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28, Butch disaster lesbian, just discovered where all the other queer folk are hiding on the internet

[criptochecca]

Also dykes look so boring in tv shows i wanna see shows with lesbians that look like this

[tiemyhandlebars]

I HATE MY MANLY TRAPS

But this guy at the gym just said that he loves them. I am feeling confident.

[moorrabbit]

Real, strong women have traps. Own that strength cuz it's hot!

[tiemyhandlebars]

I HATE MY MANLY TRAPS

But this guy at the gym just said that he loves them. I am feeling confident.

[loveamongthesailors]

Girls with muscular backs: keep up the good work and please stand in front of me and flex

[athleticsistas]

[stonerparty]

[hopelessbaka]

[lovelysuggestions]

don’t feel guilty for not being able to handle everything, for needing a break. you need to look after yourself, too. self care is not selfish.

[kaleighfratkins]

being a butch means choosing between being misgendered and being treated like shit, it means your heart races and your palms sweat when you walk towards a public bathroom, it means you’re nervous to talk to kids in public because what if their parents think you’re a predator, it means people have no idea how the fuck to talk to you so they just don’t, it means clothes shopping is seven kinds of hell, it means your family’s at least a little bit ashamed of you, it means you were bullied before anybody even knew what “lesbian” meant, it means you’re hungry for even a glimpse of somebody who looks like you and speaks your language, it means strangers calling you a dyke if they have the guts to do more than stare, it means dysphoria and confusion and pain

but it’s worth it all and more to hear a woman call you “handsome”, to lock eyes with a butch stranger who’s not quite your sister and not quite your brother, to step outside in a suit for the first time, to strip off years of disguises and discomfort, to have a “Ring of Keys” moment, to be someone’s “Ring of Keys” moment, to play with a child who doesn’t care what you’re wearing or what’s in your pants, to fight back against the world for once and let go of your shame, to start to like the person you see in the mirror, to dance with a woman, to hold hands with a woman, to kiss a woman, to make love to a woman, to love a woman and be loved in return, to find community and solidarity and home when you never even thought you’d live to see adulthood. I love butches and I love being butch.  

[vaporwavesimulator]

women wear suits better than men and thats just a cold hard fact

[hrefnasoldblog-deactivated20220]

One name to those who doubt these words:

ESTHER QUEK

I rest my case.

[libertarirynn-deactivated202006]

Exhibit B: Janelle Monáe

[biologicalstepfather]

Exhibit C: Lucy Liu

[teaboot]

High Warlock, Minister of Magic, and Kingpin

[littlefemgoddess-deactivated201]

Y'all are doing butch women dirty by only showing more gender conforming women in suits.

[cryptodyke]

May I present historic gnc women

[sugrspellitout]

The fact that there is no kd lang when she has worn suits almost every moment of her career is …… a crime

Also

[truly-fantastic-me]

help im gay

[koffinrott]

[zehstern]

archivist moodboard

[altieracunningham-archived-deac]

Michiko Nishiwaki (西脇 美智子) My Lucky Stars (1985)

[red-swimmerz-deactivated2021082]

[geniuss-loci-deactivated2021052]

[queerasfact]

pride 2020 01/30 | albanian sworn virgins

Known as Albanian sworn virgins or burnesha, these people practice a traditional Albanian custom that allows someone assigned female at birth to assume a male gender role by taking a vow of chastity. This tradition has been an accepted part of Albanian culture for centuries.

learn more with queer as fact: a queer history podcast

[images: Mark, Hajdari, and Lumia, photographed by Jill Peters]

[sunflorally]

your relationship doesn’t have to be toxic to be a bad one. it can be unfulfilling, exhausting, loveless. and someone doesn’t have to be terrible to you for you to leave them. if you aren’t primarily happy in your relationship, you have a valid reason to not be in it. don’t beat yourself up because your situation “could be worse.” if it isn’t what you want, you don’t have to stay in it.

[gemstonedgoddess-deactivated202]

This is great advice for all kinds of relationships.

[shobe-sandwitch]

idk who needs to hear this, but your wants are not outrageous. you want love? you want attention? you want peace? you want comfort? you deserve it. you're not asking for too much.

[pomrania]

“But what can you actually DO with a degree in [insert subject here]?!”

Write fanfiction with a high degree of accuracy in a very specific field, next question.

[flame-cat]

tolkien ghostwrote this

[pomrania]

I shall take that as an incredibly strong compliment.

[fighting-ghosts]