I'm nonbinary and after two years of searching, I finally found a name I like, but the moment I told one of my closest friends that, he went "yeah... I'm still gonna call you _____" which really hurt me. I mean, he's not the best of people, but I've been friends with him for a long time, how do I get him to call me by the right name?
In my eyes, it's either he gets his shit together and does it or you gotta drop him like a hot potato, even though that sounds very harsh and also is a very hard thing to do. Explain to him that he's being a dickhead and making you feel like shit by doing what he is, and that you wouldn't like to but that you will stop talking to him if he continues to make you uncomfortable. People who purposely do something that you asked them not to are not worth your time and certainly aren't good for you to keep around. If they really liked you as much as you deserved they should at least try.










