dating with orza

the undiscovered dating reality show aka my love life

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a tragically true story

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dr. chuck e cheese

i did some online investigating aka stalking and he sounded legit. so whatever.  he took me to weehawken to a fancy restaurant with views of new york city and the empire state building. he definitely went for some bucks for this date. we sat on the boardwalk over the the hudson river and looked at the view after dinner. it was actually a really good date.

he totally seemed into me and i really think he wants something real. i will have to see how it goes, but he already asked me out again. YAY. 

one kind of cute thing was that he played all my favorite songs during the car ride...and it clicked on the way home..he was playing owl city, maroon 5, gavin degraw..all artists i listed that were my favorites on facebook...not sure if this is extremely considerate and cute or if it was a coincidence..but i think not.

AW. chuck e cheese...!  i hope i continue to like him

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(What’s the real meaning behind the questions asked on a first date?)

Dates are awkward job interviews with the potential for sex and a relationship after.

With job interviews they ask you questions with hidden meanings like, “what are your strengths and weaknesses”, “what are you...

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The Date Book sheds light on the teen girl dating experience and empowers girls to be safe and confident when dating. Written in a funny, shoot-from-the-hip voice, it’s full of creative date suggestions, fashion advice, tips on how to bargain for extended curfews, and exit strategies for when a date goes bad.

Product Details

Reading level: Teen Nonfiction

Paperback: 120 pages

Publisher: Zest Books; Original edition

Language: English

ISBN-13: 978-0-9772660-8-1

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MAYBE I NEED THIS lol

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accepted!

have the guts to talk to him. although it took him 2+ weeks to accept me. so i doubt he uses facebook much. which is totally my type, but i just don't want to be that girl who uses facebook to talk to guys.  some guys will probably get the wrong impression.

HMM... 

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who knows

i started okcupid again...mainly because it just opens doors to meet new people. i haven't met anyone this time around and am unsure if i would...but you never know. i do not look like a troll, am fit, i think i am attractive and people tell me i am...just not guys. specifically guys i would like.

looking back, i have a really bad track record in dating. guys that just completely did not treat me right. or were in it for the wrong reasons. or who just never called.  i don't know why i am so unsuccessful at this. my parents have been married for 30+ years and are best friends. yet i have had 2 boyfriends 1 of which i count as a real boyfriend - and he was terrible to me.

if snooki and deena from jersey shore can fi---heck, if june (mama) from honey boo boo can find a boyfriend. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!

maybe one day i will actually be excited to see someone for more than 1 week. and who calls me back.

humph.

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The Giant

i did some facebook stalking and i found his friend he was with at the game...then i found him. i friended him - i hate to use facebook as a way to talk to a crush - but it has to be. i had the biggest crush on this guy in college, but we would only see each other in passing - we never talked lol. i really feel like he recognized me at the game though.

i friended him. i hope he accepts. this may sound completely ridiculous but i think this guy is perfect.....i usually only date guys who live close to me - and this guy isn't that close. so that says something.

hopefully he friends me lol....so pathetic.

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I wish I could explain how much I dislike dating.

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over it

i got it. and im over it. once obtained - it becomes less attractive. hes nice, but im not all in.  i need to feel as into a guy as i was with my ex. i broke up with my ex because he was a dick and treated me like shit - but i was SO into him.  

i want to find someone who i never get tired of seeing, am passionate for, is wholesome, and i love to love.

one day..........

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rents & giants

so the computer nerd asked me out for the weekend last week. we have never hung out at night on the weekend and i actually really wanted to be with him on a friday night. so he ended up coming inside my house to meet my parents which was really nice and actually really respectful.  he is like totally courting me and its nice to be treated politely and like a lady. 

so he takes me to a giants football game which was really fun. he asked if i wanted beer and i said no i didnt want anything and he brought me back a water, just in case i was thirsty. so nice! 

he dropped me off home and that was that. however, we have yet to hook up/do more than kiss/nothing. but he i really think he is totally into me, he is interested in asking me about things in my life, he always drives me and he met my parents ?! wtf! and i havent done a single thing with him.

idk if he is afraid or if he is just trying to be a gentlemen.....but i kinda want him to be a lot more aggressive.  o wellllllllllll.  maybe our next hangout ill make a move.