I agree with a lot of ur stuff but I just wanna point out. The ‘issue’ with Fujo stuff is just that people tend to overlook that it’s not just appreciating mlm ships, it’s often that gay men aren’t taken seriously and there’s a lot of viewing them as just a kink rather than a real sexuality.
I joke a lot about objectifying men because I’m sick of women being objectified but honestly so many fujoshis are just straight up weird and misogynistic and just project misogynistic ‘abuse is hot’ rhetoric onto mlm ships because ‘girls r boring’. I want fujoshi culture to just be nice and not really fucking sexist. Also more wlw should be popular. Only reason fujoshi stuff is popular is because people still haven’t learned how to decenter men’s sexuality. Girl love is just never as popular
Maybe its cuz I can’t project onto mlm and I just wanna see a woman be treated right instead of the options being ‘sexist straight toxic couple’ or ‘fetishised but healthy cute gay couple because women can’t be happy’ yknow. Can I be a special third thing where I make the gay anime boy love a girl instead
ohh okay I understand this is totally valid, I'm a fujoshi and fudanshi and agree there should be more GL appreciation without them being objectified. Sad to see how fetishized BL is nowadays.











