You know what I fucking hate? When friends take what you've said out of context and tell it to the rest of your friends like that's exactly what you said and meant.
How are you supposed to always say and word everything so perfectly that it can never be taken out of context and sound differently than what you were actually saying.
Like at that point I never want to have a private conversation with that friend again, because I would be too scared to speak. And at that point it's like they're waiting for you to say something that can sound mean taken out of context because they what, want a reason to hate you?
Like if you don't want to be my friend you can tell me honestly I would rather lose a friend like that because they aren't really your friend if they're constantly looking for your mistakes and waiting for you to mess up so that they can say 'HA! I KNEW YOU WERE MEAN! SEE?? THEY SAID THIS THING! (just don't let them tell you the context because then it would actually make sense and you would see that it wasn't actually mean).'
Bro if you can't pass on a message without taking the context out then you shouldn't pass on anything, because then it wouldn't even be the message you were supposed to pass on.