What the title says

just a side blog for vents

[non-binary-vent-blog]

Binary people really do frustrate me sometimes.

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The world needs to be less exorsexist I am begging you.

[non-binary-vent-blog]

"women and non binary" spaces are just so fake tbh. You and I both know that if a non binary person were to look too masculine and too much like a man, then you would kick them out or at the very least make some comments about "inviting men".

It's so obvious that they actually aren't accepting of non binary people, and would only accept them if they looked feminine or at the very least feminine enough for their sensibilities. Otherwise it's comments galore.

[non-binary-vent-blog]

I seriously think that binary people should stop going on and on about who has it the worst, and stop binarising us into the good and bad ones. Please for the love of god I hate this website.

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If nothing else, I'm glad I didn't go into "transfeminist" spaces (radfem hotbeds) and start defining everything by my agab because that would be fucking terrible lol.

[ashen-vulture]

It is funny how I see so many trans issues posts end with "and this doesn't even go into how nonbinary or intersexed people are treated!"

Yeah hahaha yeah it rarely does!

[non-binary-vent-blog]

Fun thing about being my type of non binary is that I am barely even mentioned in this non binary sphere in the first place. I have gone through a very masculinising puberty which has made me look like an ogre essentially. I hate looking like a man and I hate the fact that I'm constantly referred to as a man.

And yet in the actual non binary community there's barely any discussion around that. If anything it's the opposite. Talking about binders and testosterone and all that shit, and the notion that most non binary people went through a feminising puberty. So it creates this effect where I'm almost treated as a concept.

Unfortunately, this is where the TMA TME bullshit comes in again. According to these people that perpetuate that nonsense I would be "TMA" and shoved into the transfem box where I'm essentially forced to be feminised and whatever (although because I'm so vocal about transandrophobia on main and don't think that transmascs are evil privileged demons I don't think this is a problem because they have essentially just all blocked me) and I would only really be accepted if I adopted a feminine identity. The trouble is, I don't. I don't want to be any of the binary genders. So I'm put in the cis man box, where I'm treated as a cis man pretending to be queer for attention.

Do I think the overrepresented type of non binary get any better treatment? No. Just want to make that clear. No I do not. They are called slurs a lot of the time (the word "theyfab" comes to mind whenever I think about their treatment) and they are treated as their binary counterparts but in a lot more aggressive way. It's bad for both of us and it's especially bad for intersex non binary people who are constantly expected to fit in not just the gender, but the sex binary too. Basically a double whammy of intersexism AND exorsexism.

So, the lesson learned? Binary people will end up trying to fit non binary people into boxes no matter what asab they were. There really is no meaningful way that a type of non binary is treated any better than the other types. They are treated differently, but to say that they are treated any better or worse is fucking erroneous and completely misses the point.

[bingus-fortniteclips]

I think we should just admit most nonbinary people are just performative cis people, it exists as a real internality for the duration of this transitionary phase out of gender we're in as a society, but most people whose consider themselves nonbinary are performative, sexist, transphobic cis people whom are ideologically largely synonymous with cis people to the point that they rarely actually can be said to even comprehend the concept of being nonbinary and overwhelmingly aggressively identify with regressive concepts regarding sex and their born gender, materially and rhetorically cis and by extension cis in fact

[gr3at-s4ge]

@thisisexorsexism

[thisisexorsexism]

this is exorsexism

[non-binary-vent-blog]

This is what binary people are like. Every single day.

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I want to go on estrogen some day and finally have a perfect androgynous body, as well as finally being able to tell exorsexists where to shove it.

Maybe then they can finally realise that being non binary isn't just a phase, and that it's a real thing that people inhabit.

Genuinely fuck binary people.

[non-binary-vent-blog]

Genuinely the exorsexism in the trans community is insane. I don't see any posts actually talking about non binary people unless they're from the non binary blogs themselves, like thisisexorsexism, or just general non binary focused blogs. The most that we get is a single statement saying that we exist.

And the TMA TME thing jesus fucking Christ. You know these fuckers keep crowing on about how there's a lack of tma non binary representation. Yeah that's because we don't want to be involved with your bullshit. We don't want to be part of yet another fucking binary meant to divide us. I don't give a shit if I'm TMA or not.

Another blog focused on the same thing as I'm doing said that transmascs were the real problem and they considered themselves more non binary and whatever. Well last time I checked transmascs didn't invent a new arbitrary fake binary meant to put us into the "good" and "bad" slots didn't I. And also transfems have literally said that they're more non binary than we are by virtue of them rebelling against gender norms! It's not a big mystery here.

[non-binary-vent-blog]

Man I love it when I'm put with transmascs on this website. And by love I mean fucking hate.

I am not a transmasc. I'm not even close to one. It is quite literally impossible for me to be a transmasc in the way that they're describing.

So I must be transfem, right? Nope. Not transfem either.

I'm neither transmasc nor transfem, as I don't subscribe to your stupid binary, and I wish it to be dead. Fuck the binary.

[non-binary-vent-blog]

Binary people are so fucking frustrating I seriously hate them. Constantly going on and on about who has it the worst trans women or trans men.

Maybe next time think about us the next time you make that post saying that transandrophobia isn't real or transfems are scary? But no, the only use that we have is to be used as pawns in said fights, and to be binarised in the "good" or "bad" non binary.

[non-binary-vent-blog]

VENT?! LIKE FROM AMONG US?!

No but really I've been getting so fucking frustrated with this website, and I cannot stand the way that non binary people are treated here.