY own today, but again, it's so lonely staying silent. I'LL stay silent if I must. my thoughts are with MYSELF today. I know I'm not alone.

[moonblovegood]

I wish i were something else but every day I'm all I have left

[moonblovegood]

depersonalization suckss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sudaca-swag]

you might not agree but part of activism is knowing to choose your battles, because what do i care if my eighty year old grandma doesn’t know the exact correct terms to refer to lgbtq+ identities as long as she supports and respects everyone, what do i care about the old man in the almacén that isn’t online so he doesn’t know every aspect of feminism who told me happy women’s day when he understands the issues women are put through and supports the fight, I’d rather be met with truly kind and concerned ppl who care and have been in this fight far more time than us than all these articulate young people who at the end of the day don’t truly give a shit

[mckinlily]

One of my coworkers is in his fifties, has a reputation as the resident “grumpy old man,” and is definitely not always politically correct.

But one time at a work party he said something that I don’t even remember what it is, but it bugged him so much that THREE DAYS LATER (it was a long weekend) he pulled me aside to apologize. He said he was afraid he’d made me uncomfortable, and he felt really bad about it. He explicitly said he wanted to make sure I had a comfortable work environment. He assured me that if he ever said something that did make me uncomfortable, I could just tell him to knock it off and he’d stop. Or, he added, if that was scary, I could tell one of our coworkers and THEY could tell him to knock it off. He was terribly humble and earnest through the whole of it, and I was completely taken aback because, like I said, I couldn’t even remember what he’d done wrong. This coworker also, despite having at least twenty+ years of experience on me and being an expert in the field, has always taken the time to listen to my ideas and engage with me on solving technical issues like I also am an expert in the field. 

And I would MUCH rather work with him than any guy who knows all the right feminist lingo but doesn’t listen to a thing I say. The goal has ALWAYS been to treat everyone with kindness and respect, and once a person’s activism gets removed from that, they’re sidetracking progress. The right words aren’t nearly as important as the heart behind it.

[yibo-wang]

♪ don’t be suspicious, don’t be suspicious ♪

[moonblovegood]

living is so burdensome when you're chronically sick

[lisginka]

новая аватарка

[moonblovegood]

my pup lost his first teeth today! he'll be 4 months old tomorrow like the big boi he is. his fur is starting to grow curly too. AND he hasn't missed his pee pads in a few days. now i can sometimes take a short nap (!!!) after 6:30 am because i can trust him to pee correctly. he's also enjoying taking warm baths in the afternoon and looking out the window (guessing he's an Air soul like me). he loves getting some fresh air and watching people taking the trash out late at night. he chews our visitors, but kindly. he likes being cuddled right before we go to sleep, while he also kindly chews my hands off. he's learned not to jump out of a queen sized bed. at 3 am he feels like going to his own bed though and i can hear him quietly sighing trying to get comfy. he barks a lot when he hears children playing outdoors like he too wants to communicate with them. the same way he barks like crazy when he hears my niece's voice calling him through the video calls.

[starsxinxthexbluexsky]

Who is he looking at? 🤔🤔🤔😏😏😏

[moonblovegood]

how did lan wangji even react when he heard the song he wrote being played over 10 years later at a random forest while he was casually having lunch? how many split seconds did it take him to acknowledge it was his song and not any similar other? did he watch wei ying from a distance before approaching him because he was scared of what he'd find or if wei ying would reject him? I'd pay anything to see him flying the fuck away to follow the sound and finally find the love he was mourning so painfully

[moonblovegood]

manifesting some amazing shit for myself this year. lmao it will b so good and GREAT that its gonna be hard to believe it's happening to me.

[moonblovegood]

thinking bout yibo putting all his efforts in getting that lan wangji part. the fuck am i supposed to do with that info... this shit keeps me up at night

[xiaosean]

THE UNTAMED

literally falling for you