I am made of stars

| Valentine | 31 | agender | he/him or they/them primarily, but also fae/faer and xe/xem work |

[czw]

[headspace-hotel]

It slaps though

[fibro-memes]

[crabussy]

formal menswear enthusiasts want to slut it up so bad but they're frightened. so they wear shirt-stays and sock garters under their clothes. this is my scientific theory it's making waves in the guyologist world right now

[crabussy]

like seriously. seriously. "oh I just want my shirt to stay tucked in and my socks to stay up" riiiiiiight.

[quoms]

Btw there's really no other justification for this, because these are not particularly historical articles of clothing. You don't need a shirt stay if you wear high-waisted trousers (shirts come untucked much faster from lower waistlines), and you don't need this kind of sock garter if you wear long socks that go over the top of the calf. To say nothing of the fact that they're all made of elastic straps, which is not a traditional or "heritage" material! They are making this stuff up!

[thegirlwiththemooglehat]

Friends, romans, people who are nonbinary except at work, lend me your ears,

[a-mel0n]

reblog if you’ve had an online friendship that’s lasted more than 2 years

[sobcat]

ideal day: wake up late. iced latte. my video game. crazy reheated lunch. my show. supermarket trip to waste money. a snack. creative endeavours deep into the night. same thing next day.

[redstonedust]

its probably a normal sign for the economy that all of my adulthood fantasies are like "imagine having your own kitchen living room and bathroom to decorate" "what if i could get on a train" "maybe one day i could purchase a sturdy pair of shoes" "i should save and invest in a single bicycle"

[orpheuslament]

lets out one truly pitiful little whimper & then goes back to doing fucking whatever

[memory-of-stargazing]

“It just means you have to work double as hard as most people!”

Well maybe I don’t WANT to work double as hard as abled people!! Maybe I deserve a BREAK!! Maybe I’ve been working MORE THAN double as hard for MY WHOLE LIFE and it’s led me to immense burnout & caused me to develop several MORE disabilities!! Maybe I should be ACCOMMODATED so I don’t have to KILL MY BODY AND BRAIN over trying to do what abled people can do!! Maybe I DON’T have to work double as hard!! Maybe if there’s the option to let me NOT work double as hard, I should have it, because I’m already working double as hard JUST TO SURVIVE!!

Why do you think disabled people deserve less rest than mentally & physically abled people?

[scooplery]

"it's just growing pains" -> "you're too young for that to hurt that bad" -> "you just need to get in better shape" -> "welcome to being old, everyone is in pain"

[notstvalentine]

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Went to a clinic today to try and figure out why my back hasn't stopped hurting in over a week

Doctor recommended: exercise (when moving hurts) and weight loss

I don't think I'm gonna return to that clinic because fuck that

[kurulover]

I hate that when you’re stressed enough your body just starts falling apart. I think it should realize you’re already stressed and don’t need that and start functioning better actually

[fandom-trash-goblin]

we've got a life to love living.

[apolladay]

Did you work during any of the Covid lockdowns?

yes outside the home

yes but from home

yes to both of the above

no but I wasn't/couldn't/didn't work anyway

no Covid stopped my job at some point

nuance/other/results

Voting ended onJun 24

[notstvalentine]

After using my crutches for a day (minus the time I was at work because store is too narrow)

I can say

It helps with the pain and the support

But there is no cushion on the grips and so my hands hurt

[notstvalentine]

First day out using my crutches and

I should have done this earlier

Fuck the support is so nice

[notstvalentine]

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Bought myself some forearm crutches because my body keeps betraying me

And from the little I've used them in my living room after putting them together, they do help a lot

Wish it wasn't necessary but I am glad to have them for when they'll be needed

And they will be needed