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sixth date tmrw i would wear my dear my love cardigan but she's gonna tear it off me cus we didn't get to fuck the other day and she was like physically trying to phase into me on the couch. i got real butch and just held her thigh trying to be normal

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my lesbian experience with alien trench warfare

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Transmascs claim they're silenced in the queer community, but that's entirely their choice based on my own observations

I've never seen a transmasc more silent when news comes about transfems dying or getting sentences to prison for self defense or getting deported, etc.

I've never seen more silence from transmascs when a TME enby makes a post solely about the experiences of (usually just TME) enbies.

But it's like a catastrophic explosion when a transfem makes a vent post about her suffering and it involves somebody TME as the cause of it.

And they just can't stand when a trans positivity post is explicitly about transfems.

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A Few Transmisogynistic Things I've seen in the last two years:

One of the "Former TERF" Transmascs who came up with Transandrophobia theory has dropped the former part, detransitioned, and is also now an avowed Nazi. Followers of the ideology claim that this is a non-issue on how they view the ideology.

Two separate transmascs and one cis woman "ally" made videos lolcowing "acceptable target" transfems.

One of the most prominent serial harassers of Trans women on this site was outed as a Kiwifarms user and fully bought into the Pizza-gate conspiracy. Many people who participated in the campaigns they ran are saying "Well I'm certain they were right about the ones I harassed."

Tumblr Staff's Rate of banning trans women reached a mass so noticeable that it made news. Tumblr claims that this was in error, but has continued to ban at the same rate, and hopes everyone forgets that they were previously sued (and settled) for anti-LGBTQ bias in its moderation, confessed to having moderators taking bribes to ban targeted users, and its own CEO stalked a trans woman across multiple social media sites.

Men (both cis and trans) unironically state with their full chest that the basic assertions of transfeminism are Misandry and harass trans women about this.

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Remembering the time a trans dude sent me unsolicited pics of his vagina while I already had lesbian in bio. And these are the same dudes who think its transphobic to tell them they have male privilege.

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The men in the comments seem to believe that incidents like this are isolated. That there are no systemic forces that drive these types of incidents at all. They live in a fantasy, or rather, willful ignorance. My post said nothing bad about trans men. Yet, simply saying that they benefit from male privilege, which is an objectively correct statement, gets me labeled as a terf.

Men do not want women to speak about our experiences with sexual harrasment. At least, not unless its palatable for them. They don't want women to address these terrible incidents unless we do not challenge them whatsoever. They want themselves completely removed from the idea they could benefit from any social force. They can not imagine letting themselves be uncomfortable and holding themselves to standards. They don't want to question themselves. They dont want to question other men.

Trans men, or rather men as a whole, want to be absolved of guilt. They want to be ontologically innocent. So when they read a post like mine, they can't stop at just being sympathetic or shutting up. They have to let it be known that they are innocent. That i'm a rude, misandrist "terf." To men like this, an acknowledgment of misogyny itself is inherently "transandrophobic." Because they must not feel guilty at any cost.

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