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“I want to work in the magical land where prostitution is just letting men ‘use my body’. Like if I could just spread my legs and check Facebook on my phone while they did their thing my job would be so much easier. The worst/hardest part of sex work is all the emotional labor and acting like I’m having tons of orgasms and I’m so turned on and impressed by their sexual skills. Like basically every client I’ve ever seen has thought that he was my one truly nice client who really cares about me and thinks he alone deserves access to my ‘authentic’ sexual pleasure because he assumes all my other clients are jerks who only see me as a piece of meat, but they’re literally all exactly the same!

Most of the jobs I’ve had (non-sex work) have involved tolerating men violating me in some way or another. I rarely find sex work degrading but even if I did I would rather be degraded for one hour and make the same amount of money as I used to make being degraded in shitty minimum wage jobs in a full week/40 hours.“