How Can Something So Fair Be So Cruel?

| Em | ♋ | she/her | ig: eodiet |

[latenights]

Get you a partner who wants to invest in you, listen to you, learn from you, see you win, support your visions & fall in love with you daily

[julieterbang]

[thepersonalquotes]

[traitspourtraits]

[etsycult]

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[everythingfox]

This is a flying fox

Taken from r/aww

[blkbruja]

y’all need therapy. not girlfriends

[yaheartchakra]

Or they need a girlfriend that doesn’t mind listening and trying to help them work through their shit and defeat their fucking demons without asking them to pour out their soul to a stranger who is only listening because it’s their job. That’s the kind of shit you do for the people you love.

[taxidermy-tits]

your partner is not your therapist. listening to your partner is one thing, but it is not their responsibility to help you work through your shit. that is on you.

one more time.

your partner is not your therapist.

[batmanisagatewaydrug-deactivate]

also if I may hop onto this, I REALLY hate when people try to spin “therapists only listen because it’s their job” as a BAD thing. can you imagine if we tried to apply that to literally any other profession?

“why take your phone into the store to get it fixed? they don’t care about you, they’re only doing their job.”

“I don’t want to order a pizza. they’re not making it for me out of the goodness of their hearts, they’re only doing it because it’s their job.”

“why didn’t you just have your girlfriend do that surgery instead of going to a stranger who only saved your life because it’s their job?”

it’s their job because they are better equipped to do it than the other people in your life. jesus christ. 

[smitethestate]

Therapists didn’t go deep into debt after 4-6 years of college to be told that they only do their job because it’s their job wtf.

Also, you want someone neutral as a therapist. You need someone who’s not afraid to hit you with hard truths.

[kafkasdiariies]

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[ashtonirwinofficial5sos-deactiv]

I am constantly at war with my mental state, but I always remember that, to be powerful, you can’t give people power over you.

Be brave and bold when saying what you are, and what you stand for.

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[untrustyou]

[the-vulgar-vegetarian]

Me: I have a headache

Mom: it’s cause you’re a vegetarian!

Me: I twisted my ankle yesterday

Mom: it’s cause you’re a vegetarian!

Me: damn, I got a flat tire

Mom: it’s cause you’re a vegetarian!

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