Mayday

(They/She) Shenaniganizer 🇺🇦🇵🇸🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️✝️

[redstonedust]

nostalgia bait is much less effective when you have memory problems. "hey its that thing from your childhood, don't you love thing from your childhood?" i wouldnt know </3 i forgor.

[artistformerlyknownasbutttrumpet]

i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af

i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience

say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!

[for-evermoore]

See I love confident, playful and flirty Evan but I fear that's not my Evan

My Evan is strange, quiet, and extremely perverted

[odium-fati]

Im so tired of some (SOME) modern poems that are just sentences broken up with no clear intention. No rhyme no logic.

[bikananjarrus]

oh so when john wick goes on a revenge killing spree to avenge his murdered dog, he’s an awesome action hero. but when kara zor el beats up and kills the child sex trafficker who poisoned her dog, she’s the worst most selfish awful mean person

[neversaymayday]

guys is it a boss move to take a kick square to the throat from a horse and remain standing yes or no

[stephaniebrownwasarobin]

Ruthye, throughout the entirety of Supergirl: Woman of Tomorrow:

[redstonedust]

the whole "insulting someone based on their appearance is bad because it could indirectly hurt people you like who share that feature" is a good start for unlearning body shaming but i do think we need to go further and remind people that even if there was some physical trait that was magically 10000% exclusive to conservatives and creeps and nobody else ever had it, we still shouldnt be insulting them based on that. because the problem with them is not their appearance its their ideology and actions. by insulting their appearance you arent just indirectly insulting others who look like that, youre literally not making the correct point. stay on topic ya know.

[pastel-pink-psycho]

[beardedmrbean]

[theman]

I GOT A FUCKING RAISE THE POTATO WORKED WTF

[tattooedzombigirl]

This potato works. Every. Fucking. Time.

[secondlina]

Reblogging because it’s a damn potato and I want to encourage people to assume potatoes are magical.

[sinksanksockie2]

w-what if potato is actually lucky

[neversaymayday]

guess who’s back up to 3 jobs wooooo 😀👈

[gilmorenights]

Going to spam like a a friends tumblr page only to realize they barely post so there’s nothing TO spam 💔

[neversaymayday]

Damn

[adduptosomething]

hello you are not alone anymore <3

[neversaymayday]

this actually meant a lot to me thank you

[neversaymayday]

Damn

[favouriteforlonglongtime]

when remus is shit faced drunk he goes up to all his friends and boops their nose with a really high pitched voice and the biggest cheesiest smile and then cries because sirius is too pretty

[moonygirl111]

[fallintomidnight]

Absolutely love the idea of an obliviation spell wearing off when the person who cast the spell has died. Just imagine Mary Mcdonald, on a random Wednesday when she's in her 40s (I think), remembering the death of her love Lily Evans after Dumbledore was killed.