[imaslytherinbitch]

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hey, you remember what stefan said about himself in 5x04?

Vaguely, yes. Why?

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bless you for this blog. the difference between this and damon /hate/ blogs is that you're actually reasonable and make compelling arguments with evidence. bless you citizen. i wouldn't even call you "anti-stefan" necessarily, it's more like you're being reasonable and analysing his character like a sane, intelligent human being. keep doing what you're doing mate, i love reading your responses and you give me hope for this fandom and for humanity <3

I didn't want to create just any hate blog, so I'm glad I come across like that. Thank you and enjoy my blog!

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but remember how damon objectified elena as a trophy? "i got the girl" and dont forget when elena refused to kiss him back and damon killed jeremy out of spite

But remember when Stefan stans acknowledged that what Stefan did/said was wrong and didn't list all the wrong things Damon had done in order to avoid having to admit that their favorite character acted like a douche? Me neither.

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"I'm good, right? ... but what do I have to show for it? ... So... what's the point of being good?" That line of Stefan's is incredibly revealing and interesting. It's the clearest sign we've had yet that he acts "good" largely bc of what he expects to get out of it (love, friendship, admiration etc) rather than for its own sake. "See, Damon, it's only real when it comes from your desire to do the right thing for nothing in return," he says in 1x22. He's not one for following his own advice.

I just find it extremely interesting how, once stripped from everyone else’s expectations, guilt, past, even his own view of himself, Stefan acts like a complete and total douche. He acts like a mysoginist who completely dehumanizes Elena and her choice, implying that she had no saying in getting together with Damon, that she “allowed” him to take her. He guilt trips her once he doesn’t get what he wants because he knows the ripper is something not to be messed with, so he threatens her and tells her that what he might do in the future, the people he might kill will basically be all on her.

I thought I would hate this amnesia story line, but I actually love it. It only proved what a piece of shit Stefan is and how his behaviour is constantly excused by the writers’s illogical, yet constantly forced, idea of this one-dimensional goody two-shoes character who can never do wrong.

[hiprettyeyes]

"unless you love me elena, I’m gonna rip people’s heads off"

kind regards, the perfect boyfriend

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The problem with Stefan stans is that they can't fully enjoy his character because they don't know his flaws or they try to hide them. And they always put down Damon to put Stefan on a pedistal. I don't get it. They are two different characters, the fact that they are brothers doesn't mean anything. They have to accept that Stefan is not good or morally good and moving on by loving his character also for his flaws.

I have literally never seen a Stefan stan who acknowledged Stefan's shitty behaviour and didn't try to excuse it. I've also never seen a Stefan stan who defended him by using something other than pointing out Damon's flaws and the wrong things he's done. They're so blinded.

[mysticdrownfall]

I normally love Stefan but I completely agree with your recent posts. Just because you like a character doesn't mean you gotta be blind to their obvious flaws. And he was indeed rather misogynistic in this episode so I don't get why his stans are defending him..

Thank you, you're one of the few sane ones.

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Stefan was a piece of shit in this episode and every single person who tries to justify his mysogynistic and possessive behaviour because, “Poor Steffie dosnt have memrys!111!!1 :((((((” is a piece of shit as well.

[yoeverdeenarchive-deactivated20]

Did you honestly just call hundreds of people pieces of shit because that’s their opinion.

YOU’RE the piece of shit here. Let people believe what they what, and that makes them a piece of shit, then everyone is a piece of shit.

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There's no "different opinion" on a blatantly mysoginist behaviour that is being overlooked. Which is what Stefan stans do. You can believe he was a Saint and did nothing wrong for all I care, but that still makes you a piece of shit.

[imaslytherinbitch]

previously on the vampire diaries

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"Let Me Guilt Trip You For Not Wanting To Kiss Me By Telling You I'm Going To Kill People And It's All Your Fault" an autobiography by Stefan Manpain Salvatore.

[hecaerge-deactivated20150315]

where’s stefan’s fedora because the second elena made it clear she wasn’t available romantically he made himself the victim, guilt tripped her, acted like she was property taken from him, and denied her friendship

[televisionsgifs-blog]

oh shut up like seriously? He had no idea she was with Damon or that she was taken and misunderstood her actions and purpose which is fuckin fair enough bc he has amnesia lol it’s not like Stefan fucked off bc he was “friendzoned” it’s more like oh you left me for my brother, it must have felt kinda shit?

And let’s not forget that even when Damon knew that Stefan and Elena were dating he still came on to Elena, made advances repeatedly, attempted to kill caroline when elena saw the bites all over her and told damon off??? killed her brother when she turned him down???

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Telling others to shut up because their slamming of your favorite saint-like character bothers you is immature and idiotic. Why can't you people just admit that Stefan was an asshole in this episode an move on? How far will your obsessive stanning go? Or do you put your fingers in your ears and sing gibberish to tune out the sound of the truth about Stefan's shitty behaviour?

He had no recollection of Elena or their love yet he felt he had the right to act all hurt that she was with Damon. Um... he.... has amnesia. He doesn't remember loving her. He has no idea why she chose Damon yet he managed to guilt trip her into thinking every next victim of his from the moment she refused to kiss him would be her responsibility. He knew Damon and Elena were together when he said, "My brother, who has been my brother for one hundred and sixty some odd years, stole my girlfriend. And my girlfriend let him." This is disgusting. It's DISGUSTING. He doesn't remember what happened yet he blames everyone else for what happened even if he doesn't care about her... because he doesn't remember her? Alright.

I just wish Stefan stans would try and defend Stefan sometimes by trying to explain/accept his flaws instead of defending him by pointing out Damon's wrongdoings. He killed Jeremy. We know. Seriously. We know. Seriously. Stop.

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Stefan was a piece of shit in this episode and every single person who tries to justify his mysogynistic and possessive behaviour because, "Poor Steffie dosnt have memrys!111!!1 :((((((" is a piece of shit as well.

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Even in his hallucinations, Stefan makes himself a victim of Damon and Elena's "betrayal". Shut the fuck up.

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finally someone gives SEr's the shit they deserve.

:D

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i think its been established for a while now that i don't give a shit that you focus on stefan. have i not told you that i respect your opinion and a very correct opinion about stefan and his stans? but once again, instead of admitting that you're wrong or saying, "hmmm, you could be onto something"... you ignore me or try to justify yourself in the most contrived way.

I don't understand how I'm wrong in a situation where I admit I made a blog in order to point out Stefan's bullshit. This is nothing to be wrong or right about, it's a blog about my opinion on Stefan. You're welcome to disagree with it, but messages like, "I'm telling you to stop bringing it up" won't be taken into consideration because I don't take orders from my own mother, let alone an anon who can't stand the fact that I'm badmouthing her favorite character.

[imaslytherinbitch]

stelenas make a post about delena

stefan doesn’t deserve this, he nice, he good, he sad all the time about bad stuff; DElusional; heheh DULLena

we’re all blown away by the originality of their arguments and we self-implode due to shame