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Misplaced Lens Cap
Product Placement
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noise dept.
$LAYYYTER
we're not kids anymore.
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@our-queer-experience
hey everyone!
so its been a rough year for me, mostly good in a lot of ways, but i am going to be less online this summer. i’ll still be posting, just less regularly (as you may have noticed). asks have always been replied to slowly but it may get slower, and i doubt i’ll be checking my notifications daily to reply.
i see all of you and me and this community are here to support you for anything. dont take it personally, it’s just that my capacity has shifted.
This is a vent ask, sorry. Been having Feelings and sometimes find it easier to process when I can abstract them into something more poetic.
boots.
i was given a pair of new leather boots at 13
they are pretty. good quality. didnt fit right
i was told they’ll wear in
break them in
wear them often
you’ll see, they’ll fit like a glove soon
i am 24
the boots are still pretty. still good quality
still don’t fit right
pinching, rubbing
too tight
leaving blisters
im told they’re enviable
i should be proud of them
they’re gorgeous god i wish i could have boots like that i used to have boots like that and they really don’t look that great anymore aren’t you LUCKY to have boots like that
boots i wish i could take off
boots that rub and ache and make walking difficult
i am lucky to have them
fortunate to have them
why do i complain of blisters? there are no blisters. you’re fine. get up, keep walking
they’re pretty boots. they’re just not mine. on any other person they’d be perfect
the boots aren’t mine
my body isn’t mine.
get up. be glad. keep walking.
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im really scared cause i think i might be a trans man but im in a lot of online groups focused around really specific feminine aesthetics and music and im scared to lose that community and part of my identity even though it would be healthier for me. uggghhhh
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Top 3 things people love insisting they don't have despite it being impossible
Pronouns
An accent
Bias
Im going to shoot you people with a fucking gun
Everyone has an accent it came free with your language 🙄
Congrats to every reply like this for failing to understand the fundamental definition of an accent. Of course you think you sound normal! It's the way you speak!
Gonna sign language at you in a very southern accent
Sign languages also comes with accents, you can easily watch people sign and tell the difference
You get different sign language accents, you get regional accents, and you even get "second language speaker accent"
Hot take maybe, but you can go off of HRT without detransitioning and you can detransition without going off HRT.
YOU get to define your identity, especially in terms of whether or not you’re detransitioning. HRT does NOT define trans identity so it shouldn’t define detransitioning.
in happier pride news i actually found this deeply heartwarming
that's solidarity baybeeee
Further context: Durham city council (Reform UK) cut funding and support for Pride. The Durham Miner's Association and other trade unions raised enough money for Durham Pride 2026 to go ahead - a direct call back to when Lesbian and Gays Support the Miners (LGSM) raised money for mining communities when Margaret Thatcher seized union funding during the miner strikes of 1984-85.
At the 1985 Labour party meet, the motion to support LGBT rights as a party was passed due to a block vote from mining unions.
Stephen Guy, the chair of the Durham Miners’ Association, said that when it became apparent Durham Pride was under threat, he took it upon himself to “encourage the trade union movement to step up and do the right thing, and stand shoulder to shoulder with the LGBT+ community […] They not only raised funds for us, but came to our communities, uplifted our spirits when they were down, and showed their solidarity.”
transmen w/ complete androgen insensitivity - presentation
Hi! If you are reading this, I’m a person with Complete Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome that has a male gender identity. Therefore, I identify as a guy! And currently I’m figuring out my own ftm transition.
CAIS is a condition in which as the name says, there is a total or almost total insensitivity to androgen because the Androgen Receptor doesn’t work (there is a mutation). So, a CAIS person is born with XY chromosomes but since lacks of androgens, the fetus cannot masculinize properly. So, organs like uterus, fallopian tubes etc. don’t develope and the body can’t menstruate but reproduces a female apparatus. Testicles are under skin and since can’t develop properly, testosterone (from testicles) aromatise in estrogen.
The majority of people with CAIS identify as women. Still, since I did some research, I found out that there are persons with CAIS like me that identify as men.
I decided to create this blog to spread awareness about us and maybe, to gather people like me!
It is not easy to feel this way because, of course, there is no cure for this condition right now, so, no possibility to have the proper effects of Testosterone.
Anyhow, if someone like me is reading this: you are valid, there are people like us, and we can do something about this :D
Anyway, sorry for my english.
And thank to everybody who read this.
If you want to know more, this guy did an amazing job reporting about this:
https://americantransman.com/2010/07/11/what-makes-gender-part-2-of-male-gender-identity-in-an-individual-with-complete-androgen-insensitivity/
<3
ps.
profile image flag from here: http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Trans-Intersex
The first LGBT group I ever joined asked me to leave because they didn’t consider asexual to count as queer. It wasn’t visible enough to them. And more than that, they were concerned that I was a CisHet man only using the label of asexual to sneak into what was meant to be a safe space
Now that I’m out and transitioned, I still run up against this suspicion that I’m just infiltrating spaces and making them dangerous for the people they’re meant to protect
I’m tired of being seen as a predator when I’m just trying to exist
The patriarchy won lmao
Evergreen
Age verification laws are moving beyond porn sites and social media. Soon, your operating system could be required to know how old you are.
“be gay do crime! but sex is yucky and crime is wrong!” ass website
i appreciate this, but in a world where your gay brothers and sisters are being actively punished if not outright killed for having sex—in a fascist society that is trying to make gay sex a crime and has successfully done so in the past, in ways that still harm us today—we have GOT to be there for gay sex and the people having it. it doesn’t make you any less gay not to have sex, but that’s not something bigots are going to take into account, and if they do, it only stands to make you “one of the good ones” and pit you against your siblings and loved ones. whether someone personally wants sex or not, i think we have a responsibility to defend the people who do just as much as the people who don’t.
i really hate that a lot of trans man passing tips are just
"dont smile dont get excited dont seem happy dont be friendly dont be cheerful"
thats my favorite hobby???? what am I supposed to do now???
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going to wrestle trans women in the park today
