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I might change up my blog again teehee. I was in the middle of renovating it like 2 yrs ago but now for sure! maybe.

tbh I wish I could wipe tags and start fresh bc there's sooooooo much, esp personal post tags, I wanna get rid of but tumblrs still too far behind for that huh.

#mercury shit talks

adayinthelesbianlife-deactivate

Sage Sohier chronicled the love of gay couples in the 1980s in her collection At Home With Themselves. Spurred by the AIDS crisis and the media representations of promiscuity and disease in the community, the project aimed to dispel stereotypes about gay love and showcase lesbian and gay couples of all ages, backgrounds and proclivities, capturing a visual that often went unseen.

“I was interested in how, as a culture, we weren’t used to looking at two men touching, and was struck by the visual novelty yet total ordinariness of these same-sex relationships. The visual ambiguity of same-sex relationships also intrigued me: were these sisters or friends or lovers or a mother and daughter?“

The photographic endeavor was also prompted by Sohier’s father. The book is dedicated to him and his partner Lee.

#lgbt #pride month

ulibeanzz

unfamiliar with the concept

#comic

autistic-af

How do i help my girlfriend with Alexithymia? Her parents dont understand why she says ‘i dont know” to everything when they ask her whats wrong. I cannot speak for her but i can accommodate. What has worked for you? I will be speaking with her parents to teach them about it to make a new plan of how to go about things. Im hopeful yet im terrified (being brave)

Alexithymia is difficulties expressing or identifying emotions. People with this condition experience the physical effects of the emotion, but often do not understand what the physical sensation means or what it connects to. This often leads to delayed emotional responses or they may not experience an emotion at all.

They may also give the incorrect emotional response to a situation as they do not know the appropriate response. An example would be not acting joyous after receiving good news. They are aware it's good news, but they do not experience the sensation to respond.

The biggest issue that I've had explaining this condition is people (especially family) want to know "why".

Alexithymia is usually a secondary diagnosis and is seen in neurological conditions such as autism or depression, brain injuries, and can be trauma induced.

The important thing is to explain there is nothing wrong with your girlfriend. She isn't broken. She simply experiences emotions differently. That's all.

She's still herself, still capable of emotions, but is slower to make the brain/body sensation connection.

Things that help (in my case), are avoiding direct emotion based questions ("how are you" means nothing to me), encouraging them to instead express how they physically feel (I find using metaphors/simile works a treat. "I feel like caramel" is much easier for me to say than "I feel warm and happy") and apps like Animi which help me figure out the body to emotion connection.

#mental health

weavemama

CELEBRITY FUTURE TELLING

#meme #how accurate has some of this been a whole decade from this post

elusivebrew

Butterfly Meditation by Ardy

not mine but nobody had it posted and its adorable???

FINALLY done with my Sailor Cosmos paper craft! It took me two weeks, working on and off, to get this done. Honestly, towards the end I was getting kind of annoyed and frustrated with it, but I’m glad it’s done now. Now I just need to figure out where to hang it, and I can go back to working on Future Reunion…

#sailor moon

japan-overload

Backpacks! 1 | 2 | 3 / 4 | 5 | 6 / 7 | 8 | 9 Discount Code : shan (20% off)

#clothing ref

themusicismymasterr

Visit Original Link

Roundabout - Yes (Fragile, 1971)

#music #audio #audio tag

genderdome

lacey-lamb

Gonna cut a bitch and be kawaii while I do it

agnesmontague

OH MY FUCKING GOD YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND THOUGH

okay so these things are called “Jang-mi Kal” which is Korean for “Rose Knife”, exactly what it says on the tin

AND THEY WERE ADVERTISED AS BEING THE SHARPEST THING ON EARTH LIKE THERE IS NOTHING THESE BADASS MOTHERFUCKERS COULDN’T CUT

GIANT COW BONE? YOU BET

PADLOCKS? NO PROBLEM

STEEL PIPES? YEP

ITSELF???

HOLY SHIT

understandably, after these commercials aired, they took the korean internet by storm, and for a brief while jang-mi kal enjoyed ultimate meme status during which some glorious glorious parodies were made

they’re the strongest fucking weapon on earth

and that was your daily lesson on korean internet meme culture

#meme

dangerousperfectionparadise

Mako, Usagi & Mina in ep 152

#oc ref #sailor moon

jaypilled

new commission sheet hi

#artist comm

fuchsiafins

We cannot always wear our pride on our shoulders But when we do, it is glorious

Part 1.

Part 2.

Part 3.

After some revisions, I feel like this version with more open and empowered wings are a better representative of the difficulties we have overcome, and all the future hardships we are prepared for.

Feel free to use on your blog or post elsewhere with proper credit~

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#lgbt