if you don't like what I post block me and move on

[blackcat7977]

Men will never understand

When I tell a man about the statistics of women's life becoming shorter after marriage and even after you explain that women work more take care of the house, children, mental and emotional load the answer you get is well what job is the man working what if he's in construction and his wife is a housewife with no kids which even then women have in laws to take care of, they have to make all the meals and clean and most of the times also work. If you tell them about inequality women face or the history of misogyny it's well it's different now and how do you experience any of that which I do experience that everytime I step out there is fear of rape, i can out stay out late or go out at night, i cannot travel alone, i cannot live alone and even fucking choose what clothes go on my body because hijab is compulsory. Men will never understand anything women go through they don't care to them they have all the freedom therefore women go through nothing and have no right to complain.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

#coolandnormal

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

I used to not get lesbians until I realized they aren’t just horny sex freaks, but also feel romantic attraction! 🥺🥺🥺🥺✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻#ally

women aren’t choosing to be lesbians for emotional understanding, it’s technically possible that a man could understand me better emotionally, but that doesn’t matter because I physically am incapable of feeling attraction to a man! the phrasing of this post is so weird, it’s like those people who think lesbians decide to try women after being scorned by men. it doesn’t work like that, it’s an innate immutable thing.

[feminist-furby-freak]

TRAs outing themselves as pedo apologists. Can’t believe people actually think like this and voluntarily tell on themselves online.

[niiwa-angel]

There is no such thing as a non-offending pedophile, just one that hasn't been caught yet.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

terf: I think TRA's hate terfs more than pedophiles

tra: well yes actually, you're totally right!

dude, yall have got to at least try to represent your cause a little bit better. you make it too easy for us! and if you actually think a pedophile, even if he hasn't offended yet, is less hateable than girls on tumblr who don't think men can be women, you must have your head really far up your ass.

[radfemtextandart]

x

[lavenderlad]

Who wants to play a game of spot the difference, 2023 edition?

Here’s a hint from the far back year of 2018

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

okay, so according to the gendies, pronouns, sex, gender identity, and gender expression are all separate things. they remind us of this frequently when telling us to accept feminine trans men, butch trans women lesbians, masculine amab non-binary people, feminine afab non-binary people, etc. okay. got that. so those are all separate. and it's possible to be sexually attracted to someone's internal, self-described gender identity, which has no outward signs, because someone's pronouns, they way they look and dress, and their biological sex are unrelated to that internal gender identity, and people of any gender identity can have any combination of pronouns, gender expression, and biological sex. I've even seen alleged butch-femme lesbian couples where the "butch" was a biological male, who used he/they pronouns, and whose gender expression was exactly the same as your average masculine straight guy, he wore masculine clothing from the men's section. so gendies allege that lesbian attraction is based on this internal, self-described gender identity. how? as someone who is attracted to people's outward appearance and personality, both of which are unrelated to gender identity, I'd love to know exactly what qualities of someone's internal self-described "woman gender identity" turn you on? and in fact, can someone write a few sentences describing this "woman gender identity" without mentioning biological sex, gender expression including clothes, hairstyles, and makeup, and personality traits, likes and dislikes, and hobbies, because we all agree that none of those are exclusive to any particular gender identity? please, go ahead.

so here is my main question if anyone wants to provide an answer, I'm genuinely asking: when you feel sexual attraction to someone's gender identity, what EXACT and SPECIFIC qualities are making you feel sexual attraction to them? and like I said, these qualities you list should be unique from the qualities of gender expression, pronouns, and sex. thanks, looking forward to the answer.

I'd especially like if any "lesbians" dating trans women have an answer for me, or "lesbians" dating "amab non-binary people". let me know, thanks.

[maliceshoujo]

edit of this TRA graphic

[residentofincelistan]

"Teen isn't a disgusting category because teenagers are the main ones watching it111!"

So you admit that the indurstry knows children are viewing their videos?

[gynja]

dont ever compare butch women to men i will kill you

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

and if I had wheels I’d be a wagon.

can we talk about things that are real or just make up hypothetical gender swaps? we aren’t men. so we aren’t incels. so now what?

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

David Sedaris’s opinion on the word queer, and a few dumbass fucking idiot comments.

one and only smart comment:

these people want to be able to claim "weirdness" and "avant-garde-ness" without having to actually define whether they are gay or straight or bisexual (probably because they're straight). but thanks for once again lumping same-sex-attraction in with weirdness and unconventional lifestyles when gay activists worked for literal decades to say "hey, we're just like you, we're normal people who just happen to like the same sex". it's funny how all these people all calling david sedaris old, and saying he just doesn't get it. well maybe you're young, and YOU just don't get it. you don't get how queer was and is used as a derogatory slur especially towards gay men, and specifically used to call homosexuality WEIRD and STRANGE, and so maybe david is confused why suddenly non-gay people are adopting the word to call themselves weird and strange for being kinky or having threesomes. YOUUUUU don't it, he gets it more than you, you gen-z spicy straight queer. "maybe I don't want to invoke exactly who I have sex with" okay then don't come out?? don't come out as queer then...? you want to come out at queer, but not tell anyone who you have sex with. good plan. so you want the social cool point and oppression points without actually coming out of the closet, sorry but you can't have both. if you don't want people questioning who you have sex with, maybe don't mention your queerness. that's like announcing that you're a very pious religious person, and then when people ask what religion you practice, you're like "I don't want to invoke exactly what religion I practice". then maybe don't bring it up?? and claiming that david "doesn't want to make space for anyone else"... yeah maybe he doesn't want to make room for spicy straight polyamorous kinksters to be lumped together with him as a homosexual man.... I think that's pretty fair! inclusivity is not always good and positive. exclusivity is not inherently mean, problematic or evil. we don't have to make space for everyone. you can tell most of these people are not actually homosexual or bisexual, otherwise they wouldn't have felt called out by what david said. whatever, have fun with your threeway, but leave gays and lesbians out of it please.

[residentofincelistan]

Women on r/philosophy

Are there any justifications for the concept of quantum leaping? What happends to this universe if you jump to another? Open debate.

Men on r/philosophy

Why is rape and sexual assault actually bad? Like Ik it's traumatising but what if they don't find out?

[radfemme-rage]

my brain chemistry fundamentally changed when i saw the tiktok that was like “ancient philosophers were simply the podcast bros of their time”

and it couldn’t be more true

males have been circle jerking the same anti-intellectual misogynistic topics for millennia and deem themselves as the epitome and monopolists of intellectual thought

the average male in that subreddit is a fat, bearded pedo incel living in his mother’s basement

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

[oceanmirage]

I have so many reasons for believing transfeminism targets children but especially mentally unwell children, which is probably not news to anyone but I'd like to elaborate on some specifics. I think part of what is so damaging about gender ideology on kids is the very concept of a "gender identity." It is extremely common for all kids but ESPECIALLY kids living in unstable, unpredictable, abusive and/or chronically traumatizing environments to have little to no sense of identity. One of the tricks transfeminism plays on you is by instilling in you the belief that having a "gender identity" means "feeling" like a boy or a girl. Identity is not a set of beliefs, experiences, personality traits and preferences, but something you feel. When you feel good you are right gender, when you feel bad you are wrong gender. Gender identity is a feeling everyone is supposed to have. You know you are a woman because you feel like a woman, or whatever. And most traumatized kids don't feel anything about themselves except a sense of disappointment, confusion or outright self-loathing. Their identities are at best blank slates, because what they've undergone hasn't really allowed them to form any coherent sense of self yet. This is interpreted as there being something wrong that needs to be fixed. If society tells you that you are a woman but you don't FEEL like one, then clearly something must be amiss. You try on various presentations and the only thing that approximates comfort is androgyny or masculinity, because at least it gets you away from some of the shame of femaleness. The gap where your real identity is supposed to be has instead been filled in with aesthetics and consumerism, and while you've been trying to figure out your "gender identity" because you have now been convinced that it is the source of all of your suffering, you have been neglecting forming a real one. In my opinion this is part of why so many of them are so immature, under-developed or obsessed with superficial things like collecting objects. Most of them were once children in unhappy situations who were confused about who they were, and instead of receiving the care and support they needed to discover themselves their lack of a coherent identity was taken advantage of, prevented from developing and replaced instead with materialism and weird sex stuff.

[theoretical-terf]

It's pretty clear that a lot of TIM anger comes from jealousy.

They're angry about TIFs being welcomed in lesbian spaces because they want to be there instead, they think they're more worthy of being there. They frame it as concern for "men in lesbian spaces" and it makes them furious, because they know inside that they are the actual men in lesbian spaces.

They're angry about women and TIFs talking about our sex based oppression, because they wish they had oppression to talk about. They try to claim they're oppressed for their dicks, but deep down they're aware that they know nothing about sex based oppression and never will.

They're extremely angry about lesbians existing. They grew up feeling entitled to women's bodies, and lesbians rejecting them made them angry because they wanted access to them. So they tried to make up a workaround by identifying as a lesbian, and it infuriates them when it doesn't work, because they so badly want to force women into having sex with them.

They all try to pretend their anger is about trans rights or justice, but in reality they're just painfully jealous that all they have is male experience and they'll never have anything else.

[lesbofuturism]

The answer “Anyone who identifies as one” to the question “What is a woman?” is so dumb. What is a vegan? Anyone who identifies as one. What is an engineer? Anyone who identifies as one. What does it mean to be disabled? It means to identify as disabled. Like what kinda logic is that 😭

[virtualcremefem]

Controversial (???) but I don't think p3do is a legitimate sexual orientation where the person can't help it...I think he can very much help it, he can control it very much, in fact acting upon it by directing the target of his fantasy upon children....It's a very active thing, not passive. Actively seeking out or getting off to children, not usually single thoughts that pass quickly. Does that make sense?

I think there are some cases that are not this, like POCD, who are not p3do, but yeah.

[djuvlipen]

decrim for prostitution is not a socialist standpoint, is not a communist standpoint, is not a marxist standpoint, you are making a fool of yourself trying to pass gross liberalism when it comes to human rights violations, sexual slavery and extreme misogyny as revolutionary, progressive or anticapitalist like you are directly contradicting everything written by marxists (and marxist women in particular) on the matter and every policy passed by marxists, socialists and communists on the matter but i shouldnt have expected less from us americans who call themselves "leftist"

[djuvlipen]

this is about zohran mamdani

[djuvlipen]

politicians on the left are shooting themselves in the foot by supporting decrim, they are alienating a large part of the female voter population (in particular among feminists) at best and they show that their pro-working class, antiracist and feminist stances don’t apply to poor women and woc and are therefore meaningless at worse. like are you stupid.

[theierette]

DON'T MAKE ME TAP THE SIGN!!!

[unrecognizablefeminist-deactiva]

Not only are we supposed to agree that all working is slavery, in wages, labor, and mind, however prostitution is in my opinion one of the highest forms of capitalist slavery, in which the prostitute herself is being made out by her capitalist traffickers//pimps to turn her body into their wage theft. It is a crime against her body, in which her body is turned into the means of producing capital. She is forced into this by the need of money, that the capitalist owners peddle, and it is one of (if not, the only) job in which we see the highest form of greed. Yet, it is the only in which self proclaimed "communists" will insist is work, despite the fact it has been well established for years that no work can be real work since all work is coerced by a need for survival.