Advice I wish I got told while my heart was breaking.
1- Stop pretending like youāre happy all over social media just because you think heās going to see it, you donāt have to prove yourself to anyone.
2- Please donāt keep letting strange boys into your bedroom, they will not make you forget him, maybe temporarily but when the lights are off and youāre all alone, the ache will be back and itās only going to come on stronger.
3- Learn to survive alone, you only need your own self stop depending on others to make you happy.
4- Stop checking on his Facebook page, he hasnāt posted anything new.
5- He isnāt going to text you, leave the house without your phone every once and awhile instead of gripping it so hard in your hand waiting desperately with agony for him to miss you.
6- Itās okay to cry. Youāre not pathetic for still being stuck on him, it only makes you human.
7- Write, write until your wrist is aching, find peace within the ink and paper share your thoughts freely until your heart is throbbing, write his name over and over, explain how angry you are, burn it, tear it up. You have every right to be mad, as long as youāre not taking it out on yourself.
8- Learn to do you, use this time of freedom to explore yourself, find out who you truly are. Give yourself time to breathe, you owe it to yourself.
9- Wing your eyeliner, wear that dress, look at yourself in the mirror and repeat āI deserve to be loved, I am here and that is enoughā over and over, memorise it, yell it, sync it far into your mind, remind yourself there is only one you and there is nobody who can replace that.
10- Smile more, laugh until your lungs hurt, sing so loud your throat starts to dry out, dance in front of the mirror, treat yourself, take chances donāt be embarrassed to be yourself.
11- Break something, scream, your feelings are valid and itās okay to explode sometimes.
12- Stop looking at photos of her, stop comparing yourself to her and beating yourself up because your beauty is different to hers, stop despising yourself for having shorter hair or a different body shape, it wouldnāt change the reality that heās with her now, so donāt waste your precious energy wasting away at the thought of him and her.
13- Take your broken pieces and build a fucking castle, donāt let them knock you down, you are stronger than them.
14- Just because he stopped loving you doesnāt mean you have permission to do the same, you are worthy of all the love in the world and you deserve no less, donāt let him leaving determine your worth. You are loved and you deserve to be here, donāt let them convince you of the opposite.
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