half points on: spoils her/acts on whims, can handle her when she's mean or teasing, bottom switch, allows grier to lead. takeaways are.... grier is going to have to fight laera to lead, at least a little bit. control is something she doesn't give up easily! and while laera can handle teasing, banter, jabs, being unnecessarily mean is a turn off for her; it might make laera say something she regrets or particularly mean herself. she also doesn't gravitate towards being a bottom, but she can switch, with coaxing. lastly, laera isn't spontaneous; there's always some level of thought behind her actions and she isn't materialistic either. she can absolutely spoil grier with attention or thoughtful gestures, but gifts....? not often, i fear. :(
laera is about half of a person grier is looking for. she's protective, caring, and attentive. she's also all right with grier's magic and also during sex (tbh she'd probably really enjoy that). she's also a criminal which comes with its own rules like don't rat out companions, etc etc. she's good to have as a loyal, present partner...
...but leading into the more 'occult' side of things is where laera has to back out. obsession, worship, and blood drinking are big No's for her. laera already escaped organised religion and anything that remotely resembles it leaves her wary.
she also is not one for casual romance.
all in all, grier can absolutely shoot her shot. ;)
let them fiiiight. i'd LOVE to see that. grier can be versatile, if she wishes. but there will be fights in and out the sheets, ngl. [non physical fights ofc]. the spoiling isn't strictly materialistic. spoiling her means doing little things for her and looking after her <3 the gestures are enough.
it depends on which side you're looking for. this is half perfect 😉
so the blood drinking isn't required and it doesn't require her to participate. it's just something i've discovered grier likes in her partners. [vampires. tieflings being omivores]. she's not expecting her blood to be drank.
the worship/obsession part isn't too literal. COULD BE. but you have to body worship and make her feel like she's the most wanted and a goddess. it's more of affection/touch/sexual thing. obsessed in a way you can't part long from her. BUT we understand that laera still might not agree bc of her past. we try to be respectful