1.) Donโt throw yourself into a relationship when youโre still recovering from the previous one 2.) Donโt check your phone to see if they texted you because they didnโt. 3.) Donโt beg and plead for people to stay because thereโs clearly a reason they are going away. 4.) Donโt call them crying in the middle of the night because you miss them, just because they used to care doesnโt mean they do now. 5.) Donโt stay when youโre unhappy. 6.) Donโt tell them you love them because youโll regret it every day they cross your mind (this will happen every single day) 7.) Donโt sink to the level of those who are bringing you down 8.) Donโt tell yourself it will be okay if you say sorry 9.) Donโt give them the privilege of your beautiful body because when they leave you will be left feeling bad about it 10.) Donโt fucking ask if they are coming back 11.) Donโt push the sadness away with someone who you donโt actually love because arms wrapped around your waist will not heal your heart 12.) Donโt compare yourself to the someone new because all youโre ever going to be is you (and that is okay) 13.) Donโt depend on other people for things you can do yourself 14.) Sad music and sitting in the dark will not make it better 15.) You will get better even if youโre not there yet at least you know youโre getting there.
(via unterrible)


















