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Since TikTok is down because I pretty much replaced Tumblr with TikTok, I guess I’m back on Tumblr 🫢

Upon reflection of my feed– Ok I miss tumblr for real.

Updates ummm I went back to grad school for the 2nd time bc I love school counseling so much. Still a high school counselor.

Finally broke up with my abusive boyfriend, we were together for almost 6 years and the breakup had left me in shambles but I’m doing a lot better with it, there are a few moments that are still difficult. As much as it hurt to lose such an important person in my life, the reality is that he was physically, emotionally, verbally abusive. and I deserve far better.

Afterwards I fucked around (literally) with too many dudes, 1/3 of them were pure evil, I also may have boinked half the men ages 26-33 in Athens GA (jk… perhaps) in this span of time. Perhaps may have hooked up with my ex once. Might have gotten a former uga football/nfl player to fall in love with me but then he went to jail without me knowing and I moved on. Then came back professing his love but it was too late. It’s fine.

Also, met a man that has treated me like a queen since day one of talking, loves me for me emotionally mentally and physically (a stark contrast to my ex), sexy as hell, so kind, does all my chores LOL and is quite the gentleman. He’s my boo thang and I love him a whole lot. He’s treated me so well and my friends can all tell that he’s good to me, unlike the aforementioned ex.

Shoutout to my babyyyyy. ALSO SHOUT OUT TO ME

notgranada

This post was insanity 😭😭😭😭 the new dude was also evil. Lmfao I was truly unhinged at the time

Not my yearly check in. I turn 29 in 3 weeks and my aunt’s dying

aevie

kontrazvedka-deactivated2019031

A woman is suing employees of a Florida jail after they allegedly forced her to spend nearly 10 hours in a cell surrounded by 40 men because they suspected she was transgender,the Miami Herald reported.

If this had been a trans woman no one would have cared. It wouldn’t even have made the news. But since it did, I’d just like to say that prisons are dens of sexual violence and freedom demands their abolition

gunsandfireandshit

More proof that the struggles if cis women and trans women will always be intertwined and notions of “passing” will always be used as a way to punish and control all women.

celeritaschronicles

Remember that video of a cisgender lesbian who got harassed and ejected from a bathroom by male cops a couple years back while her friends pleaded for the cops to leave her alone because she was a cisgender woman? Because I remember.

apersnicketylemon

The anti-trans push WILL hurt the cis women you claim to be trying to “protect” as your excuse. You’re not protecting them or anyone else. Literally all you do is put everyone at risk instead. Stop pretending that ‘protecting’ people is your goal, we all know it isn’t, and shit like this will happen more frequently and get worse as the push gets stronger.

Just admit you don’t give a shit about any women, you just like hurting trans people and go.

powerfulwizard

What’s especially weird about this is for cis women going through menopause, and for cis women who have had their uterus removed, it’s pretty normal to be taking hormone replacement therapy. And them detecting that she was on HRT is a large reason why they sent her to a male prison, despite that being like, not that strange of a thing to be finding in an older cis woman.

deadryn

TERF ideology is intertwined tightly with the enforcement of white, western standards of femininity onto women around the world, and exists to punish those who don’t fall in line under the pretext of “protecting” white femininity. it’s not radical feminism, it’s reactionary fascism.

Upon reflection of my feed-- Ok I miss tumblr for real.

Updates ummm I went back to grad school for the 2nd time bc I love school counseling so much. Still a high school counselor.

Finally broke up with my abusive boyfriend, we were together for almost 6 years and the breakup had left me in shambles but I’m doing a lot better with it, there are a few moments that are still difficult. As much as it hurt to lose such an important person in my life, the reality is that he was physically, emotionally, verbally abusive. and I deserve far better.

Afterwards I fucked around (literally) with too many dudes, 1/3 of them were pure evil, I also may have boinked half the men ages 26-33 in Athens GA (jk... perhaps) in this span of time. Perhaps may have hooked up with my ex once. Might have gotten a former uga football/nfl player to fall in love with me but then he went to jail without me knowing and I moved on. Then came back professing his love but it was too late. It’s fine.

Also, met a man that has treated me like a queen since day one of talking, loves me for me emotionally mentally and physically (a stark contrast to my ex), sexy as hell, so kind, does all my chores LOL and is quite the gentleman. He’s my boo thang and I love him a whole lot. He’s treated me so well and my friends can all tell that he’s good to me, unlike the aforementioned ex.

Shoutout to my babyyyyy. ALSO SHOUT OUT TO ME