Kaylee

Just a simple femme seeking all things sweet and butch 🥰 Check out my nsfw blog @saltwaterfemme

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To all of the kick ass, beautiful fierce femmes out there… - Ivan Coyote

[oceanfadedfemme]

Always my favorite 🥰

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my favorite tik tok content

[stonefemblues]

requirements for being butch or femme

1. working class solidarity

2. anti-imperialism

3. hating cops

4. loving each other

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5. respecting trans people

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6. generally, and personally, supporting trans butches and femmes

[oceanfadedfemme]

I am flying home for the holidays. Going home holds mixed feelings for me, as it often feels like going back in time. Back before I came out, and back into miserable and destructive relationships. But every time I go home a bring a book with me to learn from. Something to connect me to queerness or move me forward. The first time home it was Persistence: All Things Butch and Femme. Last time it was Stone Butch Blues. This time it is White Fragility. Through these readings I learn and grow and heal instead of moving backwards.

[saltwaterfemme]

This femme just created her own nail salon 💅🏼

[oceanfadedfemme]

I do all my homework in the living room anyway 💅🏼

[autumncozy]

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[oceanfadedfemme]

These crowns 😍😍

[farmcorefemme]

there is something i cannot put into words, a feeling of safety when i am around butches, when i am surrounded by women i know want to keep me safe. i feel like, no matter what, there will always be a butch willing to protect me, willing to take on what i cannot, and willing to be there when i just need someone to be there. the entire energy butches give off shows me that they want to protect, they want to keep me safe and make me feel safe, and they do.

i cannot put into words my gratitude as a femme for them, for everything they do for me.

and of course this is not a one way street, but this post is not about what i do for them but about how grateful i am for what they do for me.

they protect me, they make me feel less broken, they touch my hand when i need it to show me its okay, that im not alone. they look and act and speak in ways that let me know that its okay to be myself here, that its okay to not pretend, that i dont have to be happy and strong and good all the time, that i can be angry and hurt and weak without having to fear being hurt.

and i am so grateful for that, for all of that, i cannot put it into words.

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anyone else just want like a wife and a dog

[butchboigirl]

mmm, i do just kind of love the idea of so-called corruption. a pretty femme in a place something so pretty should never be. dressed silky and soft and sweet - and being so roughly handled. taken in the back of a truck or a public restroom, or in that back corner of a seedy place where anyone’s dirty gaze could find and taint you. taking a hefty butch cock in nice long strokes, big rough hands messing up your pretty dress and lovely hair. lipstick smudged, being pushed onto your knees with your cunt still dripping - a fist in your hair, dragged right up to nuzzle that cock before taking it in your mouth. leaving the place fucked out and fucked up, stockings and dress torn, hair messy and loose. but very, very pleased looking

[oceanfadedfemme]

Oh my love, please 🤤

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One of the skills of a femme is to calm a butch’s dysphoria; it’s not as impossible—or possible—as it sounds. The technique varies: one femme may use feminist analysis, another may remind her butch of the moments she is, was, or will be happy being butch and female, another may sweetly love on her butch to remind her of her natural perfection…and so on.

Most of us femmes stumble upon this in our earliest relationships: when our elementary school tomboy friend gripes that she must wear a dress to church and we tell her she gets to wear shorts to school tomorrow, when our junior high masculine crush cries because of what boys say to her and we remind her of how much more comfortable her sneakers are, when our high school dyke girlfriend finds herself in daily screaming matches her mother starts we tell her that her mother is stupid, she’s perfect and hot and attractive, when our butch wives lay silent in bed for hours and we tell her that we love her for the things she’s so hurt by. We may not say the right thing, but we say something, and everything helps.

A lot of femmes think they can’t do it, they aren’t comforting enough or eloquent or smart enough to heal those wounds—and in a way, they’re right. None of us can. What we do is we coax them out of bed, we coax them into eating, we coax them into the shower, to work, to dinner, to sex, and to sleep. We get them through the worst times so that they have enough strength left for the rest of their lives; we are the Valkyries between our butches and their demons, we defend them from transitioning out of despair—or death.

When we talk about butches and femmes having roles, this is the type of thing we talk about.

[oceanfadedfemme]

If I can make one butch breath just a little easier then I am happy ♥️

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meirl

[oceanfadedfemme]

Me, every Friday 👍

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I just added a new story to my nsfw blog 😉 check it out @saltwaterfemme

[theyarnlesbian]

honestly? the sight of a butch lesbian makes me feel so safe. I love butches and all that they do for the lesbian community

[saltwaterfemme]

I’ve reached my peak femme potential 🔮

[oceanfadedfemme]

I posted this on my nsfw blog but figured it fits here too 😘

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[oceanfadedfemme]

Finding love from butches has been so healing for me, they have something so special that cannot be underestimated ♥️

[princesscherri]

appreciate ur butch. let ur butch cry while you rub their back in comfort. give ur butch head scritches and let them lay their head on your lap and rest. hold your butch tight through good and through bad. tell your butch theyre handsome, and cute, and sweet, and a blessing to your life and to the world. ask them what they need, give them what they need. find out the ways they want to feel loved, emotionally, spiritually, sensually. allow them a place to be vulnerable in a world that attempts to demand their strength from all corners. protect your butch. love your butch. take care of your butch in the ways they need while they take care of you. do not allow them nor yourself to fall into the belief that butch lesbians are meant to be constantly alone against the world.