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Both just think I’m woman-lite anyway. I’m very tired
Alt text: button choice meme. Button 1 says “I’d like to be shown to people looking for women”, button 2 says “I’d like to be shown to people looking for men”. Sweating confused person, labeled “me just trying to be gender fluid on Bumble” end alt text.
Ugh I get so inactive on here that now most of my new followers have been p/orn b/ots 😒
For those who are wondering...
“Abro” can be a part of your attraction even if another part is static. I’ve met plenty of abroromantic asexuals (only online though), and there are panromantic abrosexuals too! It’s also fine if the label fits on the same attraction type as another. For instance, you could be demisexual and abrosexual, with your attraction only changing between genders but not in intensity. This is a versatile label, use it however fits you best ❤️
Especially with other fluid identities. Like I’m abrosexual grey-asexual c: I don’t always feel sexual attraction but when I do it changes!
Abro Lesbian flag
(Based on the high saturated inclusive lesbian flag)
Image ID 1: Abrosexual Lesbian flag. Colors: green, light green, yellow-green, white, light pink, medium pink, dark pink. End ID.
Image ID 2: Abrosexual lesbian flag with meanings. Butch abro lesbians, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro lesbians, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro lesbians. End ID.
Abro Gay flag
(Based on the mlm flag for mlm & nblm - not all abro gays love men, but this flag is for those who do.)
Image ID 3: Abrosexual Gay flag. Colors: green, blue green, light green, yellow-green, white, light purple, purple-pink, dark purple. End ID.
Image ID 4: Abrosexual gay flag with meanings. Butch abro gays, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro gays, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro gays. End ID.
Both can be used for any orientation on the SAM, not just Sexual
okay heres some points.
• gay is an umbrella term, being attracted to the ""same"" gender/s as your own
• this includes literally every gay person. a man that likes men? a women that likes women? a nonbinary person who likes other nonbinary people? a nonbinary person who likes women? can all consider themselves gay.
• there are some more specific words for these, such as lesbian (or gay woman), enbian, toric, trixic, vincian (or gay man), etc. and flags exist for them.
• when you use only "gay" in a term, but really mean only gay men, or gay mlms, this is excludes every other person who is gay (and names themselves as such)
• it is therefore courtesy and polite to simply specify in the name of what you are coining, or making a flag for, that it is as such. so here would be "abro gay man" or "abro gay mlm/nblm" or "abro gay vincian" instead of just "abro gay" because gay people aren't always mlm
• you need to be direct. this isn't even a matter of courtesy, people are neurodivergent.
• there are many flags for both lesbians and gay men. both of these occur due to discussions over inclusivity and your hypocrisy over this needs a license to be consumed off the premises.
• notice how in both of the above flags, the kind of gay they are is specified? its not just a gay flag they're making, but a gay man flag.
• i can draw a picture of the issue if you're having trouble comprehending why i asked you to just add a specification in the name.
• stop being mardy that you have to share "gay" with women.
I am a fucking woman. I’m also a man. Stop forcing labels on other people. I DID fucking specify. Go fuck yourself.
when, pray fucking tell, did i force a label on you. when.
For one, Forcing me into a binary.
For two
I don’t fucking use these. And I don’t have to fucking use these. Gay men have been using gay for fucking decades. Just because a flag was made for people who use the same label as you but use a different definition don’t mean you have to fucking use it. You can’t be excluded from loving men if you don’t identify as loving men - and that’s how I’m using gay in this fucking post. I never said gay is only loving men. I said that this specific gay flag is for fucking loving men.
1) when
2) i didn't say you had to use those words, just that they exist, so again, when (also uh. why are you making a lesbian flag if you dont use lesbian?)
3) you can't use only gay as "loving men" when thats not what it means. gay means loving the same* gender, which, if someone is a man (doesn't have to be exclusively, maybe this is where you thought i was forcing you into a binary?) or nonbinary and comfortable within the definition of gay, and loves men and/or nonbinary people comfortable within the definition of gay, is, in fact, loving the same* gender.
4) gay women have also been using gay for "fucking decades". and nonbinary people. you don't get priority
5) you didn't specify at the start, you gaslighty fuck. i asked you to directly specify (as in, in the name) and thats why we're even here.
6) no idea what glitchy ass keyboard you're using but you need to check the characters in your text, there's just a whole bunch of [obj] boxes on my end
anyway it's 3am and i'm actually done with tumblr dot hell, if you want to tell me i'm oppressing men and forcing a binary by existing as a conglomeration of nonbinary people that are gay for women and occasionally other people, you can do it at the summit of scafell pike on the first saturday in april 2021 or fuck off
I do use lesbian I meant the other terms you listed. And no. I put based on the MLM flag. And I assumed that was enough to make people understand that this was for MLM people. My text looks just fine on my screen.  I will use gay to mean loving man just like every other goddamn gay man that exists does for their own flag. I never for once said that gay only means loving men. 
I made both of these flags specifically for myself because I am both a lesbian and gay - loving men, and I put them online so that people who felt the same way about being Abro lesbian or Abro gay - loving men, could use them as well. If you don’t feel that this Abro gay, again specifically loving men, flag fits you or identifies you then just. don’t. use. it. But I can call my identity and my flag whatever I want and I never said you couldn’t make your own.
Fuck off and leave me the hell alone.
Abro Lesbian flag
(Based on the high saturated inclusive lesbian flag)
Image ID 1: Abrosexual Lesbian flag. Colors: green, light green, yellow-green, white, light pink, medium pink, dark pink. End ID.
Image ID 2: Abrosexual lesbian flag with meanings. Butch abro lesbians, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro lesbians, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro lesbians. End ID.
Abro Gay flag
(Based on the mlm flag for mlm & nblm - not all abro gays love men, but this flag is for those who do.)
Image ID 3: Abrosexual Gay flag. Colors: green, blue green, light green, yellow-green, white, light purple, purple-pink, dark purple. End ID.
Image ID 4: Abrosexual gay flag with meanings. Butch abro gays, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro gays, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro gays. End ID.
Both can be used for any orientation on the SAM, not just Sexual
okay heres some points.
• gay is an umbrella term, being attracted to the ""same"" gender/s as your own
• this includes literally every gay person. a man that likes men? a women that likes women? a nonbinary person who likes other nonbinary people? a nonbinary person who likes women? can all consider themselves gay.
• there are some more specific words for these, such as lesbian (or gay woman), enbian, toric, trixic, vincian (or gay man), etc. and flags exist for them.
• when you use only "gay" in a term, but really mean only gay men, or gay mlms, this is excludes every other person who is gay (and names themselves as such)
• it is therefore courtesy and polite to simply specify in the name of what you are coining, or making a flag for, that it is as such. so here would be "abro gay man" or "abro gay mlm/nblm" or "abro gay vincian" instead of just "abro gay" because gay people aren't always mlm
• you need to be direct. this isn't even a matter of courtesy, people are neurodivergent.
• there are many flags for both lesbians and gay men. both of these occur due to discussions over inclusivity and your hypocrisy over this needs a license to be consumed off the premises.
• notice how in both of the above flags, the kind of gay they are is specified? its not just a gay flag they're making, but a gay man flag.
• i can draw a picture of the issue if you're having trouble comprehending why i asked you to just add a specification in the name.
• stop being mardy that you have to share "gay" with women.
I am a fucking woman. I’m also a man. Stop forcing labels on other people. I DID fucking specify. Go fuck yourself.
when, pray fucking tell, did i force a label on you. when.
For one, Forcing me into a binary.
For two
I don’t fucking use these. And I don’t have to fucking use these. Gay men have been using gay for fucking decades. Just because a flag was made for people who use the same label as you but use a different definition don’t mean you have to fucking use it. You can’t be excluded from loving men if you don’t identify as loving men - and that’s how I’m using gay in this fucking post. I never said gay is only loving men. I said that this specific gay flag is for fucking loving men.
Also no, there is no hypocrisy in my statement about lesbian flags not being inclusive. Because the point was that when lesbian flags aren’t inclusive they say that “lesbians can *never* be so and so”, and I never fucking said that about gays. I have no problem with somebody making a lesbian flag that is just for loving women, Or lesbian flag that is just for loving non-binary people. My only problem is when they say lesbians “can never love men, can never love non-binary people” etc. which again I never fucking said anything similar about gays or gay flags. I merely said that this specific flag is for loving men, which can be a definition of gay.
Not to mention you want to sit there and imply that I stole the fucking design for these flags. There’s only so many colors in the world all I did was apply the abro colors to the bright lesbian and blue&green gay flag
Abro Lesbian flag
(Based on the high saturated inclusive lesbian flag)
Image ID 1: Abrosexual Lesbian flag. Colors: green, light green, yellow-green, white, light pink, medium pink, dark pink. End ID.
Image ID 2: Abrosexual lesbian flag with meanings. Butch abro lesbians, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro lesbians, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro lesbians. End ID.
Abro Gay flag
(Based on the mlm flag for mlm & nblm - not all abro gays love men, but this flag is for those who do.)
Image ID 3: Abrosexual Gay flag. Colors: green, blue green, light green, yellow-green, white, light purple, purple-pink, dark purple. End ID.
Image ID 4: Abrosexual gay flag with meanings. Butch abro gays, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro gays, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro gays. End ID.
Both can be used for any orientation on the SAM, not just Sexual
Abro Lesbian flag
(Based on the high saturated inclusive lesbian flag)
Image ID 1: Abrosexual Lesbian flag. Colors: green, light green, yellow-green, white, light pink, medium pink, dark pink. End ID.
Image ID 2: Abrosexual lesbian flag with meanings. Butch abro lesbians, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro lesbians, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro lesbians. End ID.
Abro Gay flag
(Based on the mlm flag for mlm & nblm - not all abro gays love men, but this flag is for those who do.)
Image ID 3: Abrosexual Gay flag. Colors: green, blue green, light green, yellow-green, white, light purple, purple-pink, dark purple. End ID.
Image ID 4: Abrosexual gay flag with meanings. Butch abro gays, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro gays, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro gays. End ID.
Both can be used for any orientation on the SAM, not just Sexual
okay heres some points.
• gay is an umbrella term, being attracted to the ""same"" gender/s as your own
• this includes literally every gay person. a man that likes men? a women that likes women? a nonbinary person who likes other nonbinary people? a nonbinary person who likes women? can all consider themselves gay.
• there are some more specific words for these, such as lesbian (or gay woman), enbian, toric, trixic, vincian (or gay man), etc. and flags exist for them.
• when you use only "gay" in a term, but really mean only gay men, or gay mlms, this is excludes every other person who is gay (and names themselves as such)
• it is therefore courtesy and polite to simply specify in the name of what you are coining, or making a flag for, that it is as such. so here would be "abro gay man" or "abro gay mlm/nblm" or "abro gay vincian" instead of just "abro gay" because gay people aren't always mlm
• you need to be direct. this isn't even a matter of courtesy, people are neurodivergent.
• there are many flags for both lesbians and gay men. both of these occur due to discussions over inclusivity and your hypocrisy over this needs a license to be consumed off the premises.
• notice how in both of the above flags, the kind of gay they are is specified? its not just a gay flag they're making, but a gay man flag.
• i can draw a picture of the issue if you're having trouble comprehending why i asked you to just add a specification in the name.
• stop being mardy that you have to share "gay" with women.
I am a fucking woman. I’m also a man. Stop forcing labels on other people. I DID fucking specify. Go fuck yourself.
when, pray fucking tell, did i force a label on you. when.
For one, Forcing me into a binary.
For two
I don’t fucking use these. And I don’t have to fucking use these. Gay men have been using gay for fucking decades. Just because a flag was made for people who use the same label as you but use a different definition don’t mean you have to fucking use it. You can’t be excluded from loving men if you don’t identify as loving men - and that’s how I’m using gay in this fucking post. I never said gay is only loving men. I said that this specific gay flag is for fucking loving men.
Abro Lesbian flag
(Based on the high saturated inclusive lesbian flag)
Image ID 1: Abrosexual Lesbian flag. Colors: green, light green, yellow-green, white, light pink, medium pink, dark pink. End ID.
Image ID 2: Abrosexual lesbian flag with meanings. Butch abro lesbians, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro lesbians, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro lesbians. End ID.
Abro Gay flag
(Based on the mlm flag for mlm & nblm - not all abro gays love men, but this flag is for those who do.)
Image ID 3: Abrosexual Gay flag. Colors: green, blue green, light green, yellow-green, white, light purple, purple-pink, dark purple. End ID.
Image ID 4: Abrosexual gay flag with meanings. Butch abro gays, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro gays, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro gays. End ID.
Both can be used for any orientation on the SAM, not just Sexual
okay heres some points.
• gay is an umbrella term, being attracted to the ""same"" gender/s as your own
• this includes literally every gay person. a man that likes men? a women that likes women? a nonbinary person who likes other nonbinary people? a nonbinary person who likes women? can all consider themselves gay.
• there are some more specific words for these, such as lesbian (or gay woman), enbian, toric, trixic, vincian (or gay man), etc. and flags exist for them.
• when you use only "gay" in a term, but really mean only gay men, or gay mlms, this is excludes every other person who is gay (and names themselves as such)
• it is therefore courtesy and polite to simply specify in the name of what you are coining, or making a flag for, that it is as such. so here would be "abro gay man" or "abro gay mlm/nblm" or "abro gay vincian" instead of just "abro gay" because gay people aren't always mlm
• you need to be direct. this isn't even a matter of courtesy, people are neurodivergent.
• there are many flags for both lesbians and gay men. both of these occur due to discussions over inclusivity and your hypocrisy over this needs a license to be consumed off the premises.
• notice how in both of the above flags, the kind of gay they are is specified? its not just a gay flag they're making, but a gay man flag.
• i can draw a picture of the issue if you're having trouble comprehending why i asked you to just add a specification in the name.
• stop being mardy that you have to share "gay" with women.
I am a fucking woman. I’m also a man. Stop forcing labels on other people. I DID fucking specify. Go fuck yourself.
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Abro Lesbian flag
(Based on the high saturated inclusive lesbian flag)
Image ID 1: Abrosexual Lesbian flag. Colors: green, light green, yellow-green, white, light pink, medium pink, dark pink. End ID.
Image ID 2: Abrosexual lesbian flag with meanings. Butch abro lesbians, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro lesbians, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro lesbians. End ID.
Abro Gay flag
(Based on the mlm flag for mlm & nblm - not all abro gays love men, but this flag is for those who do.)
Image ID 3: Abrosexual Gay flag. Colors: green, blue green, light green, yellow-green, white, light purple, purple-pink, dark purple. End ID.
Image ID 4: Abrosexual gay flag with meanings. Butch abro gays, resilience, fluidity, trans & non-binary abro gays, inclusivity/diversity, community, femme abro gays. End ID.
Both can be used for any orientation on the SAM, not just Sexual
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Abrosexuality- when your sexuality is fluid or constantly changing.