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Getting myself together

If you want to be ATTRACTIVE you can be.

-Get up early. Set your alarm and stretch first thing. Then go make some tea.

-Get dressed, do light makeup & go for a walk (Always look your best even if it’s light makeup & your hair is in a ponytail).

-Work out. Even though you don’t want to! Do you think anybody wants to at first? No. How do they get results? Discipline.

-Check off a calendar to feel accomplished after u do these things every day (with a rest day in between. Even then, stay active just go easier—walk).

-Do a face mask 2X a week at the end of the day. Put teabags on eyes to reduce puffiness. Moisturize and use gua sha roller to massage face.

-Sleep to binaural beats music for deep sleep

If you want to be SMART you can be.

-Read portions of a book mindfully and try to retain that information.

-Try to finish 1 book every 2 weeks. The library is your friend.

-Do a crossword in the local newspaper

If you want to be STRONG you can be.

-STOP giving into your emotions & being at their mercy.

-Do you feel sad? Well cry it out, comfort yourself & then get right back to doing whatever you need to further your goals.

-Don’t be an open book. Even if you don’t feel well nobody on the outside needs to know. Don’t give away your secrets. Only ask for help from appropriate people.

If you want to be FRIENDLY & PERSONABLE you can be.

-What would you do if you were drunk/ not overthinking it?

-How others react to you is none of your business. Don’t let them determine your worth/ mood.

-Compliment strangers. Ask for directions. This can lead to small talk.

-Mirror people subtly. Add on to the conversation by asking questions. Wait until the other person is done speaking no matter how badly you want to get a word in.

-Get approached by always looking put together & nice. Even if you’re not, fool them on the outside.

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My guide to being soft, sweet,& feminine ✨

Take a shower everyday and a bath twice a week! (preferably with epsom salts, a lush bath bomb, or bath oils)

Exfoliate and Shave every 2-3 days! Or schedule regular waxing appointments!

Keep your facial hair (eyebrows and peach fuzz) groomed and managed!

Moisturize right after your shower with almond or lavender oil! Follow with a regular body butter or lotion after drying!

Keep your hair done and looking neat!

Keep your nails and toes done!

Take care of your skin, do your daily skincare routine, wear sunscreen,drink lots and lots of water, and eat healthy!

Wear makeup when you leave the house, even if it’s just powder, eyebrows, mascara, and lip gloss!

Keep your house clean and smelling good, light candles or get bandbw wall plugs!

Invest in perfume and wear it wherever you go!

Be sweet, compliment people if you like something they’re wearing, hold doors open for old people, wave and smile at children, treat everyone with respect and kindness!

[svgarventure-deactivated2019033]

Getting myself together

If you want to be ATTRACTIVE you can be.

-Get up early. Set your alarm and stretch first thing. Then go make some tea.

-Get dressed, do light makeup & go for a walk (Always look your best even if it’s light makeup & your hair is in a ponytail).

-Work out. Even though you don’t want to! Do you think anybody wants to at first? No. How do they get results? Discipline.

-Check off a calendar to feel accomplished after u do these things every day (with a rest day in between. Even then, stay active just go easier—walk).

-Do a face mask 2X a week at the end of the day. Put teabags on eyes to reduce puffiness. Moisturize and use gua sha roller to massage face.

-Sleep to binaural beats music for deep sleep

If you want to be SMART you can be.

-Read portions of a book mindfully and try to retain that information.

-Try to finish 1 book every 2 weeks. The library is your friend.

-Do a crossword in the local newspaper

If you want to be STRONG you can be.

-STOP giving into your emotions & being at their mercy.

-Do you feel sad? Well cry it out, comfort yourself & then get right back to doing whatever you need to further your goals.

-Don’t be an open book. Even if you don’t feel well nobody on the outside needs to know. Don’t give away your secrets. Only ask for help from appropriate people.

If you want to be FRIENDLY & PERSONABLE you can be.

-What would you do if you were drunk/ not overthinking it?

-How others react to you is none of your business. Don’t let them determine your worth/ mood.

-Compliment strangers. Ask for directions. This can lead to small talk.

-Mirror people subtly. Add on to the conversation by asking questions. Wait until the other person is done speaking no matter how badly you want to get a word in.

-Get approached by always looking put together & nice. Even if you’re not, fool them on the outside.

[luckyluxlady-deactivated2021043]

The best advice someone gave me on here years ago that I did and is now saving my ass in this recession. Thank u to whoever it was. I wanna say it was @finessinyournigga ?

Open an IRA

Have an emergency fund with at least 1 years expenses

Open a business

Invest in some stocks + bonds

Keep saving and buy some land

Keep paying every bill on time so you can continue to be debt free

And don’t spend your savings on dumb shit

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pro tip

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10 Rules for Living a Full Life

1. Be adventurous; move outside your comfort zone

2. Be kind to yourself and respect yourself

3. Don’t fear mistakes and failure. They are part of a rich life

4. Smile and laugh often; have a positive outlook

5. Play to your strengths, and use your gifts and talents

6. Be a friend to others; be compassionate and kind

7. Ask for help when you need it; a true friend will always care

8. Don’t let people distract you from your visions, dreams and goals

9. Don’t bear grudges; don’t be bitter; forgive others – and move on

10. Always strive to be better, and to stretch and grow through life.

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“Luxury: Know that every woman deserves to indulge in moments of luxury, never mind how large or small. Use fashion and beauty to indulge in fabulous, sexy, and feminine power, and be free to express it however you want.”

— Kimora Lee Simmons (via ms-luxurydoll)

[goldiesugar]

The keys of success

Try to find who you really want to be, what you want to experience and what you want to achieve. Follow what you think you’re made for. If you don’t know let’s continue this article.

Don’t care about what people think of you, there is always someone to judge you whatever you do. I know it’s not an original advice but, in this world, you just have to be you, who you want to be an become and follow your instinct.

Express your own light, show to the world what you can do, whatever what is it. Art, music, writing, a school subject you’re talented… it doesn’t matter, this is precious and only you can decide what you want to express and why.

Be proud of yourself, always. be proud of what you’ve done, the work you’ve done, the time you spend to achieve what you have started. Do always your best and be proud of that. Everyone has their own time and you don’t have to rush yourself.

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Ladies, please normalize being high maintenance. Keep your standards high, expect people to climb to reach them. Tell them that yes, you do plan on spending your money, your time, and your energy on yourself first. Unabashedly tell people “no” with no explanation. When they ask you “who do you think you are” tell them that you’re you. And that is enough.