No es lo mismo ser que estar

Nací del maíz, por eso llevo mensajes de revolución y evolución- Kinto Sol 

[cazadordementes]

Símbolos de la moneda de $2.00

[paulineglt]

[valeriasalinassalinas]

Nopales.

[gowns]

lower-income people tend to be “hoarders” and richer people are able to do more “minimalist” living spaces. if u don’t have much, you will hold onto any little thing that comes across your way. you got a new tv, but you still keep the old tv because you know things can break. you keep extra boxes of macaroni and cheese lying around because there will be a week when you don’t have money for groceries. you hold onto your stacks of books and clothes for dear life. those are your assets. physical evidence of where your money’s gone. it’s hard to get rid of it. the bare wall is terrifying when you don’t have much.

[femmeemberme-deactivated2018022]

Fuck. This makes so much sense and explains so much about me. I must have inherited this from my mum.

[lokahjarta]

so I’d normally put this in the tags but it’s kind of a lot so just reblog this from OP to skip my commentary. But I dogsit for a family who is clearly LOADED. Their house is immaculate. High, vaulted ceilings, wood flooring, two chandeliers in one room. These things are fancy, right ?? I really don’t know, anything that isn’t tile or 30 year old carpet seems fancy to me. It also so… bare. Everything is organized perfectly, they have no excess. Their decor is extravagant and yet minimal - it is carefully and precisely executed. Nothing that doesn’t match the aesthetic sits in their living room. I tried to replicate some of it, but it’s just not possible. I have every book I’ve ever owned, my mom keeps papers upon papers, VHSs in a dresser, how do you just get rid of these things when you know you may not have the opportunity to buy them again? How must it feel to live in such orderly quarters where everything is replaceable?

[ignescent]

This really locked into my brain when I was reading one of the declutter your space things and it suggested getting rid of duplicate highlighters and pens. /Pens/. It suggested that you needed one or two working pens, so if you had extra you should get rid of them. That was when I realized minimalist living was /innately/ tied to having spare money, because the idea was, of course you just went out and bought the single replacement thing whenever the first thing broke. You obv. Had the time and money to only ever hold what you needed that moment, because you could always buy more later.

[jiangchengdidnothingwrong]

there’s a nice article titled “minimalism is just another boring product wealthy people can buy” by Chelsea Fagan which i feel addressed lots of my problems with minimalism, you can read it [here]

[pervocracy]

All this is true, and I think storage space is a factor too.  If you have to fit your whole life into one room with one closet, it’s really easy for clutter to build up.  If you have a giant house with walk-in closets and a big basement and a shed out back, it’s a lot easier to make your living spaces look “minimalist.”

[otramexicana]

[africanaquarian]

I’m sorry you all had to watch your father steal the light from your mother.

[chicanafeministax]

This was from my hometowns Mexican Independence day parade.

Viva México! 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽

[shadio]

i don’t need friends i have my mom

[oaluz]

“What if we treated our lovers more like friends? We saw in Chapter 3 that the privileging of love puts pressure on love relationships. Think about starting a new relationship: this person hasn’t spent as much time with you as some of your oldest friends and you haven’t yet told them about all the major events of your life but, somehow, because you’ve had sex, you expect them to telepathically know how you’re feeling and to respond perfectly to every situation in which you find yourselves. Also, we can handle our friend having opposing attitudes to us on some of the things we hold dear, but a lover can disagree with us on something as simple as whether its okay to miss the movie trailers and it is a major issue. It is easy to take lovers for granted. We may not be as grateful when a lover puts themselves out for us as we would if a friend did the same. We might not be as appreciative when they give up their evening to comfort us when we’re low. We might take out our irritations and frustrations out on them by being snappy, unfriendly, or quiet without explanation in a way we’d never do with a friend. Perhaps we should take a few moments, each time we’re being irritable with a lover, to ask ourselves, ‘How would I treat a friend in this situation?’

What if we were to treat our friends more like our lovers? Might it be good to put a bit more romance into our friendships? With lovers, we often celebrate by making a big thing of anniversaries or Valentine’s Day, or by spoiling them on their birthdays. We show our appreciation for them with little gifts and cards. We leave them a note when we depart in the morning after an enjoyable night together. We make time for them. Many of these things could be incorporated into friendships. We could send a friend a homemade CD when we hear they’ve been low. We could schedule in a regular lunch date. We could send a bunch of flowers to an old friend to let them know we’re thinking about them even though we haven’t seen each other in a while. We could arrange, each year, a day with a friend to specifically focus on our friendship, perhaps going away for a weekend together doing something we both enjoy, maybe acknowledging the day we met or cemented our friendship in some way. Perhaps friendships could also benefit from some of the ‘state of the relationship’ discussions we may have with overs. It may be easier to let friendships drift or to avoid talking about a problem because we’re not generally expected to reflect on, or work at, our friend relationships.”

Meg John Barker, Rewriting the Rules

[mintokkies]

[tastefullyoffensive]

Lost but not forgotten. (via sxanr)

[hoshees]

goodbye

[hvrmosa]

This song will forever be my favorite!!

[finch]

[orrinbroseph]

Same.

[milkshakecub-deactivated2018121]

Me.

[boarcriminal-deactivated2018052]

me analyzing 13 nearly identical selfies to figure out which one to post

[kehlso]

[losertakesall]

the actual best moment in all ANTM history

[michigatita]

This poem broke my heart

[brujajodida]

What’s this from?

[michigatita]

Its from Hispanic, female and young: an anthology.

[emotivna-kuja-deactivated201802]

“he played you because you let him” no bitch he actually played me because i’m a fucking nice person with a pure heart who cares about everyone and he is a trash of a person for taking advantage of it

[bando--grand-scamyon]

and he’s a fucking asshole

[misadventureofcleopvtrv]

Niggas ain’t shit in these streets.

[alternativeblkgal]

they be preying on girls they see as vulnerable