Hello im new i just wanted to ask if you ship jensen and misha playfully or if you believe they're together irl i mean i think they're cute but arent they supposedly married? Thanks btw and have a nice day xx
Okayā strap in, Nonny because Iām gonna be a while.Ā
First of all, let me just start out by saying that: yes I do believe that they are together in some way beyond friendship. Whether it is just an occasional thing, or something much more serious that involves a blending of families and lifestyles, it seems obvious to me that their levels of intimacy with one another mirror that of people in a deep romantic relationship.
Do they love their wives and children more than life itself?
But alsoā is polyamory real?
And not only is it real, Misha and his wife, Vicki have practiced it. They were in a very serious relationship with another woman before Misha began his role on Supernatural, and the three of them went on trips together, exchanged rings, and had even planned out a life for themselves. However,Ā the other womanās family and friends did not support that lifestyle, and she eventually ended the relationship. It was very hard for both Misha and Vicki because they loved that woman very much. And this is not just a rumor, we know it to be true because Mishaās wife wrote a book detailing many aspects of their polyamorous relationship, and Misha has confirmed it all many times.Ā
That same book also explained all the ways that someone can engage in intimacy with two other personsā so two other males or two other females. Considering the personal nature of the book, that knowledge of experiencing a variety of threesomes leads me to believe that Misha has participated in threesomes with both another male as well as two females. It just wouldnāt make sense that his wife would write a guidebook for such things without having first-hand knowledge of both those combinations; so by proxy, Misha would have that knowledge as well.Ā
On top of that, Misha is a huge supporter of LGBTQ rights and culture, and he does not shy away from expressing his appreciation for the females and males (and non binary individuals) around him.
So,Ā especially as far as Misha is concerned, being married does not mean much of anything when it comes to having affections for someone else.
Jensen on the other hand, is a bit more complicated. He usually tries to come off as such a guyās guy, but that really only ends up highlighting how heās not that at all.Ā I think Jensen has grown up with some very strict ideas of what it is to be a man, especially since he came from Texas. However, I think being in Hollywood as long as he has, has opened his eyes to a lot more of the world, and in turn, itās probably opened up his heart to a lot more experiences that he normally would shied away from. As heās gotten older, heās become much more open and free with his feelings. It has been truly wonderful to see, if not for other reasons, then just to see him grow as a person.
But some of those other reasons are how affectionate he is with the men around him. With Jared, he takes on the role of Dean in real life. He looks at him like a little brotherā he jokes with him, he wrestles with him, he teases him endlessly, but most of all, he protects him. If Jared is feeling down or hurt, Jensen is the first one there to stand guard and lift him up again.
With Misha however, Jensen takes on a much different demeanor. When Misha is around, Jensen is either giggling and blushing, or heās trying to do this power play that is mostly flirtation and sexual innuendo. The way he makes Misha break on set is by giving him his sexiest face and puckering his lips. When theyāre just sitting next to each other on stage, Jensen is either staring at Misha with giant hearteyes, or he is resting his hand on him in some way. The way he acts around Misha is very different than the way he acts with any other men that weāve seen. In fact,Ā the only person that he acts the same withā is his wife, Danneel.
Now Danneel is a very open person. She doesnāt mind expressing herself sexually and she doesnāt mind telling people exactly what she thinks, and she has gone on record to say that she understands why people would want an open relationship, and she understands how someone might have love for more than just one person.Ā
There have also been many comments and humor-capped statements between Misha and Jensen, that are probably much deeper then we get to hear, that insinuate that Misha and Danneel have a very close bond which extends beyond just a shared sense of humor. The two of them seem to be very like-minded with their beliefs on the fluidity of love, and the fluidity of intimacy; so it would not surprise me at all if they have been intimate with one another.
Now of course, none of that is definitive proof. Statements that have been made once or twice, or past relationships that were built in a certain way,Ā do not innately point to what is going on now. All I can do is go off of what I see and what I hearā and from what I see and hear with the two of them makes me believe that Jensen and Misha are much closer than friends.
I feel this so strongly in fact,Ā I wrote a long fic about it called āThe Plotā which details a way that those two might have actually gotten together for the first time. It is my most popular story by far, because the majority of people who read it feel like it could be true; and that is exactly what I was hoping for.Ā
I only ever write Jensen and Misha in scenarios that I feel could be real,Ā never in any AUs or fantasy fics because I feel like their ātrueā story needs to be highlighted more (except I did do one threesome fic with them and Rob, which I donāt think would ever actually happen, but it was fun to write anywayā¦š)
So yeahā thatās what I think; and if I die and go to heaven, and Chuck himself tells me that Jensen and Misha were only ever just friends, I would be totally fine with it. Because if they are just friends, then they have a truly beautiful, intimate, loving relationship that more men should feel free to have.
But until Chuck says those wordsā Iām going to keep on believing that those two spend their nights tangled up together with the help of some leather bound toys, and two very supportive wivesā who enjoy watching just as much as they do joining in.