i want to smile brightly as well...

who: a 93er who lives the not-so-secret life of a fangirl what: things i relate to and things that make me happy (special mention: kpop and all its madness) STATUS: HIATUS BECAUSE MED SCHOOL IS SERIOUS SHIT. BE BACK WHEN I CAN

[gender-transformer]

Yes, this is my personal twitter.

And yes, this is based on a recent experience.

Cishet people PLEASE reblog. Its important that this is understood.

- mod Atlas

[naturaekos]

“May the stars carry your sadness away, May the flowers fill your heart with beauty, May hope forever wipe away your tears, And, above all, may silence make you strong.”

— Chief Dan George (via naturaekos)

[surprisebitch]

[niggazinmoscow]

Daughters watched their mothers go through a lot of pain, both emotional and physical, and vowed never to live that kind of life.

[soravagemecrazy]

Tea! Women now leave at the drop of a hat and I’m so glad. We’re not “going through” shit with these men like our foremothers did and honestly mood

[sapphicseance]

“If we meet each other in Hell, it’s not Hell.”

— Geoffrey Hill, from Broken Hierarchies: Poems 1952-2012 (Oxford University Press, 2014)

[taejoon]

a whole cutie

[allforbts]

171125 Jimin’s Tweet

제목 : 태양을 등에 업다 #JIMIN

Title : Carrying the sun on my back. #JIMIN

Trans cr: Kylie @ allforbts © Please take credit when taking out

[blairwaldorfings]

[the-owl-faced-girl]

I just want to yell so many good things about Britney Spears. Look at this parenting right here; rather than just twist their arms and tell the ‘smile or no McFlurry on the drive home’ she’s checking if her little boys are comfortable with the cameras and attention and if not, no problem baby boy, you go chill. And I have no problem with her staying to get more pictures, especially not when her other adorable kid wants to.  I mean, it’s her job up to a point. And we all know for a fact she probably watched the film with both the little bugs in her lap anyway. 

Considering what she dealt with and went through in front of paps….god, I love her. 

[plotwitch]

people can say what they want about her supposed meltdown, but frankly, that entire ‘episode’ always made perfect sense to me. she and i are of an age, and no matter how young or old i was, i always understood perfectly why she did it, and thought it was utter bullshit that a court could order what they did, instead of reprimanding the many, many people that felt so entitled to her that they drove her to extremes just to get 5 seconds of peace.

and now seeing this kind of thing? she has just gotten more awesome.

[faedreamer-deactivated20180128]

i remember reading how she got herself a tutor so she could help her kids with their homework. not got THEM a tutor, but she got herself one because she wanted to be the one helping them. that’s a+++ parenting right there ok?

[papi-chulo-bucky]

This makes me so happy :’)

[latining]

She got a court order because she was, by her own admission, raising her kids like her mother raised her. The judge sent her to therapy and parenting classes to work out all of the horrible stage-mother bullshit she had to live through. I mean, she thought it was normal to give her kids cough syrup and whiskey so they’d sleep, because it’s what her mother gave her to knock her out when she got rowdy.

I think Britney is a great role model for adult abused children and is living proof that you are not trapped in the cycle of abuse.

[terror-billie]

The purest 90s kid experience is being so happy for Britney Spears in her new life

[iwishtoremainanoym]

The fact that this woman is mocked is part of the greater discussion of how poorly we treat women. She was mentally ill. She got help, and while I’m sure it’s a day to day struggle, she got better. If she was a man, we’d be holding up as a a success story, but because she is a woman, she’s a joke. 

[thatadult]

sending “I hope you get that job” vibes to the people out here tryna get jobs

[theeeprotagonist]

reblogging for yall bc the shit worked for me lol

[blkmedusa]

Karma will pop me if I don’t

[allforbts]

171115 BTS_twt’s Tweet

with @JKCorden #LateLateShow

[kyuline13]

When you’re lucky enough to work with amazing, humble and grounded people with outstanding talent on top. My favorite boys just did their first live performance of their comeback title track “black suit”. I think it’s save to say they absolutely smashed it

Tobi, Black Suit’s choreographer, about Super Junior (via kyuline13)

[thorffour-deactivated20190920]

Before vs After Adoption

[source]

[monkeysaysficus]

[larry-david-lynch]

Please adopt

[greekgodohair]

There’s something to be said for the way a rescue animal looks at you. It’s like they know or sense what you’ve done. Even though they’ll never be able to say it I feel as if they make up for it with that look.

[marauders4evr]

Friendly reminder that Vincent van Gogh willingly checked himself into an asylum so that he could get better, resulting in him creating some of the most iconic paintings of his entire career, done in the asylum, when he was being treated 24/7, because he finally didn’t have to struggle with his demons and could instead focus on his muse, WHICH WERE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS!

Remember this little insignificant painting?

How about this one?

Check this one out:

All of these and more were painted in the asylum when he was receiving treatment for his mental illnesses and I know I just said that but I said it again and I’m saying it a third time until you dramatic abled assholes understand!

VINCENT VAN GOGH

- KNEW THAT HE WAS MENTALLY ILL

- WANTED TO CHANGE THAT

- WENT TO AN ASYLUM

- GOT THE HELP HE NEEDED

- PAINTED SOME ICONIC MASTERPIECES AS A RESULT!

SO DON’T YOU DARE COME OUT HERE WITH THIS, “I WISH I WAS DEPRESSED SO I COULD BE AS CREATIVE AS VAN GOGH” BULLSHIT BECAUSE EVEN HE KNEW THAT HIS DEMONS WERE HARMING HIS WORK, AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, HIS HEALTH, AND HE DID EVERYTHING WITHIN HIS POWER TO FIGHT THEM EVERY SINGLE DAY OF HIS LIFE, UNTIL THEY ENDED UP WINNING! 

[asexualmew]

This is also incredibly important for any creative persons dealing with mental illness, and their parents.

Receiving mental help improves your craft, not hurt it. Before getting put on medication for the first time to treat my mental illnesses, my mom expressed to me how she’s worried about my getting treatment because of my art. Regardless, your mental health should be more important anyway, but, honestly, it’s a lot harder to produce good art when you struggle getting out of bed, let alone creating masterpieces. When you’re in more health, improving your craft comes much easier!

[grandparomeaskblog]

Personally I think the most beautifull painting of him was this one:

He made it when he heard about the birth of his nephew who was named after him. Still in the asylum but really happy for his brother! “How glad I was when the news came… I should have greatly preferred him to call the boy after Father, of whom I have been thinking so much these days, instead of after me; but seeing it has now been done, I started right away to make a picture for him, to hang in their bedroom, big branches of white almond blossom against a blue sky.”

[justasillynerd]

Oh I have sucb rants about how “good” art comes while suffering.

No.

look at me.

The idea of the “suffering artist” comes from bunch of alcholic, drug abusing, womanizers trying to justify their bad life choices as some sort of artistic angst.

IT IS 100% BULLSHIT

Take your meds, get your therapy, be happy, and live life

The art will be there.

[hyukwoon]

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[parkjmzl]

protect him, please…

[busa-n]

i’ll be there for you

[hyukwoon]

Eunhyuk  Black Suit MV