Mean Bear

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[nomoremrnicefat]

once you notice how society, specially social media treats fat people you find yourself asking "is this video really "cringe" or is the person just fat"

[nomoremrnicefat]

friendly reminder that fat people are as allowed to joke and punch up on skinny people as gay people are on straight people, trans people on cis people, poc on white people, etc

if you disagree, ask yourself why.

[nomoremrnicefat]

idk if i didn't explain this correctly, if so i apologize.

my point wasn't "its okay to joke about collectives", my point was that everyone laughs about the "straight men and crypto" or "white people can't dance" until fat people do so, i wasn't saying i agree or not, i was just pointing how everyone sudenly care about respect only with one group

[nomoremrnicefat]

imho i dont like the argument "fat liberation also helps skinny people" cause. it does but, i don't like how the "justification" we have for fat people to fight for basic dignity and rights is centered on skinny people, we can't let our own fight center a catter to non-fat people or we will never get anything done.

[thisisthinprivilege]

Including thin people in fat liberation is not centering them, particularly if the vast majority of activism is centering fat people and our stories and only occasionally being like, "Yo thin folks, you think thin privilege is so good but it's a poison pill, man."

I don't think it's helpful to stoke internal divisions in an activist space by pissing on people who occasionally include allies in the discussion. Like it or not, allies can do helpful work and it is a good idea to occasionally reach out. Take it from someone who has been doing fat activism a long time (starting in 2007ish).

-ATL

[nomoremrnicefat]

i never said something like that, i just said fat activisim should be about fat people and using the argument "fat people are human" before "dismantling fatphobia helps skinny people"

[nomoremrnicefat]

imho i dont like the argument "fat liberation also helps skinny people" cause. it does but, i don't like how the "justification" we have for fat people to fight for basic dignity and rights is centered on skinny people, we can't let our own fight center a catter to non-fat people or we will never get anything done.

[mrpickleface-deactivated2025022]

I want to be supportive of this take, but the abject hatred I see on here for skinny people from fat liberation/fat acceptance folks is crazy. It's so prevalent and honestly devalues so much of what the movement is trying to do. It's just replacing people being mean to fat people with fat people being mean to skinny people, like what the fuck is the point.

[nomoremrnicefat]

"the abject hatred for skinny people" says while going to a pro fat post on a pro fat account talking about fat liberation wrote by a fat man to not only center but victimize skinny people in a post unrelated with your reply. are you serious.

if you want to talk about it do your own post, but don't go to fat people who EXPLICITLY say "we should center fat people" to say "BUT WHAT ABOUT HOW SKINNY PEOPLE FEEL 😢 PEOPLE ON TUMBLR ARE MEAN 😢😢😢" like it is even comparable.

ALSO. IMPORTANT NOTE: not amount of mean fat tumblr users are equivalent to fatphobia, saying that is ignorant as hell, you sound like the guys that cry that feminists hate men.

[sitronsangbody]

It will never not baffle me how hard society tries to insist that fatness is an abnormality. The average western woman wears plus size clothing. One of the smallest garments on the scale is called a medium. Most people with anorexia are in the overweight bmi category, yet somehow that's known as "atypical anorexia". Fatness is often labeled the cause of a number of diseases, but there are literally no diseases exclusive to fat bodies. Looking at movies and television, you'd think the world was 98% thin people. It's not.

My point isn't that if it was pretty rare to be fat, fatphobia would be okay. Of course not.

My point is that we're surrounded by all these artificial indicators that fatness is unnatural and uncommon and it's just not true?? Humans are not always thin and we've never all been thin and we're not all meant to be thin. Fat humans are a normal type of human. Fatness is a feature, not a bug.

[nomoremrnicefat]

imho i dont like the argument "fat liberation also helps skinny people" cause. it does but, i don't like how the "justification" we have for fat people to fight for basic dignity and rights is centered on skinny people, we can't let our own fight center a catter to non-fat people or we will never get anything done.

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[raging-guanche]

yesterday was canarian national flag day.

there wasn't a celebration, two days before, in my homeland, there was a case pf police brutality towards activists (many indigenous people among them) for being angry about tourism destroying our land and treating our homes like a monopoly game.

a disabled man was arrested for 24 hours for defending a woman hit by a cop and then threatened with taking legal action for "attacking an agent".

there are multiple agressions counted by activists from cops including concussions, people, including elderly people, where pushed to the floor or palm trees, which are super spikey and hard, they left a woman on the hot cement for >2 minutes and pushed anyone who even tried to help the woman sit

ALL protesters were unarmed, the only thing we had was grief.

please keep an eye of us and canarian resources, canarian indigenous people are left struggling alone and none of people outside pur country takes the time to listen to us, im shaking for impotence writing this, i feel like im screaming to the void, we feel so alone.

[nomoremrnicefat]

i have three blogs.

one is this, the other ones are an ocd safe space and my main.

in NONE of the later two i have been harassed, dehumanized, called slurs, had people making accounts solely to target me and other fat creators or people quote-rebloging ALL MY POSTS with fatphobic violence.

(some examples, i have more, i screenshot everything cause i have been already a bullying victim and im not letting that shit happen again)

i don't want ANYBODY saying to me fatphobia doesn't exist or that is not a real problem, that is not real violence, if you took comments i had on the only account im openly fat and changed "fat" to "gay" yall would be spitting foam and calling that homophobia.

some of you are fucking hypocrites and only care about minorities that are similar to you or you fetichize, claim to care about oppressed people and being anti system until it is about us, cause you don't think twice before throwing us under the bus.

sorry if this ramble doesn't make any sense, im just too annoyed to make a decent post.

[nomoremrnicefat]

why fatphobes feel like they have to make up a fat person and get mad at them 😭

[nomoremrnicefat]

if you have a anti-fat account/ """pro health" blog and you NEED to say in your bio that you don't promote eating disorders... 🤨

[dicktives]

if you have a fat-acceptance account and you genuinely believe you don’t promote eating disorders/disordered relationships with food… 🤨

[nomoremrnicefat]

i love when obsessive users in tumblr think they know my life when the only thing they know is that im fat !!!!!

[nomoremrnicefat]

if you have a anti-fat account/ """pro health" blog and you NEED to say in your bio that you don't promote eating disorders... 🤨

[geekandmisandry]

Hey, what the fuck?

If fat people in cosplay makes you "uncomfortable" then maybe keep it at home and don't go out.

No idea who Metzycos is, but hopefully they are not a huge content influencer, because this attitude is toxic as hell.

[gonathanwithag]

non fat people will take a post about fatphobia and view it as a personal attack or find an excuse to shift the focus on themselves instead

"i got told to eat a burger!!" "skinny people have body dysmorphia too" "i got called a skeleton"

i got told to killmyself for wearing a bathing suit, to cutdeep for standing up for someone being bullied for being fat, and very often i am being told to starve myself simply for existing as a fat person.

not uncommon experiences either, quite often for me actually! and im not even considered to be that big compared to other fat people.

fatphobia kills, through either fatphobia in medical spaces leading to medical neglect, to starving to death from an encouraged eating disorder, to committingsuicide over taught self hatred and shame, to being fatally attacked in a hate crime.

i'd never diminish someone else's eating disorder or bullying history, but if the topic is fatphobia and fatness and you aren't personally affected by fatphobia... it's not about you. move on, make your own space!

[nonbinarythorin]

[nomoremrnicefat]

i dont get why many people get so mad when we call out how many spaces are super skinnyfied.

i have seen scenes and emos telling fat people "they're making shit up" and "stereotyping them" cause they said that those subcultures tend to be violent to fat people.

and how skinny alternative people from tiktok talk shit about everyone who doesn't thrift but has 10 XXL thrifted pants when they could buy an M or S

fat alt people, never feel ashamed to call out shit like that, you deserve to be heard