Can we normalise ‘I’m willing to work on that’ instead of ‘that’s just how I am’
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Can we normalise ‘I’m willing to work on that’ instead of ‘that’s just how I am’
Let me tell y'all about the moment that Big K.R.I.T. brought out the one and only Miss Jill Scott to perform “Higher Calling” with him……. I lost my MFn mind!
HEAVY IS THE CROWN Tour 👑 Nashville, TN Cannery Ballroom March 29, 2018
NOISEY: ATLANTA is on tonight at 10.
Polaroids by Andy Warhol
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Valentino Garavani (1973)
Tina Turner (1975)
Pele (1977)
Liza Minnelli (1978)
Diana Ross (1981)
Jean-Michel Basquiat (1983)
Grace Jones (1984)
Joan Collins (1985)
Keith Haring (1986)
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It won’t get better for LGBT youth of color until we identify and dismantle the ways we’ve normalized racism. Gabe hits it on the head:
I want all my white mutuals to watch this immediately! And I’ll reblog this everyday until you guys fully understand.
Racism and transphobia in the gay community is massively an issue.
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kanye’s ex wrote a poem about the “new” kanye…hit kinda deep
HOOOOO MY GAWD
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Lol I can never hit the reblog button fast enough.
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How to Stop being a People Pleaser
1. Recognize that you have choices. Usually people-pleasers feel as if they don’t have a choice, and they have to say yes when someone asks for their help. But you DO have a choice – and it’s Ok to say no.
2. Decide on your priorities. If you already have commitments or you have set priorities then it’s easy to say no as you’ve a genuine “excuse”. Do what matters most to you, and please remember - it’s your life!
3. Stall for time – don’t give an answer right away. Say you need a bit of time before you make up your mind. That allows you time and space to think about the consequences. For other things will likely suffer if you take on far too much.
4. Don’t be afraid to add conditions to your yeses. For example, say that you’ll only say yes if someone else says yes as well – or only take on a new task for a set period of time.
5. Are you being manipulated? There are plenty who will use you to ensure their plans succeed, so watch out for those compliments and empty flattery.
6. Be firm when you say no. The first time you say no it feels uncomfortable and hard. But once you’ve done that a few times it starts to feel much easier. Also, if you sound confident then others take you seriously.
7. Don’t defend you decision. You have a right to say no – and to NOT defend yourself. It’s your life after all - you don’t have to explain “why” … or come up with excuses … or be pushed and pressurised. And don’t apologise to others - saying no is not a crime!
This song could have come out in any era and it would still be a classic
In today’s lesson of Black History
I always forget this song happened and each time I am reminded is a blessing
This is the kind of truth that nobody would tell you
GZA is a genius