LOYALTY KILLS.

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                           survivor / slasher ?

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I’ve talked to quite a few people who aren’t aware of the situation in southern Louisiana right now and it’s common knowledge for us folks down here that it’s not being covered too well by national and international media. But – it’s bad. It’s very bad. This is our second flood this year and places that have never flooded before have been devastated, places that are just now recovering from the last one are being devastated again. Everyone I know has either lost something or lost everything. To put it into perspective: 

According to statistics, Louisiana received 6.9 trillion gallons of rain between Aug. 8 and 14. Apparently that’s enough to fill more than 10.4 million olympic-size swimming pools. 75% of my home parish alone has been declared a total loss. In that same parish, 105,000 citizens lost everything in the flood. According to the 2015 census, there are only 137,788 citizens in that parish altogether. And that’s just one of the affected areas.  So far, the death toll has hit 13 and more than 20,000 people along with pets have been rescued and shelters are full. Louisiana needs all the help it can get. We are taking good care of each other, yes, but the more people who know the more help we’ll receive. Here is some content that shows the extent of the damage: x, x, x. For more, just type Louisiana Flood into your Facebook search. You’ll see.  Here is how you can help. If you have any resources to add, feel free.

Volunteer Louisiana > Donations

List of places accepting non-cash donations

Call 1-800-REDCROSS or text LAFLOODS to 90999 to donate $10

Masterlist of sorts of ways to help

Reblog and spread the word

Come hell or high water, we are Louisiana strong.

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me when there’s drama: people are so childish, grow up me also:

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in IMs / skype for the remainder of my scream s2 rewatch while i work on my scream oc. feel free to hmu if you wanna chat / plot. un for skype is dutyslain

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*avoids sadness and pain with self-destructive behavior* :~)

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☼ How long do you stay mad?

honestly it depends on the situation ?? but most of the time my anger doesn’t last that long, if a certain thing that makes me angry stops appearing the dash, i’ll get over it fast. blacklist works wonders for posts. but if you’ve hurt me in some way? i can hold a grudge. i try not to because it is unhealthy but sometimes i think i’m over something and then someone or something on the dash reminds me & i get angry all over again.

@crimesucks / salt prompt.

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the salty af munday meme

Because, like it or not, we're not all balls of sunshine all the time. We can be pure salt when we want to be.

☠ What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you?

♥ What's the WORST thing that has happened to you rp wise?

♦ What was a mildly annoying thing that has happened to you rp wise?

♢ Has anyone ever tried to steal your blog? Your headcanons? Icons? All that jazz

♚ How many people don't like you?

⚜ How many people do you not like?

✮ Have you managed to stay away from drama?

☄ Have you ever been in the middle of drama?

☯ Have you ever tried to bring peace to a situation?

☼ How long do you stay mad?

☀ What's your rp pet peeve?

☁ Have you ever forgiven a partner when you shouldn't have?

☂ Have you ever been forgiven when you knew you shouldn't have been?

☢ What fads/trends are you so over?

☣ Have you ever rp'd with someone you knew for a fact was abusive but tried to give them a chance/to make up your own opinion on the roleplayer? Did they change or did you understand what people were talking about?

♨ Have you ever made a public call out post?

❀ What has made you completely lose your chill?

✿ What do you think about public call out posts?

✂ A fandom that you feel isn't open and accepting?

✉ A fandom that you feel is open and accepting?

✦ Thoughts on duplicates following you?

✧ Do you agree with reblog karma or is it forced interaction?

❥ Has someone ever ruined an FC or character for you?

❦ Has someone been jealous of you?

❧ Have you ever been jealous of anyone?

✖ How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?

♒ Thoughts on the fandom you're currently rping in?

❣ How salty are you feeling right now?

[paidhisdues]

slipping over to my new oc to do some html stuff til i can get a theme background. don’t have icons or anything rn so i won’t release the url yet.

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keep me company while i rewatch scream season two? mutuals only pls. just let me know your url

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pvris sentence prompts.

❝ darling don’t be so shy. ❞

❝ i’ll see you at midnight. ❞

❝ i’m burning up. ❞

❝ it never seems to end. ❞

❝ don’t you try to run right now. ❞

❝ i can’t help myself. ❞

❝ i heard you down the hall. ❞

❝ who let you in? ❞

❝ i think it’s time to get out. ❞

❝ darling you can’t stay. ❞

❝ you’ve got it all wrong. ❞

❝ you’re a ghost at most. ❞

❝ it’s hard to be what you need. ❞

❝ all you ever do is turn me down. ❞

❝ i’m aching for you. ❞

❝ you can’t cheat death. ❞

❝ i swear that i’ll be fine. ❞

❝ but i’m not ready to say goodnight. ❞

❝ i can’t sleep. ❞

❝ i need to feel you again. ❞

❝ you make my world spin. ❞

❝ i know you’re dead inside. ❞

❝ why can’t you stay? ❞

❝ i’m sorry i keep pushing you away. ❞

❝ i wanna feel something. ❞

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me: *ignores starter call*

me: *ignores drafts*

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gothiccharmschool:

biwomensupport:

voidbat:

stimmyabby:

You don’t have to be grateful that it isn’t worse.

read that. read it again, and again, and again. somebody, somewhere, always has it worse than you. there is one person on this planet that has it the worst of all, and that person is NOT the only person allowed to be unhappy with their lot. if things are bad for you, they are bad for you. period.

This goes for trauma as well. A lot of times survivors get trapped in a cycle of  minimizing/diminishing their trauma because “other people have it worse” - but there is no hierarchy of trauma. There is no ranking system for which traumas are “better” or “worse.” Your trauma is valid. Period.

IMPORTANT TRUTHS.

As a therapist, lemme just say: almost every trauma survivor I’ve ever had has at some point said “But I didn’t have it as bad as some people” and then talked about how other types of trauma are worse. Even my most-traumatized, most-abused, most psychologically-injured clients say this. 

The ones who were cheated on, abandoned, and neglected say this. The ones who were in dangerous accidents/disasters say this. The ones who were horrifyingly sexually abused say this. The ones who were brutally beaten say this. The ones who were psychologically tortured for decades say this. What does that tell you? That one of the typical side-effects of trauma is to make you believe that you are unworthy of care. 

Don’t buy into it, because it’s nonsense. It doesn’t matter if someone else had it “worse.” Every person who experiences a trauma deserves to get the attention and care they need to heal from it.