NattiTopher

Anti-antiship: stop trying to ban art Anti radfem: stop categorizing people as bad 31 Transgender woman, Genderfluid, trans man, Fraysexual, disabled, wheelchair user Posting based things till i get banned Blog is rated R, there will be disccions of sex and kink but not sex/scenes !!Minors be very cautious of engaging!!

[nattitopher]

People who deserved to be shit on and disregarded

- people still using “X” the non consensual nude generating app

[nattitopher]

I dont know too much about endo or non traumagenic systems. But good people are rarely the ones trying to “root out pretenders”

Just let people ID how they want.

This is as a system btw. A system that largely formed along lines that were built up in what someone would have called “endo” at the time when i was like 15.

Identifying with something even though You dont think You are can often lead to that realization You are. And I care more about protecting those people than whatever damage genuinely endo people are supposedly doing to us systems.

[newsmutproject]

Studies show that approaching youth with a bystander-intervention model is actually a lot more effective for reducing sexual assault, and it is also more enthusiastically received than programs that bill themselves as anti-rape.

We can tell youth that they are basically “rapists waiting to happen” (anti-rape initiative), or we can tell them that we know they would intervene if they saw harm happening to someone and we want to help empower them to do that (bystander intervention). The kids jump in with both feet for the latter! It was amazing to see children (and young boys in particular) excited to do this work and engage their creativity with it. Also, studies show that not only do they go on to intervene, but they also do not go on to sexually assault people themselves. Bystander intervention also takes the onus off the person being targeted to deter rape and empowers the collective to do something about it. It answers the question in the room when giggling boys are carrying an unconscious young woman up the stairs at a house party, and people are not sure how to respond and are waiting for “someone” to say or do something.

Richard M. Wright, “Rehearsing Consent Culture: Revolutionary Playtime” in the anthology Ask: Building Consent Culture edited by Kitty Stryker

[beatrice-otter]

This is also, btw, how the US drastically reduced drunk driving in the US. Telling people they shouldn’t drive when intoxicated made absolutely zero difference. A slogan-and-ad-campaign for “Friends don’t let friends drive drunk!” changed drinking culture. Going after the bystanders is quite often the most effective thing to do in any social change.

[nattitopher]

Watching bystanders do nothing as people hurt me honestly did more damage than the assault itself most of the time. It is the silent approval it gave the people who assaulted me. That even this horrible act isn’t worth breaking the peace over.

[luckyladylily]

It is honestly wild how much better the ending of tears of the kingdom would have been if Zelda didn't get effortlessly turned back into a human, but instead was turned back well enough that it could be considered a happy ending while leaving her permanently impacted by her draconification. And we could have gotten a super hot dragon girl out of it.

Massive L on Nintendo's part.

[nattitopher]

Oh and LINK SHOULD HAVE NOT MAGICALLY GOTTEN HIS ARM BACK FOR NO REASON

[softgritspoonie]

When I tell you I'm disabled your response should not be "I'm sorry"

[nattitopher]

Being disabled sucks. I shouldn’t be fantasizing about walking or hell even wheeling or even riding around in the store thats a few blocks away… I shouldn’t be closing my eyes imagining having the energy to browse shelves and get what i need and take it home.

[nattitopher]

Can we stop making every (at least popular) post about tranandrophobia about trans women being shitty? Some of these posts DONT EVEN HAVE SCRENSHOTS and for all I know are made up :/

Guys this is a psyop; we have so many bigger issues.

So, let me start

Its really annoying how the moment I show any level of being submissive when I’m trying to kind of hook up as a gay man, it seems like people just kind of prefer I be a woman for them. Its like not only because I’m bigender but because I’m a man thats got even an inch of femininity in me, people default to ignoring my masculinity when its not the default. And because being a man is a performance, and I am the kind of performer dependent on feedback, it feels like I’ll never really be able to embrace masculinity. Its not rewarded in me in these ways and its disincentivized to perform it in this way. This is transandrophobia, they let my feminine side overwrite my masculine and its not an individual issue but a matter of statistics.

[nattitopher]

Tumblr dot com classic

The “noodles” disintegrate into mush in Your mouth and if You can resist vomiting it somehow turns back into almost the same candy but with all the sour gone.

The “sauce” just tastes like more sour c4 at least

Dont do this

[nattitopher]

Well! I'm probably about to be fired. Honestly good riddence but money :(

[nattitopher]

Friendly reminder to all the people using TMA/TME or any other false binary.

[id: batman in gloves breaking apart a gun, with edited text over top of the gun saying "Binaries/boxes", and the gloved person saying "This is the weapon of the enemy. We do not need it. We will not use it." With emphasis on this, enemy, need and use.]

[polyporethewicked]

imo , the terms tma/tme are questionable, as they often (not always) frame transphobia as “the only kind that matters is the kind that only trans women experience”, which is deeply unhelpful to anyone who isn’t cis but still experiences transphobia, not cis people who aren’t trans women but still experience transmisogyny, and the fact that transmisogyny can hurt cis people, especially cis women and feminine cis men-

and that’s not even to GET INTO how much worse it gets for poc of all stripes- the idea of traditional masculinity vs traditional femininity is practically fuckin special built to hurt people with non-white features. TMA/TME is just another binary that we invented for classification that ends up hurting us. I guess use it if you like it, but i think it’s bad.

[nattitopher]

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I swore my last statement would be “stop using tme, it gives people a new slur.”

But this is even more important; racial features can make a cis woman easier to tranmisogynize than a passing white trans woman.

So trying to claim groups of people are TME is also racist.

You can simply say “people experiencing trans misogyny” and “people largely unaffected by trans misogyny”

You dont need an acronym

You dont need to presume someone having not been transmisogynized, you dont know them. You especially do not know that CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE AS A WHOLE have not been transmisogynized.

Transmisogyny is rooted in white supremacy. Targeting racilized women with transmisogynistic violence is a feature not a bug.

Let the fucking term go. Let the concept of binaries go.

[nattitopher]

Hot take, shipping is the best way to enjoy the sequel triliogy

[nattitopher]

Props to nintendo for showing off some kids star fox game they made in dreams 🙏

[butch4prints]

Made these a while ago to stick on the scourge of lime bikes (boo!!) and cars that blocked pavements in my old city and stopped me getting around in my wheelchair.

Anyway they’ve been available to purchase at cost from my Etsy for a while but I finally sorted out my Kofi so now you can download the file for free to print into stickers or leaflets or whatever yourself!

Go forth and sticker bomb my friends <3

[nattitopher]

I need something like this that is "This curb cut is unsafe for a wheelchair user" to stick on the shit ass curb cuts in my town.

[bebsi-cola]

strong reminder that everything doesn't "happen for a reason". a lot of the time things happen, and it's not a test or a punishment or predetermined. sometimes you get cancer or lose the ability to eat or can't walk and it doesn't have any greater meaning. i know as a species we love pattern recognition to try and avoid bad things from happening but that doesn't mean whatever explanation people make up to rationalise the fact that anyone can be disabled no matter their status or moral character any more truthful

[bebsi-cola]

a lot of people have identified this behaviour with religion/religious people. and while they might be more overtly open about believing this, i actually think it applies more broadly. on a societal level, people blame you for having health conditions, and think you're a good person for having no health issues. it's in the way they act like disabled people are just too lazy to stop being disabled, as if it's because of a moral failing that they're disabled. it's in the way anytime a bad person/person they don't like gets a health condition or health scare they act like it's comeuppance. as if health conditions are some sort of moral or karmic punishment. even before, they blame the disabilities of babies on the moral character of the mother. if you know where to look, this is everywhere

[nattitopher]

As someone who does have this belief, i take it from a different perspective. Letting myself feel everything happens for a reason is a way of being ok with what had happened. Because it changed the course of my life, for better or worse, and the only way to be in the spot I am is the rube golberg machine of my life. And this is coming from someone with chronic health issues and a history of being abused.

I do agree with the sentiment though of the post

[my-dailydreams]

[i-draws-dinosaurs]

This picture is NOT CUTE

they are making her use Window 8. unimaginably cruel

[nattitopher]

Ok, but it could be windows 11

[nattitopher]

I’m genuinely sick to my fucking stomach of this pathetic psyop. That its gotten to me to the point seeing a trans woman on tumblr makes me paranoid and feel like fuck, i need to check if its secretly a psyop hate blog. Or someone who fell for one of them. Fucking tired.

[nattitopher]

Maybe this is a hot take Framework is the apple of repairable laptops.

Framework laptops are just status symbols to show off that you care about right to repair. Financially they do not add up even remotely over time. Environmentally they're not going to solve the problem unless they are a threat to normal laptop manufactures. Instead of trying to influence the direction of laptops they made an insanely expensive for the specs thing that has the same dongle problem as apple, but they say its modular because you can hide the dongles within your computer. Environmentally, its literally never going to be more effective to buy a new thing than to just buy an old thing. The only way to help the environment is to find a way to influence the rate of production to be lower.

Framework is, explicitly, a for profit business. And, as such, they will not solve anything. Framework is capital's re-absorption and monetization of the critique of hardware enshitifiation.

Framework fills a nice, just like apple does. If framework existed in the 80s-2010s it'd be a different story and I'd love what they're doing. But we've hit peak computer. For a while consumers and companies were in alignment about buying more hardware. You started to genuinely be able to do more and more and more with it as time went on. But around the 2020s, that's just plain not true anymore.

Sure you can game more, but like there's only a few games that actually need better hardware. SUre you can edit videos better, but we've already solved video editing. Genuinely 90% of people would be good with the macbook neo for 10+ years. And before you come at me and say "well apple will stop software support".. uh linux duh. The boot loader isn't locked on apple silocon pcs. Eventually, once support is dropped for these, we'll have linux on these devices. And I hate apple and stuff, but framework doesn't challenge anyone. It is a luxury brand to show support for a cause while doing nothing to advance that cause. If you genuinley think framework cares, just watch this clip https://youtu.be/os_fHy1mB_M?t=567 "we can't make a sustainable printer profitable"

Fucking pathetic response. Who cares!! Its even a genuinely stupid decision even in capitalism. making a printer that is the go to solution like that WILL disrupt the printer market to an insane degree. But they do not care about disruption, they care about building a niche. fuck framework. If you are in the niche framework targets, and you like the laptops thats great! I'm glad you can like them. They are the right computer for a small number of people. But framework is selling a lie of what they really are.