My Life to Love

This is a blog dedicated to expressing and searching for the life that I want to have and attempting to solve me issues, free from the eyes of those I might not want to see it, at this time primarily my girlfriend. For now I’ll just go by E.

[veryfunnymemes]

[perrfectly]

[asarlaithe-deactivated20220528]

please remember that in a healthy, adult relationship (romantic or not), you should be able to talk about things that are bothering you. if you are bottling up your emotions and holding it against someone when you haven’t told them what is wrong, you’re not engaging in healthy behaviour. but also, if your friend/significant other makes you feel as though you can’t talk about what bothers you- i.e. has made you feel guilty/gotten extraordinarily angry when things were brought up in the past- they are not engaging in healthy behaviour.

[australiansanta]

you know what’s so fucking hot… being able to have open healthy communication and feeling understood, validated and appreciated. ughhhh fuck yeah

[mylifetolove]

yarp

[theshitneyspears]

Me: god please show me a sign if he’s not the one

God:

[gothvibes-deactivated20180324]

I literally love the idea of being so obsessed with ur lover that u can’t keep ur hands off them even in public and always being turned on by them and everything they do…I wanna be with someone who’s always dying to touch me and be close to me like I love corny infatuation, I love love, I love unbearable intensity

[browneyeddreamchild]

The problem is I never stopped loving you. I just buried it. And it resurfaces from time to time. At any given moment my heart can ache for you and wish you were here. It’s kinda sad though. I miss you every day, I miss telling you how much I love you. But the universe does what it wants

[peachisty]

what relationships should NOT be:

filled with anxiety, self-doubts, extreme jealousy

a one-way thing

never stepping out of your comfort zone

blantantly forces you to do something you don’t want to do

hostile atmosphere is ever-present

lack of autonomy

uncomfortable, stagnant, undermining, empty

forgetting that you have a life outside of your relationship

make you feel limited, inferior, confined, always exhausted, insufficient

compromise your mental health and growth

what relationships should be:

promotes your welfare

filled with trust, honesty, and a stable communication

freedom to choose and speak

mental health is considered a priority

two-way thing

a safe, supportive space for both of you

empowers and fulfils you

might be filled with both the good stuff and sometimes bad stuff

^ but only because it helps you grow

a constant journey of self-discovery

[help-n-quotes]

Never allow loneliness to drive you into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with.

Unknown (via help-n-quotes)

[mascgf-blog]

The Person You Fabricated To Exist In Your Maladaptive Love Fantasies Does Not Fucking Exist In The Real World So You Need To Stop Dutifully Lying In Wait For An Imaginary Coping Mechanism That You Hope Will One Day Physically Manifest Itself In Front Of You

[meeseeks-and-destroyed]

My life 🙄

[idktorn]

one of the most toxic things i’ve ever done is ignore the bad in someone because i love them

[chicfeast]

[alltheworld-willbeyours]

Do you ever notice yourself getting bad again…like, you know you’re not doing work that needs to be done, you know you’re not cleaning, you know you’re not taking care of yourself…you know all the things you need to do to start trying to feel better. But you just can’t. And you’re left feeling like shit bc you thought you were getting better but here we are

[rightontheborder-deactivated201]

i feel like i’m on autopilot i genuinely don’t feel alive

[revolutions-moved-deactivated20]

associating a song with a person is a risky move

[keepcalmcarryonbabe]

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Plug your headphones in, and float away to this beautiful sound

[peachdusk]

This is actually my favorite song!!