Attention, black sugar babies!
I have a lot of sugar baby followers of different races but this post is specifically for black sugar babies and aspiring sugar babies. I see a lot of posts and sugar babies saying that black sugar babies can’t find a sugar daddy or find a daddy willing to give you an allowance over 1k. This is a LIE. It’s harder, yes but not impossible and if you leave these sugar sites it’s easier than you think. You can get a sugar daddy or more than one and get over 1k too. My sugar daddy gives me 4K a month but and he gives me gifts as well. I get and can get all the perks of my white counterparts with one phone call. I know I’m worth it, he knows I’m worth it.
1. I know it’s kinda hypocritical because I met my sugar daddy online lol but that was pure luck and being at the right place, at the right time. On sugar sites the men do not tick the ‘black/African descent’ box. Most of them don’t anyway. So even if you’re fine asf and intelligent with a witty profile you will get no shine because you aren’t searched for!
2. Society is racist. Plain and simple. Entering the sugar bowl doesn’t make this go away. Sure, it feels like the sugar bowl is a society of its own but really it’s just a community within our society. People will carry their societal influenced perceptions into the bowl. Ie, a white and even a black sugar daddy may not think a black sugar baby is worth a monthly allowance above 1k or he may think she’s ghetto all because she’s black. Or a black sugar baby herself may not believe she is worth a lot because she is black. NEVER feel that way about yourself. You are the prize here. Young, intelligent and beautiful. If you feel unworthy they can pick up on that and try and lowball you. Stand your ground with whatever your set allowance is in your mind.
3. Sites are too populated. These men will have 200 messages in their inbox whilst you have 30. Your message will probably just get lost in the mass of other stunning girls. The only advantage is if he messages you first. My sugar daddy messaged me first and thank God he did because I’m sure his inbox was filled to the brim like most men on those sites with a certain net worth.
Sugar babies in general should freestyle. Better men (look wise) and you’ll find richer men that way too. Less risks of trolls, Johns, splendas and fakes. If you’re a black sugar baby rely mostly on freestyling. It’s real life, nothing beats seeing someone in the flesh. You will get better results freestyling once you find the right spots and get the hang of freestyling. Still keep an account if you want but freestyle every week, every day, three times a month. Whatever your schedule or money allows but do it regularly and be patient.
