Opening Up To Love ❤️

30.Female.Texas. Married.LGBTQ. Let’s be friends 😊

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I am excited for the journey. I do not know if I’ve said that before, but there are no negative thoughts and I am meeting more people. I have not met anyone that I am interested in, but I am more comfortable with the idea and I am excited to see where things go 🤗

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Today I learned the term “demisexual”

The term is defined as, “people only feel sexually attracted to someone when they have an emotional bond with the person..”

I relate to this so much. I can’t just jump right into things with people if I do not have an emotional bond with them first.

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The idea of having another partner is feeling a lot more “normal” (whatever that is).

I’ve gotten through the “what would other people think” phase because I realized that no one else matters except my wife, our partner(s), and myself. Why would I have to share that with anyone else?! Especially at this point in time.

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Hello. I haven’t been posting much. It’s been a long week at work, so I’ve barely had time to spend with my wife and she comes first. We are still discussing ENM and are trying to figure out how to go about meeting potential partners. Since we are new to this, it’s a little intimidating.

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Started reading The Ethical Slut tonight. There is a list of myths and this really caught my eye.

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Today we finally made it to B&N. We purchased two books.

- The Ethical Slut

- Sex at Dawn

I’ll be updating as I read and learn.

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Thought of the day...

My beautiful wife and I plan on going to B&N to look for books. We are in a Kik group chat for ENM and they’re great people. They know we are new to all of this and they have been giving us so much information. They even shared a list of books that we are wanting to check out. We shall see what B&N has.

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Thought of the night...

My wife and I filled out our separate ENM smorgasbord and then came together to discuss what we highlighted. We highlighted the same exact thing. This makes me excited to see that we are on the same page.

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Thought of the day...

Im becoming more and more comfortable with the idea of being in an ENM relationship. The only thing I’m not sure about is who we are going to be open with. It’s like coming out all over again and the fear of rejection is high right now.

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Thought for the night...

One thing I’m worried about is finding someone that my wife likes, and that likes her, but does not like me. Like we are not all compatible. I don’t want to ruin this, but I also don’t want to be left out. Is it just my insecurities ?

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Thought of the day...

Been reading a lot about Polyamory vs Open Relationship and everything in between. It’s a lot of information, but the common ground is that it’s different for each relationship.

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Thought of the night...

I am curious about how it will feel to kiss another woman while kissing my wife. We’ve discussed it and I am very intrigued. Having someone that will spend time with her while doing things she likes, and doing things together that I like. I can’t wait to cuddle up and watch a movie with my wife and our girlfriend.

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