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ketika rehat dari segala media pencitraan adalah pilihan yang tepat untuk mengurangi beban. Sebab hidup biarlah apa adanya kita. Jika ingin tau, maka mendekatlah. Tak perlu lagi pusing-pusing memikirkan apa kata orang tentang kita. Positifnya, ada waktu untuk fokus ke aktivitas lain yg lebih positif, dibanding scroll2 up or down layar gadget utk kepoin orang.

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Mulai detik ini, menit ini, AKU BERJANJI mengontrol pribadi, pikiran & hati

pengendali arus, bukan terbawa arus pakai logika, minimalisir perasaan luruskan niat, fokus tujuan dg tetap nikmati proses yang terutama, Ingat Allah, katakan “Lapangkan dadaku & tenangkan aku, Tuhan”

1. Bahagia sekedarnya 2. Sedih sekedarnya, jangan berlarut-larut, segera cari cara mengatasinya 3. Yg terpenting selalu memberi sebanyak-banyaknya 4. Kunci untuk terus memberi adalah TULUS

I hate U

i hate u that i want u, don’t want to, but i can’t put no body else above u.

It hurts me every time I see you and realize how much I need you. :’(

Just like fire, Just want to run run and running.. What’s gonna to do? what’s gonna to do?

Run and escape from the hurt of ‘feelings’. Lone is the real freedom. Let me to breath like a free woman :’(

-Adaptasi-

Aku pindah ke kursi dengan dudukan berkulit kuning yang empuk menghadap ke timur, menghindar dari terpaan AC langsung, yang bersikeras memutar turbinnya kencang walau udara senja di luar sedang dingin. Ku pandang orang sekeliling, mereka santai saja dengan pakaian minim dan asik menatap layar monitor atau menscroll atas-bawah gadgetnya. Memang, Wong Deso, badan berkulit khas tropis ini tidak biasa dengan hawa dingin yang sengaja dicipta atau alami karena iklim. Baru 10 menit saja, ujung-ujung jari sudah mengeriput. Ku sesali tak membawa jaket. Meskipun orang disampingku menawarkan miliknya, jelas ku tolak, cukup aku saja yang menjadi korban ‘masuk angin’. Kembali ku pusatkan pikiran ke literatur yang tadinya terpotong membacanya, karena pindah kesini dari perpustakaan pusat UGM. Adaptasi nuansa baru di internet cafe ternyata memakan waktu lumayan lama. Sambil menahan dinginnya ruangan, pikiran juga melayang ke orang yang duduk bersampingan denganku, Habil. Ia begitu serius mengotak-atik video dengan aplikasi di laptopnya, tak sedikitpun mengajak bicara kecuali jika ku tanya. Tidak enak juga mengajaknya bicara terus. Tapi suasana yang terlalu tenang membuatku tidak nyaman ketika sedang berdua dengan teman, suasana tenang hanya cocok dinikmati sendiri. Sebenarnya tidak ada yang salah, yang bermasalah disini cuma diriku. Waktu terasa melambat. Sekarang, dinginnya udara berhasil berpadu dengan dingin antara kami. Merasa tidak tahan, aku izin padanya untuk pindah lagi ke kursi luar yang non AC. Ia agak segan dan terlihat mencegahku pergi namun keras inginku mengalahkan usahanya. Selang 5 menit beradaptasi, sama saja. Ruangan non AC elektrik kusebut harusnya, karena disini mengandalkan daya AC alami. Ruangan ini terbuka, sehingga terpaan angin malam lebih bebas menyapa tulang-tulangku dari depan dan belakang, ngilu. Ku tempatkan diriku tepat dibelakang tiang, agar setidaknya terpaan udara tidak langsung menghantam bagian punggungku. Meskipun demikian, aku bisa lebih santai, gangguan pikiran telah teratasi sebab kini aku sendiri dan tak perlu berpikir tentang siapapun. Ditemani secangkir teh hangat dan sepiring nasi menenangkan perut, aku asyik mengerjakan review jurnal-jurnalku. Sesekali ku intip dia di dalam ruangan, menoleh ke belakang, masih dapat melihat wajahnya karena posisi kami menghadap ke arah yang sama. Jam laptopku menunjukkan pukul 20.00 WIB, aku sudah siap dengan materi dan tinggal menghadap dosen esok hari. Ku tutup semua barangku dan kembali ke tempat Habil. Sepertinya dia juga sudah selesai dan mengemas barang-barang. Sekedar obrol ringan dan sebentar lalu kami ke parkiran. “Setelah ini mau kemana” tanyanya. “Paling pulang, gak ada kerjaan juga” Ia mengunjuk jempolnya dan mengatakan hati-hati dalam bahasa Minang. Pun begitu denganku. Aku berlalu pergi, dan di sepanjang perjalanan lantas kuucap syukur atas apapun yang kulakukan hari ini. Cukup ada dia, disisiku, itu saja. Batinku.

16 September 201607:17@AsramaBundoKanduang

layaknya butiran pasir, tak perlu menggenggamnya erat. Biarkan saja menggunung di telapak tangan mu, rapatkan jemarimu. Lalu kita lihat seberapa mampu kau lindungi ia dari tiupan angin pantai

Biarkan dirimu, dengan tulus jatuh cinta, dan belajar hakikat mencinta.

“Aku yakin, kamu bisa berdiri surang di atas pemikiran kamu” “Pemimpin tu dak pangacuik do”

Ni corry, begitu beruntungnya aku mengenal perempuan berhati tulus namun tekad sekuat baja. Seorang yang dinamis dan didengarkan. Masih kuingat kesan pertama dimental oleh dia saat pelantikan PMR. Namun sayang, hampir 4 tahun tinggal seatap di asrama tak kumanfaatkan maksimal untuk mengenalnya lebih jauh. Baru belakangan ku temukan, dari pemaparannya tentang hidup, impian-impian, cita-cita dan keinginannya sepemikiran denganku. Hingga aku katakan aku berguru dengan ni co di tahun-tahun terakhirnya. Kami memang tidak terlalu dekat, minim pembicaraan ringan. Meskipun demikian, aku merasa adanya ‘ikatan’ yg sulit didefinisikan. Melepas kepergiannya ke Jakarta hari ini, seperti kehilangan salah satu penguatku diasrama, dan dikehidupanku. Ni co, aku merasa telah banyak perubahan padaku, ini karena kontribusi mu menyadarkanku arti dan kunci-kunci kehidupan. Sungguh, aku ingin bertemu denganmu lagi suatu saat nanti, ketika impian-impian itu berhasil kita raih dan genggam. Semoga sukses ni Corry, aku menantikan ‘waktu itu’. :’)

Kita PENANTANG IMPIAN diatas awan kita kan menang Kita PENAKLUK DUNIA diatas awan kita kan menang

Melangkah dibawah mentari yang sama Mencari tempat kita di masa depan Berjanji, kita tak akan putus asa walaupun semua takkan mudah

Selalu yang Neutral

ketika ambil keputusan yg tak hrus melalui forum, memang perlu diskusi, dan bertanya. pada siapa? tentunya orang yg dipercaya saja. Gak semuanya. Itu wajar. karena opsi yg terlalu banyak adalah blum tentu baik. Pilih yang bisa netral dan objektif dalam berpikir. itu akan sangat membantu.

Tak lupa untuk selalu floor-kan hasil keputusan. Agar gak kocar-kacir anggotanya.

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24 Invaluable Skills To Learn For Free Online This Year

Here’s an easy resolution: This stuff is all free as long as you have access to a computer, and the skills you learn will be invaluable in your career, and/or life in general.

1. Become awesome at Excel.

Chandoo is one of many gracious Excel experts who wants to share their knowledge with the world. Excel excellence is one of those skills that will improve your chances of getting a good job instantly, and it will continue to prove invaluable over the course of your career. What are you waiting for?

2. Learn how to code.

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Perhaps no other skill you can learn for free online has as much potential to lead to a lucrative career. Want to build a site for your startup? Want to build the next big app? Want to get hired at a place like BuzzFeed? You should learn to code. There are a lot of places that offer free or cheap online coding tutorials, but I recommend Code Academy for their breadth and innovative program. If you want to try a more traditional route, Harvard offers its excellent Introduction to Computer Science course online for free.

3. Make a dynamic website.

You could use a pre-existing template or blogging service, or you could learn Ruby on Rails and probably change your life forever. Here’s an extremely helpful long list of free Ruby learning tools that includes everything from Rails for Zombies to Learn Ruby The Hard Way. Go! Ruby! Some basic programming experience, like one of the courses above, might be helpful (but not necessarily required if you’re patient with yourself).

4. Learn to make a mobile game.

If you’re not interested in coding anything other than fun game apps, you could trythis course from the University of Reading. It promises to teach you how to build a game in Java, even if you don’t have programming experience! If you want to make a truly great game, you might want to read/listen up on Game Theory first.

5. Start reading faster.

Spreeder is a free online program that will improve your reading skill and comprehension no matter how old you are. With enough practice, you could learn to double, triple, or even quadruple the speed at which you read passages currently, which is basically like adding years to your life.

6. Learn a language!

With Duolingo, you can learn Spanish, French, Portuguese, Italian, or English (from any of the above or more). There’s a mobile app and a website, and the extensive courses are completely free.

Full disclosure: BuzzFeed and other websites are in a partnership with DuoLingo, but they did not pay or ask for this placement.

7. Pickle your own vegetables.

Tired of your farmer’s market haul going bad before you use it all? Or do you just love tangy pickled veggies? You too can pickle like a pro thanks to SkillShare and Travis Grillo.

8. Improve your public speaking skills.

You can take the University of Washington’s Intro to Public Speaking for free online. Once you learn a few tricks of the trade, you’ll be able to go into situations like being asked to present at a company meeting or giving a presentation in class without nearly as much fear and loathing.

9. Get a basic handle of statistics.

UC Berkeley put a stats intro class on iTunes. Once you know how to understand the numbers yourself, you’ll never read a biased “news” article the same way again — 100% of authors of this post agree!

10. Understand basic psychology.

Knowing the basics of psych will bring context to your understanding of yourself, the dynamics of your family and friendships, what’s really going on with your coworkers, and the woes and wonders of society in general. Yale University has its Intro to Psychology lectures online for free.

11. Make your own music.

Step one: Learn how to play guitar: Justin Guitar is a fine and free place to start learning chords and the basic skills you’ll need to be able to play guitar — from there, it’s up to you, but once you know the basics, just looking up tabs for your favorite songs and learning them on your own is how many young guitar players get their start (plus it’s an excellent party trick).

Step two: A delightful free voice lesson from Berklee College Of Music.

Step three: Have you always thought you had an inner TSwift? Berklee College of Music offers an Introduction to Songwriting course completely for free online. The course is six weeks long, and by the end of the lesson you’ll have at least one completed song.

Step four: Lifehacker’s basics of music production will help you put it all together once you have the skills down! You’ll be recording your own music, ready to share with your valentine or the entire world, in no time!

12. Learn to negotiate.

Let Stanford’s Stan Christensen explain how to negotiate in business and your personal life, managing relationships for your personal gain and not letting yourself be steamrolled. There are a lot of football metaphors and it’s great.

13. Stop hating math.

If you struggled with math throughout school and now have trouble applying it in real-world situations when it crops up, try Saylor.org’s Real World Math course. It will reteach you basic math skills as they apply IRL. Very helpful!

14. Start drawing!

All kids draw — so why do we become so afraid of it as adults? Everyone should feel comfortable with a sketchbook and pencil, and sketching is a wonderful way to express your creativity. DrawSpace is a great place to start. (I also highly recommend the book Drawing on the Right Side of the Brain if you can drop a few dollars for a used copy.)

15. Make your own animated GIF.

BuzzFeed’s own Katie Notopoulos has a great, simple guide to making an animated GIF without Photoshop. This is all you need to be the king or queen of Tumblr or your favorite email chains.

16. Appreciate jazz.

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Have you never really “gotten” jazz? If you want to be able to participate in conversations at fancy parties and/or just add some context to your appreciation of all music, try this free online course from UT Austin.

17. Write well.

Macalester College’s lecture series is excellent. If you’re more interested in journalism, try Wikiversity’s course selection.

18. Get better at using Photoshop.

Another invaluable skill that will get you places in your career, learning Photoshop can be as fun as watching the hilarious videos on You Suck At Photoshop or as serious as this extensive Udemy training course (focused on photo retouching).

19. Take decent pictures.

Lifehacker’s basics of photography might be a good place to start. Learn how your camera works, the basic of composition, and editing images in post-production. If you finish that and you’re not sure what to do next, here’s a short course on displaying and sharing your digital photographs.

20. Learn to knit.

Instructables has a great course by a woman who is herself an online-taught knitter. You’ll be making baby hats and cute scarves before this winter’s over!

21. Get started with investing in stocks.

If you are lucky enough to have a regular income, you should start learning about savings and investment now. Investopedia has a ton of online resources, including this free stocks basics course. Invest away!

22. Clean your house in a short amount of time.

Unf$#k Your Habitat has a great emergency cleaning guide for when your mother-in-law springs a surprise visit on you. While you’re over there, the entire blog is good for getting organized and clean in the long term, not just in “emergencies.” You’ll be happier for it.

23. Start practicing yoga.

Most cities have free community classes (try just searching Google or inquiring at your local yoga studio), or if you’re more comfortable trying yoga at home, YogaGlohas a great 15-day trial and Yome is a compendium of 100% free yoga videos. If you’re already familiar with basic yoga positions but you need an easy way to practice at home, I recommend YogaTailor’s free trial as well.

24. Tie your shoelaces more efficiently.

It’s simple and just imagine the minutes of your life you’ll save!

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Pembelajaran hidup gak mulu lewat cara baik-baik, dikerasin sama orang juga cara efektif ngajarin kita untuk lebih disiplin dan bertanggung jawab. Take the positive things, throw the negatives one.

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