queer as in fuck you

they/them == very much not cis and very much not het == I wanted a sideblog to talk about stuff, so here goes. this'll be 99.9% reblogs tho == radfems won't like me very much btw

[chronicallyleggless]

First time making buttons so I made pride stuff!

[intersexfairy]

femboys are great.

i love transfem boys who feel dysphoric when people call them she/her. i love transmasc femboys who feel dysphoric about having stereotypically masculine traits.

i love femboys who are kinky or flirty. i love femboys who are asexual or aromantic.

i love femboys who go on E or T. i love femboys who get top/bottom surgeries. i love femboys who are into drag or alternative fashions like goth or lolita.

i love femboys who are cis and binary. i love femboys who have intricate queer identities and use microlabels. i love femboys who are agender or multigender. i love intersex and varsex femboys. i love transneutral femboys.

i love femboys who are sex repulsed, trauma survivors, or hypersexual. i think all of us should be allowed to be who we are without being sexualized against our will, assaulted, or otherwise dehumanized and shamed.

femboys arent a joke or fetish. we're real people. we all experience being a femboy in different ways, and what matters most is our autonomy and happiness - not other people's feelings or opinions about us!!

p.s: i don't care what the origins of the term were. language changes and this is about the people who fem boys. nothing more, nothing less. genderqueer people rock.

[isuggestforcemasc]

Your testosterone is natural? Mine is imported and designer. Loser.

[iceglobe-system]

A message for my fellow Transmascs

I want to see you grow old, I want to remember that we can live that long.

I want to see you with your dream body, knowing you'll never feel as bad about it as you did back then.

You deserve to express your transness the exact way you want to.

Get those clothes that are a tad expensive but that you know would make you feel awesome.

Go and raise hell, or bring a little more peace into the world. Get that tattoo! Cut your own hair! Go write that fanfiction! Add those tops surgery scars to your favourites! Post those Blorbo headcanons!!! Breath, touch grass, sand and snow too. Go live!

So often we're left out of conversation, or barely there as but a footnote. But- We all have our place in the world, we just need to find it.

[naga-noia]

canon event

[loveless-arobee]

Anyway, masculine men with boobs are awesome.

Masculine men who like their boobs are awesome.

Masculine men who are neutral about their boobs are awesome.

Masculine men who dislike and/or experience dysphoria about their boobs but can't bind or get surgery or simply don't want to (no matter the reasons!) are awesome.

Masculine men who want boobs or bigger boobs are awesome.

Having boobs doesn't make us any less of men nor any less masculine. Boobs aren't inherently feminine – no body part is inherently gendered.

[transmaskulinavan]

seeing a young, timid, insecure girl grow up into a loud, opinionated, confident sometimes to the point of cockiness trans man who loves himself unapologetically is like a drug to me. i could watch it happen all day. ditch the razor, flaunt the packer, raise your voice. force yourself into the world and shove hateful, bigoted people unapologetically to the side to make space for yourself, then look to all those who are afraid to do what you did, and make even more space for them.

[sparrowaces]

love existing in a world with trans guys in it. Love watching shy unconfident girls turn into confident men. Or men that are still shy but now they're *themselves*

Every time a friend of mine says they think they might be a man, actually, it's something wonderful. Knowing you're gonna get to watch him become his own man, get to watch him stop flinching every time someone says his deadname, and start smiling when he hears *his* name from everyone's mouths

Love getting to be there for all of it. Hate that all the bad parts exist, but, when they pass, he's still there, and he's still wonderful, and you have the opportunity to be there for him and love him

Love watching him realise he gets to build his own life, separate from the cis girl he had to be before

[slavik-barkink]

"So basically straight?"

Flags —

First : Genderfluid, Lesbian pin, Lesboy on background.

Second : Bisexual.

[growlgrowlgrr]

sometimes i want a new face

[evil-tman]

Call me transmisogynistic but I don't think "The transgender craze seducing our daughters" is about trans women

[evil-tman]

@crunchbuttsteak I'm delighted you asked! Since you can't be bothered to read, I'll help you a little:

1- Going to college (p.13)

2- Transmasculine influencers (p.15)

3- Chase Ross, a trans man (p.19)

4- The internet and FOMO (p.27)

5- DeviantArt (p.29-30) *worth noting that "Lauren" is also a trans man

6- Therapy (p.31)

7- Therapy, again (p.37)

8- A trans man, again (p.38)

These are all within the first 40 pages. The book has around 400. You can go read it if you think it'll prove your point, but I already know I could find the author blaming trans men a dozen more times. Nice try though!

[ftmtftm]

Here is the link to Chase Ross' video about being taken advantage of by Abigail Shrier [ X ].

Here's Ty Turner's video about the book [ X ].

Jammiedodger has talked about the impacts of the book [ here ] and [ here ].

The idea of "rapid onset gender dysphoria" is literally intentionally targeted against young nonbinary people who were afab and trans boys and the blame is often placed on social media and trans male influencers like Chase Ross, Ty Turner, and Jamie Raines. "ROGD" is considered a "social contagion" that is spread by trans men who are convincing "young girls" to "ruin" their bodies with hormones and surgeries.

This is in fact, one of the many cases where trans men are intentionally painted as predators and maybe we should listen to trans men speak about it.

[changelingcoded]

im sure thats normal

[orcaking]

Leather and Steel 🗡️🖤

(available as stickers via patreon through september 2025)

[ID: Digital illustration of a nude trans masculine person, cropped from thigh to neck. They are posed head on, one hand resting on the strap of a black leather strap-on harness. The other hand is holding the hilt of a sword, pointing down. They have top surgery scars, body hair, and a bandaid on their thigh for their T-shot. They are framed in thorny vines, with some 6 pointed stars around them. The background and figure are both a ochre yellow, with black lineart offset by red. /. End ID]

[redstonedust]

we talk a lot about sex positive asexuals on this site but i never see much discussion about sex repulsed allosexuals. if you find people attractive yet can't enjoy sex for whatever reason, i wish you a happy comfortable life. you're not broken or missing anything. i love you.

[sagewing]

A reflection on the idea of things getting better and my 1 year HRT anniversary

@our-queer-experience (I hope it's okay to tag)

[Bluesky] [Check out my comms!]

[posting-stuffies]

trans man lesbian: exists

transmedicalists: youre not a man then

transphobes: youre were never a man anyways

non-transmed exclusionists: youre not a lesbian, youre straight

homophobes: youre confused straight, yall are hetero in denial

these types of anti-lesboy aren't always this way, sure. but am I the only one seeing some form of correlation or connection?

[squidwof]

I may not be lesboy or turigirl myself but does anyone else get annoyed or upset when people exclude binary transpeople from those labels. I see sooo many people trying to justify those labels by saying it isn't for trans Men/Women but it is for transmasc/transfem individuals. People need to stop trying to justify identities they don't even identify with by using stupid loopholes. Yes, trans MEN can be lesbians, and trans WOMAN can be gay.