most likely gonna update this? I'm pretty lazy when it comes to introductions though.
i am biased towards certain transids and whatever, this is because i am not a rq. i am conflicted about transrace and a lot of transminority ids. if you use/enjoy slurs of your transid i'd like if you don't interact, other than that, you can interact. i do not like xenosatanism though i dont care if you interact. may block if I think you have stupid takes
i am pretty avoidant and get overwhelmed easily so if i ignore you i either felt like I didn't need to add anything else, didnt wanna conversate, forgot to reply, didn't care to reply or felt shy.
suspect you may know me outside tumblr?
please cut me off if uncomfortable, i am not harming anyone. curious as to why i am what I am? ask via dm.
TRANSROBLOXADMIN — when one thinks they should be or identifies as a roblox admin, this can apply to being a former admin, and any/all adaptations of roblox admins (blocktales, brawlr, forsaken etc.).
grey scale for the current roblox admin symbol, yellow for the commonly used yellow skintone on roblox, reds for robloxs older color themes, and blue for robloxs current color themes like its app icon. i made this for fun because i have a roblox admin hyperfixation rn,, i dont usually make transids so i hope this is good ^_^
( i have certain stances on what transids i accept and view as harmless, therefore i am not comfortable with some transids, for example transabled — BUT i am perfectly okay with anyone interacting with my coining posts and using my terms to express themselves. please respect that ! )
I think nobody in this community acknowledges some ARE groomed into this community, and thats because this community does not post about safety, risk awareness, what consent REALLY is (being fully aware of what is happening, being able to say no after saying yes, having safe words, ect), nor educational pieces on safety half enough - making it very easy for manipulators to thrive in this community
Which does not make this community nor its ideals inherently evil like antis say, nor does it inherently mean every aspect should be thrown out the window, thats the exact same as anti-kink anti-bdsm mentality honestly
It's simply that its very easy to lead an uneducated person, or even an educated person who feels trapped into this community, giving them a hundred labels that makes them feel tied to their abuser, and then labelling the relationship as con-abuse
cause nobody seriously dives into the risks of con-abuse, how such a relationship should have breaks and aftercare, outside of anti-rhetoric
I'm talking from experience, It happened to my system, and we are, on a labels and identities level, entangled with our abuser, and still spiral into "well originally i consented, even if I said no later and tried to set up boundaries, maybe he just thought it was all part of the game"
And I am not the only one!!! I've talked to other!!! People in the radqueer space who admit they wouldn't be here without their abusers!!! When people say they were groomed into it, it is NOT just anti rhetoric, theres more substance in these claims
We need awareness, pdfs filled with safety tips, when to take breaks, how to abuse someone safely, how you can hurt someone safely, I want a world where the first thing you see after looking up conabuse is "here's a article on how to do such safely" "heres a class on how to do such safely" "heres a book on the ethics and how to do such safely"
I want a world where we acknowledge the grooming, how identities can be manipulated, twisted, this isn't just a radqueer issue, my otherkin identities were twisted too, so intertwined with theirs it felt like even if I escaped they'd still be who I am.
Might be interesting to see where the rqc falls on the "normal" two-axis political spectrum. Feel free to fill out either one, and rb with your results! /nf
My results are under the cut so this post isn't cluttered. Have fun!
janainaart
vaporwave
baratheonpilled
andulkaphoto
pixelskylines
areudirty
germansingergirl
