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To suffer for your lover in the power exchange can be a beautiful, sacred sacrament, to be partaken of with reverence, appreciated with awe. Needed for it’s purity, rightness and cleansing

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Sometimes I just want to hurt.

Sometimes it’s for him, because he needs to give pain as much as I need to take it. Sometimes it makes my/our pleasure that much more intense. Sometimes it’s all about what I need to let go.

And sometimes I just want to hurt.

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Adding Connection, Communication, Consistency, Caring and Commitment ~~

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Some of the biggest barriers to equity is humanity's general lack of effort to lean into nuance and be open to change.

Barrier #1: Our brains are wired to categorize and simplify things as a survival mechanism. We try to simplify complex things to better understand them, but end up misunderstanding them because they aren't simple, which then makes us feel stupid, guilty, defensive and shut down.

Barrier #2: By design and reinforcement almost all of us are running ourselves ragged just to survive in a societal structure that doesn't work for 99% of its citizens. We are so tired from our own lives that we cannot take the time and energy to care about others lives and how they are impacted even more by societal inequity.

Barrier #3, We are afraid to confront our own detrimental views and actions, because of the possibility of being shamed. We shut down when called in, either by focusing on allyship as status (I'm woke, I can't be racist, I have black friends... look at what a good white ally I am), or by doubling down on our own experiences with defensiveness and fragility (How can you say I have privilege when I grew up poor?)

Barrier #4: We can be lazy and lemmings. It is much easier to be stagnant, to follow the messages we have been inundated with our whole lives, and watch another episode of TV. It is also easier to get frustrated and call people elitist and high and mighty than it is to spend the brain power to have discussion, challenge ourselves and grow.

It takes a lot of hard work to break these barriers down, to change ourselves and be open to seeing how differently people experience the world based on identity. It takes even more work to see how we benefit from their oppression and to commit to doing something about it. And I say we on purpose.

This affects every one of us, and everyone of us has the capacity to change.

And for that capacity to be realized, it has to be fueled by effort.

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White privilege means it is easier to walk through the world because you can not only afford to ignore what others are experiencing, but you can afford to have barriers to even being able to acknowledge that race is a giant unequalizer in our society. makes us blind because cognitive dissonance

POC, brown and black people do not have the luxury of not noticing their oppression because they have to worry they are going to die, see their people murdered, constantly relieve the trauma with every share/reblog of a video and photo, constantly reminding them of the fact that they could die for driving, for bird watching, for going to the corner store, they could all die of BEING BLACK. Being black shouldn't be a death sentence, even if being white isn't a free ride for everyone. Black Lives Matter, and all lives will not matter UNTIL black lives matter.

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MAY I

May I

May I be

May I obey

May I let go

May I be me

May I be silly

May I kiss you

May I trust you

May I touch you

May I be your joy

May I be spanked

May I cum for you

May I be your bliss

May I call you mine

May I dream of you

May I be your smile

May I be your home

May I lay myself bare

May I be courageous

May I dance with you

May I take your hand

May I follow your lead

May I bring you peace

May I show you loyalty

May I moan your name

May I be your good girl

May I be your confidant

May I be the little spoon

May I bring you laughter

May I be your best friend

May I dress to please you

May I take the pain for you

May I cry on your shoulder

May I hold you in my heart

May I be your little fuck toy

May I show you I am strong

May I give you monkey hugs

May I be your pretty little girl

May I put my head in your lap

May I show you I believe in us

May I listen with an open heart

May I place my life in your hands

May I be desperate for your touch

May I be open about my dark desires

May I be your wanton depraved vixen

May I be shown the kindness in your heart

May I show my intentions towards you are pure

May I prove that I am the girl you believe me to be

May I be the girl I was meant to be under your guidance

May I believe in your intent to do your best for me

May I show you that I desire you above all else

May I communicate with complete honesty

May I grow under your intelligent mind

May I be shown your darkest desires

May I place your wants above mine

May I place my worries at your feet

May I show you what I see in you

May I be attentive to your needs

May I show you I can be trusted

May I be your place of comfort

May I be vulnerable with you

May I share all I am with you

May I be consumed by you

May I soothe your worries

May I show you my worth

May I hand you the leash

May I stand by your side

May I ask for permission

May I sigh at your touch

May I show you respect

May I bring you balance

May I be your smart girl

May I kneel at your feet

May I be your baby girl

May I be needy for you

May I make you proud

May I dream with you

May I sit in reverence

May I be your queen

May I breath for you

May I be compliant

May I be of service

May I be your light

May I worship you

May I care for you

May I please you

May I inspire you

May I adore you

May I surrender

May I be yours

May I love you

May I be soft

May I be her

May I let go

May I obey

May I be

May I

May…🕉

May I?

pleasurewhore-deactivated201802

Power Exchange

It’s making the doctor’s appointment I don’t think I need, because he told me to.

It’s taking a bath, or a nap, when there are a million things waiting, because he takes better care of me than I do.

It’s making a healthy choice at lunch, when a cheeseburger sounds awfully good.

It’s turning out the lights at midnight, even when I don’t feel tired.

There is power to be exchanged through sex, but power exchange isn’t only about kneeling and cock sucking. Like reducing the universe to the stars you can see, there is so much more to it than that. Power exchange is about surrendering your will to the will of another. It’s the little decisions… the ones that aren’t fun, or pleasurable. It’s knowing that you’re capable of making the decision yourself, and allowing him to make it anyway. Every concession is a piece of power pushed over the line, and your clothes never need to come off for you to be left standing naked.