“the new wuthering heights movie is anti-intellectual, erases the book’s complexity, and whitewashes heathcliff” and “centering your criticisms of the new wuthering heights movie on it being ‘mom porn’ serves no purpose other than to stigmatize women’s, especially older women’s, sexuality” are two thoughts that can and should coexist
“many straight women fetishize mlm romance while simultaneously being homophobic towards queer people, especially sapphics, in their own lives” and “many women are drawn to mlm romance because they are used to seeing women in romance media who are fundamentally passive, and queer fiction allows them to experience a dynamic that is not inherently defined by gender roles” are two thoughts that can and should coexist
“we should be careful about romanticizing certain problematic/toxic behaviors in romantic fiction” and “adult women are capable of separating reality from fiction, and the pressure we put upon sapphic characters in particular to be morally pure and good at all times limits the kind of wlw stories we can tell” are two thoughts that can and should coexist
















