I am so sick of this. The black community has worshipped dick and centered black men in everything since day 1. Now silly handmaidens and black men who āidentifyā as black women want to speak over actual black women to prop themselves up. How dare you disrespect our existence and use patriarchy in a dress to make yourselves the focal point of female oppression. Itās called SEXISM not genderism for a reason. Being female has been the sole basis of our abuse and you have the nerve to pretend all of that can be redirected to being about your āmentalityā. Get the hell outta here. You donāt get to redefine things to suit your agenda. Now youāre out here peddling the lie that āblack trans womenā face the highest level of violence. Bull fucking shit. Black women have experienced more violence than ANYONE ever, especially if we are dark skinned. Black people have been enslaved by other black people, whites, arabs and Natives, all of whom raped black women . Some even forced us to breed in astronomical numbers and take care of all the children regardless of color because all we were good for was production. Black women have suffered FGM, have been forced into marriages as children, our bodies have been placed in human zoos for people to gawk at our 'unusualā figures, our bodies have been used against our will to advance science. Present day black women carry those scars with us because trauma against our humanity for daring to exist while black and female is generational. Not only are we missing and trafficked at ridiculous rates but we are also raped, assaulted and killed under the radar. We have become the punchline for black 'entertainersā and black men everywhere from our skin tone to our character to our mannerisms to our genitalia to our diction. We get cervical cancer more than anyone but we better not say it because ānot all women have a cervix.ā š We are the poster children for everything wrong in society. When society talks about welfare queens and single motherhood, theyāre not thinking of 'transā black women. When we get blamed for ādestroying the black community with our feminismā, theyāre not thinking of 'transā black women. When society talks about black women being ugly and ghetto theyāre not thinking of 'transā black women. When people approriate our culture and style to give themselves an edge, theyāre not taking it from 'transā black women. Black women have attitude. Black women are fat. Black women are raising thugs. Theyāre not talking about 'transā black women. Day in and out, black women are societyās scapegoat while all you care about is being able to use the bathroom you prefer and being able to date straight men without opposition. That is what we call a First World Problem. Your identity crisis and the elective surgeries you get to appease it do not take precedent over the global and never ending disrespect of black women. We didnāt have to alter ourselves and go out of our way to be oppressed like you. Just by existing as is, the world has told us that is enough reason to take endless craps on us. Stop acting like black men havenāt always found it ok to fight black women like men because our blackness allegedly discounts our womanhood. Stop acting like black men havenāt embedded it in their mind that black women are not human but their mules to take care of them when life is hard, only to be discarded when they become successful. Stop acting like black girls arenāt constantly robbed of our innocence with assault and dubbed 'fastā so our pain is overlooked and our fault. Stop acting like people havenāt always called black women, men because we are the antithesis of white beauty standards. Stop acting like every woman doesnāt get an ego boost on our backs. We are woman enough to be raped, trafficked, called bitches and hoes but too 'manlyā to reap the finances, protection and reverence patriarchal societyās claim to give women. Stop acting like black women are not abused physically, psychologically, emotionally and financially and havenāt always been by white society, black society and everyone in between. Acting like you have it so hard when we have always been treated like an other just for being born. āThe most disrespected and least protected person on the planet is the black woman.ā - Malcolm X He said black woman. Not black 'transā woman. Cis privilege my ass. You think because youāve been feeling for the last year what black women have been feeling since FOREVER, that you have it worse? You are only experiencing a sliver of what we get anyway. Itās just that typical fragile masculinity you were born into that has you thinking you are the peak of oppression. You went your whole lives ignoring and/or capitalizing on the degradation of black women because your maleness allowed you to put it on the back burner. Your internal issues with gender did not negate the external privilege you received. But now that you 'identifyā as one of us, we need to make you a priority or you slander us with poor reverse psychology. How narcissistic can you get? Womens rights are only worthy of attention when you are involved? āTERFā is not a thing btw. Stop using racism, sexism and homophobia to make yourself valid. You cannot compare white privilege, male privilege and straight privilege to this nonsense. Women have never had privilege. Or do you just wanna ignore the last thousands of years? You were born on the side of privilege and into the dominant oppressing class. Now you want access to a marginalized group with no questions and throw tantrums when we say no. Itās almost like your male privilege conditioned you to force yourself onto women at any cost and taught you how to play victim when women donāt fall for your shit. You want equal footing in womanhood but wonāt hesitate to remind us you āhave it worseā. You want to call lesbians bigots if they exclusively like women and vaginaā¦ because hey, how dare some women not want penis in any way, shape or form. Blasphemy! You have no concern for women in shelters fleeing abusive men. You invade their spaces and tell them to suck it up if they donāt like your dick and masculine energy. You say nothing when born males use their advantages to dominate female sports. But youāre the victim, right? I will say it again. Itās called SEXISM, not genderism for a reason. You donāt get to keep playing the ābeing born in the wrong body is not a privilegeā card to ignore your advantages and complicity at our expense. Gender identity issues are low priority in comparison to everything else. Every day black women leave our homes, we are subjected to antiblackness and misogyny just for being ourselves. Doesnāt matter how we dress or speak, it is hurled our way just for being in a female body via a black package. It will be a cold day in hell before those born male and their delusions get to define womanhood but those of us born female and our realities that came with it donāt. Yes, we are the arbiters and gatekeepers of womanhood and it pisses you off thereās nothing you can do about it except rally your naive liberal handmaidens and scream TERF. Interestingly enough, there are countless instances of 'trans womenā raping, assaulting and killing women but not ONE woman has done that to you. Yet here you all comeā¦ into our spaces IRL and on the internet to force yourselves onto us. Why donāt you go after the men who fuck you in private but donāt want to publicly be seen with you and take your lives with the same gusto? Is it because you have no privilege over them and instead, itās easier to gang up on the 'weaker sexā? Itās almost like you devalue women so much, you wanna speak over, redefine and attack us all while blaming our words for violence against youā¦ well what do you know, patriarchy strikes again. We will not give into your demands. We donāt negotiate with terrorists. (If misgendering you is 'violenceā, well propagating existent violence against us is indeed terrorism.) š
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