Can I get some headcanons of what it would be like in a relationship with Tokoyami? I can never find enough content for my lovely bird husband. Thank you~!
yknow I’ve never actually written for him so hopefully this isn’t too crappy ajhghs
I feel like overall, the relationship with him would be very chill?
Personally I think he’d be interested in someone who’s more laid back like he is, so neither him nor his s/o would be very over the top personality wise or in their actions.
Because of this, there probably isn’t a whole lot of PDA
I don’t think he’s really against it or anything, but for him it would be like a ‘If it happens that’s nice, if not oh well’ type of thing. He doesn’t really feel the need to be constantly expressing his feelings to his s/o through his actions in regards to PDA so he won’t really try to initiate anything much.
I think if anything, holding hands is probably his favorite thing to do in public and in private. Because of his physical features kissing is a bit awkward unless it’s his s/o giving them to him, and to be honest he sort of gets embarrassed when he does receive a kiss in public, but holding hands is nice because it doesn’t feel strange and there’s just enough contact to show and feel the love from one another without drawing much attention.
When it comes to dates, he prefers doing something indoors like watching movies (Horror movies and psychological thrillers are his favorites, he gets surprisingly invested in them) or just enjoying one another’s company.
On occasion he would like going out though, but he prefers more personal and private things things like going on a walk together. He wouldn’t be one hundred percent against things like amusement parks or the mall, but he’s not all that big on large crowds of people and he feels like when there are a lot of others, it takes away from the ‘alone’ time that made dates with his s/o so special.
Overall I think he’d be a very caring and respectful boyfriend, but he wouldn’t push too much into his s/o’s personal life and he tries to give them as much space as possible while still being able to maintain a healthy relationship.