Parapaca Reblogs

[parapaca1]

Parapaca reblogs 🦙

this blog is meant for reblogging Paraphile positivity posts.

This blog doesnt support any harm to anyone sentient who can’t consent, like kids, and any bullying and unnecessary rude behaviour. If you do, this blog isnt for you

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@zoophilic-disorder a zoophile positivity blog

@zoophilic-confessions a blog dedicated to zoophiles’ vents and so on

MAP Resources

MAP Resources compiles expert-backed support resources for minor-attracted people. Know a resource we should add? Suggest it!

[lycanidaze]

Paraphilic alterhumans are important and valuable members of the community.

Nobody's thoughts (paraphilic or not,) inherently mean they are a bad person or that they want to act on said thoughts.

You agree.

[anti-c-pomni]

Liking lolicon doesn't mean you're a pedophile, but also, being a pedophile doesn't mean you're an offender.

There's a lot of misconceptions around the idea that all pedophiles offend, when most child sex offenders aren't even pedophiles! A lot of child sex abuse is done out of a desire for power and control, the same with all types of abuse.

Fiction affects reality. But the difference between fact and fiction is that, in real life, real children can be harmed by your actions, and you have the ability and responsibility to choose not to hurt them. In fiction, nobody is harmed, and in many cases recovery is often facilitated through it.

So enjoy your fanfics and drawings. They hurt nobody. <3

[chartreuseschaos-deactivated202]

This user is supportive towards all paraphilias.

Paraphilia is an uncomfortable, highly stigmatized topic wrongly associated inherently with committing abusive acts, making it near impossible to create compassionate, educational, and fair conversation about it. It is crucial not to let disgust rule your better judgment when it comes to this topic.

The term Paraphilia was coined in 1904 by ethnologist Friedrich Salomon Krauss as a way to describe an orientation that fell outside of the norm, at the time this was considered any sexual behaviour that didn't serve the purpose of procreation. Nowadays it is primarily used as an identity label by those with taboo orientations.

Some of the population happens to have orientations which include abusive, unsanitary, obscure, or otherwise taboo preferences, some of which cannot be acted upon due to the non-consensual harm they will cause. I firmly believe caring about preventing abuse requires an indepth understanding of paraphilias.

The truth is that a signficant amount of sexual offenses are commited opportunistically to exert power, rather than done by someone who genuinely has a paraphilic orientation. I am however not going to sugarcoat the reality that some individual paraphiles do offend.

In order for paraphiles to lead a positive life, it is important they are not shamed, especially not for what they haven't done. Framing them as disgusting monsters who are doomed to offend is not going to prevent them from offending. Ostracization and self-hatred will actually more likely encourage offense, for they might feel like they have no positive experience of life to protect anyway. It is not encouraging to do good whatsoever when it feels like no one in the entire world will ever have a kind thought about you. This is not an excuse to offend, what I'm trying to say is that this hateful, stigmatizing attitude towards paraphiles prevents honest and open conversation about paraphilias, therefor prevents paraphiles access to information and understanding about themselves, therefor brings forth more acts of entirely preventable offense.

Conversion therapy is considered an inhumane practice when it comes to queer people, so why should it be any different for paraphiles? Through things like art, writing, dolls, roleplay, and fantasies, paraphiles can engage with their paraphilias in ways that objectively do not cause harm. What they do evoke in many is disgust, which is not a emotion that should rule your morality.

It might be easy to think why can't paraphiles just not exist so I don't have to be uncomfortable and question my morality? Well, they do exist, and they will never not exist, because paraphilia isn't an hereditary disease that you can eugenics out of the population, neither is it something you can socially conform out of existence. Paraphilias are inherent.

[chartreuseschaos-deactivated202]

This is an example to draw a comparison between a much more socially acceptable phenomenon versus how a paraphilia works. James has a crush on his best friend Billy, who does not reciprocate these feelings or desires.

Would it be abusive for James to act on his feelings regardless? Yes, of course, that would not be consensual, because Billy does not reciprocate. Does this inherently make his attraction to Billy abusive? Or even his orientation itself? No, of course not. People of any orientation are undoubtedly going to have attraction to others that don't reciprocate.

In the case of a paraphile, that innate attraction or preference to something taboo is the paraphilia. Not any potential harmful act that could stem from it.

[inkztruecolorz]

HI. I made a zoo flag

I like to call this the harmony flag, born from me not really being satisfied with other flags plus having a vision for a really cool cloudy looking one. I like making flags occasionally, and especially experimenting with them!!!

This is an inherently anti-contact and anti-abuse flag, and encourages recovery from paraphilic disorders by finding ways to manage your paraphilias, as you can't force them to disappear.

Color meanings, horizontal stripes flag, layers, and 2 versions of the symbol (one vector and one hand drawn, personally like hand drawn keke) below cut

Meaning

Horizontal stripes

Layers & symbol

Vector on the left, hand drawn on the right

I also could release the kra files. Anyone interested ? Idk how converting to psd may work. I think Krita can just do that ????? It's a powerful software what can I say

Feel free to make variants of this flag (i.e species-specific stuff, intersections with other paras, etc)

[anti-c-pomni]

Shoutout to physically disabled paraphiles

Shoutout to intellectually disabled paraphiles

Shoutout to fat paraphiles

Shoutout to hairy paraphiles

Shoutout to paraphiles who fit the "fat unwashed neckbeard" stereotype

Shoutout to paraphiles with personality disorders

Shoutout to Black paraphiles

Shoutout to Brown paraphiles

Shoutout to Asian paraphiles

Shoutout to Indigenous paraphiles

Shoutout to trans paraphiles

Shoutout to intersex paraphiles

You are such an important part of this community and are loved for who you are <3

[better-treatment-for-everyone]

Therian zoos deserve community, too. Therian zoos shouldn't have to worry about being shunned for something that may or may not even be a big part of their identity. Therian zoos should be able to exist in therian spaces.

I don't feel safe in therian spaces myself due to the bullshit against zoos. I don't feel safe in a community about being yourself. I am NOT a danger to animals, and a lot of us are not, but we get told to kill ourselves anyway!

Paraphile de-stigmatization is so fucking important for these reasons. Paraphiles deserve to be in spaces that non-paraphiles inhabit; we're not inherently abusers, or a danger to be around. People are all about freaks and self love until you're something they don't like. Then you're too freaky, worthy of being put down, and unlovable.

Therian community: do better.

[zoophilic-disorder]

🌱 Affirmations for zoophiles who were exposed to zoophilia and harmful content at a young age...

You are not at fault for your own paraphilia, you did not cause this for yourself, and you are not to blame,

You are still a good person, you are not lesser as a being for indulging or discovering these things at a younger age,

You are not an abuser for viewing animal harm before you could make informed decisions,

You are not disgusting, impure, or irredeemable for having had access to this content,

Your past acts do not define you, you understand the harm within those ideals and that content now,

It is okay to make mistakes, fuck up, and learn (hard way or not), you are not evil, you were a kid.

Regardless of if you were groomed into this content or zoophilia in general, or you discovered it on your own, you're not to blame.

You do not want to hurt animals, you will not reenact what you saw, you will be okay. Getting into harmful things when you're younger and have less of an understanding of the true harm behind it can make things much scarier as you get older. Not all zoophiles are bad people, including you.

You are not a bad person.

When I was much younger, I accessed this content, believing it wasn't harmful as I wasn't the one committing the acts. I didn't understand that I was still indulging in things that were at the exploitation of real animals, that a real animal was still being abused.

The guilt and self disgust from knowing I had access to that content is so repulsive now, and its made my intrusive thoughts significantly worse. I cannot go back in time and stop myself from doing this at such a vulnerable age, I can only continue on where I can and do my best to reduce harm.

You are not alone in doing things like this.

You will still be loved.

[para-normalcanine]

Hey i love you therians who are zoos. Being a zoo does not invalidate your nonhuman identity is any way

[zoophilic-disorder]

🌱 Shoutout to zoos who use art as an outlet!

Shoutout to zoos who draw themselves happy and at peace with their identity!

Shoutout to zoos who draw vent art of their urges and attractions!

Shoutout to zoos who draw animals from their fandoms or their own ocs!

Shoutout to zoos who draw themselves as animals!

Shoutout to zoos who draw self ship with exclusively animal characters!

Shoutout to zoos who draw self ship with exclusively human characters!

Shoutout to zoos who draw feral/feral!

Shoutout to zoos who draw feral/anthro!

Shoutout to zoos who draw anthro/anthro!

Shoutout to zoos who draw!!

[maggotsundermybones]

shout out to zoos who use fiction to cope with their para

shout out to zoos who selfship themselves with a fictional animal

shout out to zoos who draw feral art

shout out to zoos who write to cope too

shout out to sadistic zoos

shout out to necrophile zoos

shout out to asexual zoos

shout out to aromantic zoos

shout out to aroace zoos

just shout out to all anti-c zoos out there (⁠*⁠＾⁠3⁠＾⁠)⁠/⁠～⁠♡

[imyaimya0]

you aren’t bad for being a paraphile.

You are not a monster for being a paraphile.

You are not your attraction.

You matter.

[xparalynx]

Anti-Abuse Paraphilic

Anti-Abuse is a standpoint in the contact discourse about paraphilias. It describes someone who does not act out their attractions with those who don't or can't consent but it allows to find healthy and non-abusive alternatives such as roleplay with consenting adults or fiction. Some Paraphilias don't involve living beings but objects, they can be acted on without restrictions. Some Paraphilias such as somnophilia can be acted on but only under certain conditions, like for example a partner that explicity gives consent for this kind of interaction. Some Paraphilias such as P3d0philia involve living beeings that can't consent, therefore any sexual contact with them is absolutely not okay. The anti-abuse stance allows them to act on their attraction only through roleplay with consenting adults or within their own fantasies or fiction.

Anti-Abuse could be seen as a more specific and open-minded version of anti-contact since it shares the anti-contact standpoint but shows ways of non-abuse forms of how one can act on their paraphilic attraction.

The anti-abuse stance also includes the believe that someone can't choose their attractioin including paraphilias, however acknowledges that paraphilias are not the same as sexual orientation. People should not be demonised for having attraction they can't choose, this includes paraphilias. Just because someone has a paraphilia doesn't make them a monster. It is always a matter of how you act. What's going on in someone's mind doesn't cause harm and we shouldn't police fantasies, instead we should strive towards empathy and compassion towards everyone and not harm anyone.

Edit: changed the meaning of the second stripe from "empathy" to "compassion" because lacking empathy doesn't make someone a bad person and people who lack empathy can still be very compassionate towards other. Sorry for the mistake I made.

Important Note: this is NOT radqueer

To learn about my stance on the radqueer community click here.