Curvy.Inked.Pierced.Twisted.Fierce.

35 yrs YOUNG... 35yrs GIFTED... 35yrs BLESSED... I've got motivation in my heart. Love in my soul. Faith in my future. Hope in my present. Endurance in my past. God on my side. It's OK if you can't love me, nor think of me. I'm not asking you to. It's really OK for me if you can't. Cause you see....what i said was "I LOVE YOU" not "PLEASE LOVE ME TOO"

[nevafeartheunexpected]

Sometimes I sleep on myself…like hard AF! Then I wake up and remember who TF I am.

The bad bitch activates. I’m really in it for me cause I’m that girl.

Been her.

Sleeping beauty is up.

The Diva is back.

I just had to be a little dramatic first. You know that acting shit has been in me.

Multi-dimensional. Complex.

But now comes the “detachment”.

We up and it’s up. Lehgo.

🥰

[hellyeahrihannafenty]

[yocaju]

Discernment is when you don’t have to reach the end of a lesson to learn it.

[apocryphalstories]

I truly appreciate kindness. I appreciate a quick message, I appreciate those who ask me if I’m okay, I appreciate every person in my life who has tried to brighten my days a little.

[javarisx-fightingthosedemons]

[onlyebonees]

[nevafeartheunexpected]

Sis your soul appeared before me spiritually and I sensed hidden battles around your destiny. May I speak inbox?

sure

[ofmiceandmurp]

[xdutchessx]

No, thanks for asking

[aromantic-diaries]

"everyone should get more aromantic" can appeal to tumblr's sensibilities but I genuinely think everyone should also get more asexual. I don't mean everyone stop having sex, what I mean is

Sex is not essential. You can live without it. Full stop.

Not having sex isn't shameful or a sign of failure. It also doesn't make anyone boring.

You are not entitled to having sex with anybody and nobody is entitled to having sex with you.

Sex is not what makes someone an adult.

Nobody's worth is defined by how much sex they have or don't have.

Sex is not equally important to everyone.

You can have fulfilling and happy relationships without sex.

You should only have sex on your own terms, not because you feel like you owe it to someone, or because you feel like you'd be incomplete without it.

Know your boundaries around sex and be firm about them. Know how to respect other people's boundaries.

The previous point also applies when it comes to discussing sex. If someone doesn't wanna talk about it or hear about it you have to back down.

Anything can be sexual but not everything has to be sexual.

[chaifootsteps]

Firmly convinced the world would be a better place if we started treating sex the way we'd treat any other mundane preference in life, like what kind of chips a person likes to eat with their lunch.

[vexheart]

[perfectfeelings]

“You deserve to be with somebody who will drive three hours, just to see you for one.”

— Guidelines For Finding Someone Worthwhile

[vexheart]

[nevafeartheunexpected]

&& we shouldn’t want to.

[quotefeeling]

“I’m going to tell you a secret: You don’t have to believe every thought that pops into your head.”

— B. Dave Walters

[nevafeartheunexpected]

I truly have survived far worse. And I think that the reason why this is hard to deal with is because typically I focus on school or work when things aren’t going well and there is no school or work to focus on just the daunting process of applying to jobs just to waste time I shouldn’t be wasting.

[thehopefulquotes]

“The people who are meant to be in your life will always gravitate back towards you, no matter how far they wander.”

— Robert Tew

[lustingfood]

Brown Butter Chocolate Chip Pancakes (x)