This is gonna cost me a few followers and my peace I've built on the back of it all, but I think I'm out of patience for this woman. I stay in my own lane, and when the fact I have her blocked comes up, I say "it's a disagreement I won't get into" because that's the simple explanation and it shouldn't taint any relationships i have with mutuals. As I've said, out of patience. This is about @/megmontana or Meg.
A few months back when I was 18, I was in a server owned by her, and things were chill. In a channel for serious discussion, someone whom I will not name said something about one of their opps boyfriends being a lolicon. I decided to say that being a lolicon or liking loli didn't equal bad. I see people equating it to actual CSAM (which it is in some countries, but that's not here nor there as an American) which is inherently false. Let it be known I had CSAM made of me when I was 13 and 14. Seeing drawings getting compared to actual abuse material makes me mad, but I think i explained myself fairly and with a neutral tone on the subject.
3 months later I was banned off of the back of a fight I admittedly started with another member over something they did that brought up a lot of bad feelings. I was originally muted for 24hrs, and I chose to be an adult and apologize to the server as a whole once my mute was up. Obviously, that never happened. I DMed Meg on Tumblr asking what happened and what resulted in my ban. This was illustrated as a crashout when I was being reasonable. I asked what was going on. I can't prove it because my messages with Meg got deleted somehow after I blocked her or she blocked me, so take it with a grain of salt.
A little something about me, I tend to lose my patience and stop being reasonable when I don't get straight answers about what I did wrong and I tend to not apologize in such a case, even if I was wrong. If you don't tell me what I did wrong but go and tell other people, I'm not apologizing. Even if I was in the wrong.
Anyway, my ban boiled down to what I said about lolicon. Let it be known I said it 3 months prior to the actual ban. I said it on August 29th, I was banned in November(?). After a week, I let it go. No use in watering dead flowers, so I stayed in my lane and moved on with my life. I've said it before and I'll say it again; if that was so bothersome to you, ban me on August 29th. Not in November.
But wait, there's more! This is just the CONTEXT.
Just a little while ago, I discovered the Tumblr community Danse's soldiers. I decided to join and introduce myself. Nothing innapropriate mind you, just saying hi. Not even an hour later I was removed, for inappropriate behavior.
I knew Meg was in that community, but i couldn't see her posts and I assumed the same applied to her. But I knew it had to be her or someone else who has it out for me. I essentially did nothing, I wanted to be with like-minded people.
So Meg, if you're reading this, stay in your own goddamn lane. I've stayed in mine and moved on with my life. Act your age.