A post of americans longing for their particular forgotten european traditions/blaming white supremacy for that has crossed my dash, and well
on one hand yeah, homogenizing people is an opressive thing, and people still having “weird" non-WASP-y things in their families should be allowed to celebrate them, if they prefer.
What these americans seem to forget, though, is that national identities other than american... are just as much constructed as the american one. Making people feel like a nationality (which oh so conicidentally is the nation making a state) takes a lot of effort, and the price to be paid is to forget a lot of local particularities. Even in “neat” states like France, as opposed to the mess of the Balkans - at the time of the Revolution, most peasants didn’t exactly speak French. But they had the infrastructure of making everybody speak the same, in the end, and creating a culture that is unifying enough.
What people do, in the vaguely defined category of culture, is resulted from what we need, but also all kinds of political and commercial powers. Everywhere, including America.
And the thing is, left alone, people can develop identities at the drop of a hat. Villages can hate each other and have folktales about how stupid the neighbouring one are. They can have myths about a cave behind the barley field belonging to a particular family. In the long term, we did live in small hoards. So, because national identity was made up, we still have the power to make new identities up! Nothing is lost! Unless people are too overworked/busy/poor to actually hang out, that would make community-building complicated. But having no idea about one’s particular ethnic roots does not mean that you have lost the one chance you had to have rituals you can care about, to belong etc.
If people feel alone and unconnected, I think that’s caused mostly by economic alienation, having to move around too often (having to severe one’s roots each time), and not having time to build communities. Having an ethnic backstory is not necessary at all to build a community around, and I suspect that the posters on the thread do care about their political and aesthetic preferences too much to feel any kind of Brotherhood to a conservative old man whose one passion in life is the equivalent of yodeling in their ethnicity, when it comes down to it.
And also, being able to get rid of uncomfortable traditions is a crucial part of freedom. WASPs are allowed to stop being protestant. When my own ethnicity’s nationalists say silly things, I am allowed to not listen to them. Imposing homogenization is bad, but keeping people tucked away in sterile enclaves is also unethical.